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Heartbreaks

by: Christine Tolentino

Finding someone that you will fall in love with is one of the best things that will happen to you. Loving someone is one of the great things that you will do. Being in love is the most wonderful thing you'll feel in your life. But what if you discover that the person that you love most, the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, shared a part of his heart to another person?

Some of us have fallen out of love with the person that we're supposed to be still inlove with, or had lost the spark and the chemistry to the other person we used to love. It gives us this bad feeling. It could even hurt you, and regret that everything has to end. Okay, that's tough, because you cannot bring back the old feelings that you had, and you just have to leave it all behind, but what about the people who is still deeply in love with the other had just discovered that they had to share the heart to a stranger?

Learning that you had been cheated by the person you have trusted so much is far painful than falling out of love with the person you have to leave behind. It's traumatic, heart wrenching, and wounding to the person cheated. Instant reaction would be feeling of coldness, trembling and even numbness, and all you feel like is anger and rage against the person who has cheated you. You'll even say that you will never forget what the person did and you'll never take the person back if he or she still wants a second chance.

But what if after all that the person has done to you, all the lies, broken promises and betrayal, still you still love this person, that you still long for this person? Is this right? Deceit, lies and cheating are the things, which are hard to accept especially with the one you love so much, for the fact that you will eventually loose trust to the person who has done this to you. With that, you just have to face the fact that he or she is with another person. All you have to do is to let go and move, period. Never even harbor hard feelings or good feelings towards the person for it could be affecting to you. Take for the fact that I have experienced it and it was so awful. I keep on looking back and sometimes reminisce the good times we spent together, but that was wrong. You have to let go of everything in your system, even though it means that in the meantime you have to forget the person too. Time can be a great healer, and with time and setting aside what happened in the past could help you recover from heartbreak and in time, you will be able to start all over again, making you a stronger person than you have been before�

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Love and a New Start

by: Christine Tolentino

I asked myself if I have I been inlove. I checked myself and recalled the past and what happened to me back then. Reminiscing the old times, I knew I loved but I hated, I gave everything but I took nothing. That was hard, and those were the rough times when I was now asking myself, if that was really love, or I�ve been just a fool for believing that everything was for love.

I didn�t know if I have been stupid for falling for someone who just claimed he loved me but never really showed it. There was this time I remembered; I was waiting for his call. Two days, three days, and on the fourth day he called, he just said sorry and he was busy and still I have been patient, I tried to understand and it was history. I even have to stay late even up to for a.m. so I could talk to him and say goodnight and sweet dreams. First my friends couldn�t say anything. They know I wouldn�t listen and I would just only be upset.

There was this instance that a girl�s name was mentioned and he made me believe that it�s his cousin and I�ve been a total idiot for believing him. The girl was actually his ex-girlfriend whom he said was now his best pal. I accepted it. If he couldn�t extend his part for our relationship I had been so willing to extend mine even I knew it would hurt me so to just do it. I told myself, I was inlove.

My friends was so furious and started telling me, I have to wake up to the reality that I�m nuts, I�m a fool for being such a martyr. I just cried and I told them that I wanted to do everything just to keep everything. I should have listened to them in the first place because it was pretty obvious that the guy doesn�t really care about me. I�m just obsessed about the relationship.

To make everything worst, we did not see each other for three weeks and still I shook myself and convinced myself to understand him. One day I woke up, and discovered that there was another girl in his life, way older than me. I was so exasperated, so mad and I just didn�t know what to do. I wanted the relationship to last long, but that has been the price to all the sacrifices I had made. I made him chose between me and the lady and he coolly chose her. He�s such a creep, but I have my fault.

I began to seek for revenge and for fun, dating and playing along. Days passed by and I have different dates almost everyday. I wanted to throw in his face that the girl he just let go could date as many guys as she want. But everything was not easy. I was not that type of girl. All that was in my heart is hatred.

Everything had not been so happy to me. I realized that I was not happy, and I was incomplete and everything was useless, that I couldn�t have the revenge I want, and I have to stop being a player and breaking others� hearts. I had stopped being like that, and everything is over now.

I did not seek for someone who could love me as much as I could give my love to him, and God had been so good to me. He wanted me to be at peace. He knew what I have been through, and He gave me someone that I could love so much and who could love me back that much too. Founding him and loving him made me think twice of being a player again, getting broken hearted or leaving someone broken hearted. I learned my lesson in the past and I could have him thanked, the guy who broke my heart for setting me free and for teaching me a lesson. Finally, I found the love of my life in my freedom. Now, I am so happy and inlove, and I know I deserve that. This guy love me so much, gives me the importance, his time and showed me how much I am to him.

I thank God that I�ve found him and I love him and I�ll still love him through and through.

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