i'm puffstar...sometimes called..puff...duffy...puffinator...and some others probally not worth mentioning here...grinns.
i'm a submissive, please don't think, that makes me a doormat..or an inferior person. Nothing could be further from the truth.
submissives are neither inferior or weak, we are very strong individuals, who enjoy submitting to One...please note One..while i hope i am respectful to A/all, i only offer my submission to One.
i am not into BDSM as such, i am into Master/sub, with a light dusting of BDSM , i am not into much pain. i have spent practically a lifetime trying to ease pain & suffering in others, i cannot equate pain with pleasure, to me pain is an enemy...something to either be avoided at all costs, or controlled to bring a level of comfort.
To me M/s is a blending of T/two peoples needs...that blending of minds can bring an intense feeling of pleasure & satisfaction. He needs to control...i need to be controlled. i don't mean micromanaged, it's more that deep intense sense of being owned & controlled..To know i'm pleasing Him gives me a satisfaction that sooths & yet excites my mind.
Having said that, it does not mean i'm a yes Sir, right away Sir sub. It's more subtle, deeper than that.
Seduce my mind, You may have my body, seduce my soul, & i'm Yours forever!
