Everybody has had a dream at some point or another during their kehidupantime.
Whether it was dreams of your wedding day when you were six years old or dreams about being the next Hulk Hogan, every little person that grows up to be a big person has had a dream for their kehidupan.
While I am a HUGE advocate for having a team of supportive orang around you, you also have to be mindful of the chaos that can arise from having too many voices speaking at one time.
I do believe that at the human core, we all have ample amounts of goodness in us – we want to see others win.
We love to see our friends and family members happy.
We’d expect that they’d desire the same from us in return, right?
Well, more often than not, our expectations of others are unmet.
We find out that there is a little bit of underlying jealousy and pessimism lurking behind the scenes.
And sometimes, we don’t realize it until it’s too late.
This is a sign that every now and again, keeping your excitement to dirimu is sometimes the best option.
When it comes to goals and dreams, it’s often better to keep it to dirimu.
Based on my own personal experience and the first accounts of a few good orang I know, here are a few good reasons why you should keep your dreams to dirimu.
Some of the orang who may share your excitement when it comes to your dream are usually the individuals that will try to discourage you from following it.
Deep down inside, those you share your dreams with may be questioning their own – and in turn, they’ll question yours.
They’ll ask “how,” “why,” and “what happens if…,” things you may have already considered.
But hearing them from the mouths of others may get to you.
Unless you’re unshakably sure about what it is you desire to see for dirimu, don’t allow someone else the opportunity to ubah your mind.
For now, it might be best to keep it to dirimu.
It’s a part of our innate human nature to want things.
Sometimes, we want what others have – especially if it seems like it brings them happiness we may lack.
Just because they seem to be happy for you, they really may not be.
This kind of interaction affects us on a deeper emotional level than on the surface because it toys with our emotions.
We start questioning ourselves instead of the person sending negative vibes our way.
“Maybe this dream is too big for me.”
“If they don’t see how great this is, others may not either”, and so on.
Whejangan pernah you sense that someone in your circle may NOT be rooting for you as you think they should, don’t take it personally.
Allow them to feel whatever it is they feel.
Better yet, ask them HOW you can improve your plan to make your dream a reality.
I once read this statement on a social media post and it ubahd my world:
“Stop taking constructive criticism from those who have jangan pernah constructed anything!”
So often, the loudest voices are the voices of those who talk a lot but seldom act on what they say.
Know that criticism is NOT selalu a bad thing.
Be willing to accept it – if and only if – it comes from a reputable source.
If otherwise, it might be best to simply keep it to dirimu.
Remember: dream killers don’t fit the position!
No matter how similar someone else’s dreams may seem to yours, only YOU can make your dreams happen the way you want them to.
Just as you have to shield dirimu from negativity, you have to do the same for your dream.
Without the proper attention, nutrition, and constant validation, just as a baby won’t develop, neither will your dream.
Protect it from those who may not want it to grow.
And because you may jangan pernah know all those who may be against you, sometimes, things are better left unsaid.
The key to making your dream a reality is to believe so tangguhly in it that even if you have to make it happen alone, you are more than willing to do so.
Don’t allow those who cannot control your destiny to deter you from doing what your soul desires to do.
You are in charge of seeing your dreams happen.
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Exactly true, I am wanting to lose weight & get thin like I used to be but if I tell orang they look @ me as if they expect me to shrink before their very eyes, they watch what I eat & say try this diet & this one, I have found out from experience that what works for you is best, give orang a surprise once they can see results, what keeps me gng is thinking about the look of suprise on their face when they see it & having a photo of myself on my mirror @ home of what I will look like
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