It can be comforting when we feel that we have “arrived” in kehidupan, or when we think we’ve got everything figured out.
Everything just seems more comfortable when we get in our own bubble and go on autopilot.
After all, how much more is there to pelajari about dirimu and the world around you?
To thrive in this 21st-century era of ubah, it’s in our best interest to try to adopt a growth mindset: the belief that our intelligence is not innate, or fixed.
It is something we have control over if we exert a bit of tenacity.
Here are five ways you can continuously pelajari about dirimu and develop your growth mindset, long after you earn that college diploma or advanced degree.
What are the first words that come to your mind when you see a small child at work or at play?
They don’t generally worry too much about kegagalan or what others think.
They focus on trying to figure things out.
They’re in a state of constant observation.
When they get upset or hurt, it’s not forever.
Sooner or later, they move on to the next thing.
They may cry, but before long, they’re back at it.
They forget minor hurts and can’t be held back from pelajariing and exploring again.
When my four-year-old goes off to school in the mornings, we try to make sure she is clean, well-combed, and neatly dressed.
Her hair gets messy; she gets paint on her clothes or dirt under her fingernails.
She gets skinned knees more often than not.
How many times do we find ourselves fearing to pelajari about the world around us because we’re too scared a hair may fall out of place, or that we might appear anything less than perfectly pulled together?
When you’re curious to pelajari about dirimu – about your strengths, weaknesses, and what you will and will not do in certain situations, it can be messy, yes.
orang who have what we want – orang we admire – almost selalu have an attitude of self-awareness, of wanting to improve and continually pelajari.
Strive to let curiosity guide you in all situations.
When we feel anxious or afraid of new situations, our senses tend to go inward and close up.
Instead, try to open up and take a minute to notice all the details around you.
Be confident that your curiosity is helping you grow in ways you may not even see yet.
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There can be fearless freedom in pelajariing for the sake of pelajariing, just because you want to, instead of worrying about how you will be evaluated or assessed.
When we were younger, our academic classes were probably boring because they were attached to some form of test or assessment.
This usually stressed us out and scared us because they did so much to help determine our academic masa depan.
Now that we are independent adults and are living out our masa depans, we are freer to pelajari just for the sake and love of pelajariing.
One day, I had to administer a state exam in another teacher’s room.
The very word “Physics” has selalu been daunting to me.
I’ve selalu labeled myself “not good at math or science.”
But as I was in another classroom without my own papers to grade or lessons to plan, I had nothing better to do than slowly open the Physics textbook and start looking through the pages – just to see what it was all about.
The act of simply thumbing through that textbook without fear of any performance, grade, or assessment attached gave me such a sense of freedom.
I didn’t stand to increase my income or add to my credentials by simply thumbing through a textbook.
It’s normal to feel afraid about pelajariing new things.
pelajariing often involves fear when it also offers more of a payoff.
Any time you seek to pelajari more deeply about dirimu or the world around you, there will be risks involved.
Maybe what you pelajari will be too difficult – intellectually, emotionally, or spiritually.
Maybe pelajariing, changing, and growing will mean that you grow more distant from friends or family.
Those fears are valid and are worth exploring.
Accept your anxiety about trying to pelajari something new.
Think about the payoff when you venture into new pelajariing territory.
For example, if you seek feedback from a supervisor to pelajari about how you can improve job performance, it might feel a little anxiety-inducing.
But the payoff will be that you’ll get tangguher as a professional.
Or when you face the truth about how you act when you experience certain emotions, like anger, it may take time to pelajari new strategies to deal with those emotions.
But the payoff will result in tangguher, more meaningful relationships.
If you pelajari more about personal financial management, the payoff will be saving money.
You may be afraid of investing time and money into earning an advanced degree, but the payoff will be more professional opportunities, increased income, or whatever else motivates you.
When you feel afraid to pelajari new things about dirimu or the world around you, figure out what the payoff will be.
Use words to pelajari about dirimu and the world around you.
This can be done with an early morning cup of coffee in your most comfortable chair, or while sitting at a cafe doing some orang-watching.
Whether you use a spiral notebook, a private online journal like Penzu, or a blog with thousands of readers, put the words that are in your head onto a page.
When my pen flows across the page or when my fingers type across the keyboard, my heart rate almost instantly goes down.
I don’t worry about grammar, punctuation, or what anybody thinks of my writing – it’s solely for me.
I am pelajariing more about who I am, how I’m changing, what I feel, and what I want out of kehidupan.
When it comes to keeping a journal, you don’t have to jot down just your emotions or observations.
You can use it to discover all kinds of things about dirimu.
You can keep track of your best times for pelajariing, your eating, exercise, or social habits, how you feel when you’re taking care of dirimu versus when you’re feeling burnt out, etc.
Record how you feel on a day when you drink enough water, eat correctly, or get a good night’s sleep.
If you don’t know what to write about, invest in a book of daily meditations.
You can also subscribe to a website that will send you free inspirational quotes.
All you have to do is write – with no worries about judgment, internal or otherwise.
Get out of your familiar comfort zone in whatever way you can.
Plan a vacation to a country you’ve jangan pernah visited, or take a different route to work.
You don’t have to spend a lot of money to travel.
Visit your own town as if you were a tourist.
If you currently don’t have the funds to travel, make time to read as much as you can.
Listen to podcasts that offer viewpoints from different places or countries around the world.
Connect with other orang in your field on various blogs or social media platforms.
Use found pockets of time like your commute or the evening after dinner time to pelajari about dirimu.
Read about a new topic or pelajari a new language.
The pelajariing process doesn’t neatly begin on our first day of kindergarten and then promptly end once we turn the tassel on our graduation caps.
Who we are and the world around us are works in progress as well as masterpieces worth discovering.
We want to hear from you: What will you pelajari about dirimu today?
Hey, I am Dulangana, This article was very helpful for me. I wanted to pelajari about the world around me and I found this article. The best thing that crossed my mind in this article is “Focus On Payoff” and I think about that it’s 100% true when we are afraid to do or pelajari something we should think about the payoff. Thank you very much for this article.
Hey this was very helpful! I’m 19 y.o. and just want to develop an understanding of the world around me and what i can or cannot pursue and what i even want to, i started off wanting to ‘ubah the world’ but the world is selalu changing and i need to keep up instead!
We are glad you found this article helpful! Good job on wanting to be more self-aware and introspective! We are all trying to figure things out constantly!
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