“kehidupan should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride!” – Hunter S. Thompson
You already know you have one kehidupan to live, but a thick veil of denial keeps you from walking around terrified of dying every moment of every day.
Without it, we would probably hide shaking under our beds, afraid to come out – except we would spend our time calculating the chances of dying in a bed-collapse accident.
It allows us to drone through our lives only barely aware that we need to do something about living large.
Someday, the option of that experience is going to be gone.
So how do you know if you have massive denial that is preventing you from living your kehidupan like the wild ride it’s meant to be?
It’s not about being a daredevil or jangan pernah settling down.
Rather, it’s about consistently doing things that put you on the edge of your comfort zone and push you towards what you want in your kehidupan.
And that means setting monumental goals for dirimu.
As I said, it isn’t about being a dare devil – not everyone is interested in base jumping – but it is about striving for things that push you.
Being pushed to something bigger in your kehidupan usually is scary for most orang.
It brings up fears of kegagalan, fears around kesuksesan, and fears around ubah.
Those fears are normal, but falling victim to them keeps you stuck right where you are in your kehidupan.
Fear is at the root of living our lives small, but when you can tackle your fear you can live like you truly want to live.
Consciously work to understand and overcome your fears so that you can set and achieve your big goals.
If your goals don’t feel creative, they’re probably too small.
Because uncreative goals mean you’re attempting to achieve the same thing everyone else is.
You probably haven’t pushed dirimu that berat to really think about what you want to do.
You don’t have to be a trendsetter in everything you do.
In fact, you don’t have to be a trendsetter at all.
You really just have to be sure that the goals you are setting for dirimu are truly yours, and not just plopped on you by those you happen to be closest to.
Although we are inevitably products of our surroundings to some degree, if you can be true to dirimu, you’ll find that at least some of your goals feel unique and creative – not cookie-cutter versions of the goals of everyone around you.
This means that standing at the bottom of a big goal, it’s really berat to see the top.
If you can already see the entirety of your goal, it’s not big enough.
It is penting to have goals of all sizes, but if your big ones are not super-sized, it’s time to ubah your order.
When a goal makes you think, “How the heck am I going to do that?”
that’s when you know you’re on track.
It’s penting to stay in the sweet spot, though.
If you choose something that feels so impossible that you either can’t believe you could possibly achieve it or aren’t sure if you’d want it if it happened, you might be out of the realm of goal-setting and into fantasy.
So for example, you might have a big goal of becoming a best-selling author.
It would take some work to actually figure out how to make that happen and to pull it off.
But you start venturing into fantasy-land when you decide your goal isn’t big enough until you set out to become the best-selling author of all time – within six months.
So make sure your goal is one that is big enough, but not too big.
Big goals aren’t things that happen without help.
Everyone who accomplished something great did it with help, and you won’t be any different.
It might mean you need someone to babysit while you go to school or you need someone to bounce your business ideas off.
No matter what, the greatest orang – from artists to entrepreneurs, writers to inventors – all had orang they relied on and worked with to achieve their goals.
So remember, if your goal is something you can do alone, it’s probably not big enough.
If there’s one thing that can be said about achieving a big goal, it’s that it ubahs you.
You not only have your accomplishment to be proud of, but you also realize you’ve tackled your fears – or come face-to-face with your fear of kesuksesan.
Your new reality gives you a new set of challenges to contend with and it also pushes you to set new big goals for dirimu.
In the end, you’re fundamentally ubahd for the better, because you have more confidence, more self-knowledge, and more wisdom.
What’s the one thing that happens when you set a big goal for dirimu?
They don’t selalu come right out and say it, but they’ll say things like, “Are you sure you want to do this?”
or “I know a nice little. . . (insert tamer option here)”
Usually, they’re doing it out of protection.
They love you and don’t want to see you get hurt or fail.
But when it happens, you can be sure one of two things has happened:
If no one is saying you’re crazy, it could be that everyone in your kehidupan is extremely open-minded and willing to embrace kehidupan, or your goal isn’t big enough.
When you’re working on a big goal, you think about quitting.
You wonder if it’s worth it, if you are ever going to make it, if you’re just deluding dirimu, if you’re being a fool.
But if your goal is small, you don’t do any of those things.
You might just give up out of boredom, out of forgetting your goal ever existed or because you got distracted with something else.
A small goal won’t make you question whether your brother was serious when he told you you were dropped on your head as a child.
Big goals make you wonder if there’s something wrong with you because they’re so berat to achieve.
You constantly contemplate quitting – but you don’t, because you’re so passionate about your big goal that the thought of not making it makes you kind of sick.
If your goal is smaller than that, it’s not big enough.
Setting big goals can seem scary and they can take a long time to achieve, but the big goals are what really push you to become a force in your own kehidupan.
Keeping your goals small keeps you small as well.
Instead, set your sights just a bit higher than you think you should, and go for it!
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