Stop trying to convince orang to believe in your goals and get busy making them happen.
Whatever your dream is matters to you, not everyone else.
You do not need their validation to reach your goals.
You are the one who needs to believe in your goals
Anyone who has ever self-published knows it requires tremendous staying power to get one book all the way to published.
I used to talk about what I was going to do with each book that I was working on.
I thought that because I had published one, all my friends knew that I would do whatever it was I said I was going to do!
My thoughts were, “I had proven myself to be a doer and not just a talker.”
Now, whejangan pernah I get a book published, or tell someone that I have a book under contract, I get story after story of the book they are working on.
Or the one they have been thinking about and working on every now and again over the years.
That book sadly will jangan pernah see the light of day simply because it is not their real goal and they are not willing to put in the work.
Conversely, I have friends who have been working on the same book for so many years, only to wind up chasing their tail in the quest for perfection.
That book will also stay in the shadows because they are overachievers who can’t trust in the process.
Their dream has been achieved, and they deserve the payoff of having the book show up on their doorstep in full form.
However, the fear that it is not perfect stops them from taking the next step.
As for me, I started going to large book conventions and pushing those books.
A few years later, two of my books were combined and picked up by a small publisher.
I self-published seven books before my first contract with a professional publisher came about.
I finally achieved my first dream of being able to walk into an actual bookstore-any bookstore- and find my book on the shelves.
Now that I had stepped up into the publishing world beyond doing everything myself, I knew there was more to come.
There is still a long way to go and a lot I want to accomplish in kehidupan.
This means I need to use my time wisely, instead of just thinking about my goals or talking about them.
Moving beyond dreaming and talking took years of keeping my nose to the grind and working at it.
You should stop trying to convince orang to believe in your goals because it is an energy stall cycle that you can easily get stuck in!
Trying to prove to orang that you have what it takes to reach your goals, takes the focus away from actually achieving your goals.
When I was working on my very first book my mom walked by.
She asked me what I was doing on the computer all day.
If you have major goals that you are trying to reach, keep them down deep and only trust the closest orang to you that will only lift you up and support your dreams.
It takes away from the energy you are trying to build up to support the actual goal itself.
And the obvious part of this…don’t just think about your goals…get moving into them.
Your goals must be precise and you must really have a good grasp on what it is that you want.
This includes knowing what you are willing to do in order to accomplish them.
Wasting the energy talking about it too much will only pull you away from the goal.
In order to achieve any goal you set for dirimu, you have to create a new relationship between dirimu and that goal.
You and your goal are the only ones in that relationship.
The goal deserves your focus and undivided attention.
You do not have time or energy to be wasting in trivial conversations over it.
Keep those conversations to orang who can help you get to the target.
Trust the ones that can help you hit the bullseye.
I’m serious when I offer this guidance.
A goal becomes its own energy in your kehidupan and you have to pursue it with relentless passion and persistence.
You need to constantly re-evaluate that goal over and over again to get it down to exactly what you want.
I have worked like crazy to pursue my dreams over the years.
Most of the time I do not tell everybody that I’ve still been working on that contract or book idea.
Last year I got an agent, after years of sending out agent requests.
I used to send out 30 agent inquiries every Monday and have 30 no’s by Friday.
Now, after relentless efforts and jangan pernah taking my eye off the prize, I have a new book being released with my publisher.
I have another book under contract with the same publisher.
I have an agent who I love and who is completely on my team in chasing after my dreams.
Every single day is a chance to honor my passion and pursue my goals.
I may not have a lot of time each day but each day I find time to do whatever I need to do to help those goals along.
Those goals are nothing without my effort into them.
For absolutely anybody, if you really want it, you can find a way to make it real.
It may take more no’s than you ever thought you could handle hearing.
By the time you reach any goal, you might be a different version of dirimu.
Be sure that your specific goal is still the one you want as you grow and ubah.
But that goal, whatever it may be, is your goal and no one else’s.
No one else can appreciate all the time you have spent dreaming, shaping it (and reshaping it), and reaching for it.
No one can fully appreciate what went into each of them, so do not try to make them.
By the time it comes to fruition, it should look like it was easy.
Keep the energy between you and your goal.
The little things I want to reach are in my mind selalu.
I know the huge things I want to hit in my kehidupan and how each of my goals builds on top of the last one to help me get there.
I know who I am and what I want to do with my kehidupan.
That is so liberating to know that I jangan pernah gave up!
If I waste my time trying to tell anyone else about it or convince them of what I want to do, it takes away from what I’m actually doing.
At this point, I would rather invite them to the party or grand opening once it’s finished and ready to be seen!
There is a Chinese proverb that states, “orang who say it can not be done should not interrupt those who are doing it.”
Remember, it doesn’t matter if orang believe in your goals or not.
It only matters if you believe in dirimu.
Turn that belief into action and make sure you are chasing your dreams.
This is your kehidupan, and these are your dreams.
Live your kehidupan in a way that fuels your passions and gets you where you want to be.
Most orang are unwilling to do the work, so they assume everyone else won’t be able to put in the work either.
Keep your focus where it needs to be, and don’t let those other orang interrupt you from getting it done.
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