Sometimes it is easy to say something with out thinking of the consequences. I find myself having conversation with people who only view one side of the situation. It's hard to tell them something 'cause i don't want to hurt them and they haven't fully seen every possible prespective or at least a prespective that is other than theirs. I find it hard to tell anyone anything that they can relate to because i feel they need to endure what they are going through. Sometimes one needs to think about the situations they are in, instead of looking for some quick solution to get their mind off it.
I think a lot of situations, but i have come to the belief that view situations from various prespectives is a good therapy. I can't view an event only from my view, but i should be viewing it from all sides. I can't stay mad or angry or depressed for something that has happened i should instead work with those feelings and the prespective of those involved.