Instructional Interventions for Verbal Aggression

 

Examples of behavior

 

  • Harassment, racial slurs
  • Sexual comments, gang comments
  • Threats, bullying
  • Name calling, put downs
  • Obscene or profane language
  • Screaming, yelling, loud remarks

 

Desired alternative behavior(s)

 

  • Use socially acceptable and respectful language
  • Use conflict resolution/problem solving strategies when in a conflict situation (identify problem, list options, identify consequences, choose one, evaluate effectiveness of choice, review/revise)
  • Use acceptable language to give compliments and/or in social conversations (give examples of words or phrases student should use)
  • Refrain from name calling, threats, bullying, gang comments, sexual comments, obscene language
  • Demonstrate respect to others in language used, tone of voice, voice volume
  • Walk away from conflict/escalating situation
  • Request adult assistance to deal with conflict
  • Tell why certain language/comments are not acceptable and choose acceptable alternatives

 

General instructional strategies that might be useful in teaching the desired behavior(s)

 

  • Teacher sets expectations for an emotionally safe environment for all students
  • Does the student know why comments are unacceptable?  There may be cultural/ethnic issues.  If so, talk to student and explain the problem.  Teach alternatives.
  • Model appropriate language at all times
  • Intervene early when student begins to make inappropriate comments to others so situation does not escalate
  • Communicate with parents about concerns – find out what they allow or don’t allow with their child
  • Teach anger management, stress relief
  • Script and role play better responses, language
  • Peer mediation
  • Build self esteem so students won’t feel a to denigrate others
  • Small group counseling (empathy, acceptance of differences, respect, etc.)

 

 

 

 

Instructional materials that might prove useful in teaching the desired behavior(s)

 

  • TRIBES Curriculum (a research-based community building program)

CenterSource System, LLC, 7975 Cameron Drive, Bldg. 500, Windsor, CA 95492

707/838-1061. www.tribes.com

·                  Don’t Laugh at Me:  Creating a Ridicule Free Classroom from Operation Respect created by Peter Yarrow (of Peter, Paul & Mary).  Packets for Grades 2-5. 6-8, after school, and summer programs.  Can be downloaded free of charge from www.dontlaugh.org

·         Good Thinking; Tough Kid Materials.  Sopris West,  4093 Specialty Place, Longmont, CO 80504.   1-800-547-6747. www.sopriswest.com

  • Creating the Peaceable School; PREPARE Curriculum  Research Press.  P.O. Box 9177, Champaign, IL 61826.  1-800-519-2707.  www.researchpress.com
  •  Discipline with Dignity for Challenging Youth by Mendler and Curwin.  National Education Service, 304 W. Kirkwood Ave, Ste. 2, Bloomington, IN 47404.  1-800-733-6786.  www.nesonline.com
  • Team-building activities for Every Group, More Team-Building Activities for Every Group, and 104 Activities that Build:  Self-Esteem, Teamwork, Communication, Anger Management, Self-Discovery, Coping Skills by Alanna Jones.  RecRoom Publishing, P.O. Box 404, Richland, WA 99352.  1-888-325-GAME.  www.gamesforgroups.com
  • Teaching Tolerance Curriculum and other related materials.   Southern Poverty Law Center, 400 Washington Avenue, Montgomery, AL 36104.  www.splcenter.org/teachingtolerance/tt-index.html
  • Practical Charts for Managing Behavior  by Lynn Lavolle. Pro-Ed, 8700 Shoal Creek Blvd, Austin, TX 78757.  1-800-897-3202.  www.proedinc.com
  • Hot Stuff to Help Kids Chill Out:  The Anger Management Book and  The Anger and Stress Book  by Jerry Wilde, Ph.D.  LGR Publishing, 3083 Main St., East Troy, WI 53120 or through www.amazon.com
  • Teaching Values-Reaching Kids  by Linda Schwartz.  The Learning Works.  www.creativeteaching.com
  • Positive Time Out and over 50 ways to avoid power struggles in the home and the classroom  by Jane Nelson, Ed.D.  Prima Publishing.  www.primapublishing.com
  • What Do You Stand for?  A Kid’s Guide to Building Character  by Barbara A. Lewis.  Free Spirit Publishing, 217 Fifth Avenue North, Ste. 200, Minneapolis. MN 55401-1299.   www.freespirit.com
  • Social Skill Strategies, 2nd edition ,  Books A and B by Nancy Gajewski, Polly Hirn and Patty Mayo.  Thinking Publications  P.O. Box 163, Eau Claire, WI 54702-0163.  1-800-225-4769.  www.ThinkingPublications.com
  • Esteem Builders, 2nd edition  by Dr. Michele Borba.  Jalmar Press, 24426 S. Main St., Unit 702, Carson, CA 90745.  www.jalmarpress.com
  • Seals series,  English Multicolor Emotions Poster, and various other materials and games for developing self esteem.   135 DuPont St., P.O. Box 760, Plainview, NY 11803-0760.   www.wellness-resources.com
  • www.behavioradvisor.com
  • www.disciplinehelp.com
  • www.interventioncentral.org

 

Adult attention

Escape/avoidance

Power/control

Peer affiliation

Justice/revenge

Teacher:

 

Instructional strategies to promote desired alternative behavior

 

 

 

 

 

 

And/or

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Instructional strategies to reduce the target behavior

[Note:  when alternate behavior is incompatible with target behavior, the same strategy may work both to promote & to reduce]

 

-          Teach negotiating, compromising, problem solving ,  conflict resolution

-          Role play

-          Teach respect,

-          Teach about nonverbal communication, personal space, body language, voice volume, etc.

-          Prevent lag time, lots of down time

-          Have clear expectations

-          Charting

-          Remove audience

-          Talk the student down (verbal de-escalation)

-          Peer coaching and modeling

-          Behavior contracts

-          Teach the student the skill that he/she is avoiding

-          Identify anxiety triggers

-          Teach self-esteem

-          Work with the student to develop an appropriate signal for the student to use when he/she needs help

-          Match demands to skills levels

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-          Paired play

-          Engineered environment (safe place, safe person)

-          Clear classroom expectations

-          Teach conflict resolution skills

-          Teach empathy, perspective taking

-          Teach tolerance curriculum

-          Teach how  to voice opinions in an appropriate fashion

-          Remain calm

-          Use humor to diffuse

-          Behavior contracts

-          Have student serve as peer coach to others

-          Charting

-          Friendship groups

-          Teach participation skills

-          Teach communication skills

-          Teach how to provide constructive feedback to others

-          Anger management

-          Teach empathy & perspective taking

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-          Team building

-          Diversity curriculum

-          TRIBES

-          Group contingencies

-          Conflict resolution

-          Teach empathy, perspective taking

-          Errors in thinking

-          Tolerance

-          Remain calm & use humor

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-          Behavior contracting

-          Teach diversity curriculum

-          Teach perspective taking

 

Student:

 

Instructional consequences for alternative appropriate behavior

 

 

 

 

And/or

 

 

Instructional consequences for inappropriate target behavior

 

 

 

-          Involvement in leadership activities (mentoring, tutoring)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-          Have the student identify appropriate ways to get adult attention

 

 

-          Earned down time

-          Engineered choices

-          Successful involvement in classroom

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-          Make up work or missed activity

-          Have the student identify appropriate ways to escape

 

 

-          Involvement in leadership activities

-          Engineered choices

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-          Have student identify appropriate ways to get power or control

 

 

-          More friends

-          Involvement in activities, clubs, etc.

-          Choices of peers or groups to work & socialize with

 

 

 

 

 

 

-          Assigned mentor

-          Have student identify appropriate ways to get peer attention

 

-          Involvement in leadership activities

-          Token economy

-          Repairing relationships

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-          Have student identify appropriate ways to get justice

 

 

Avoid the use of

-          Power struggles

-          Yelling or raising voice

-          Ignoring

-          Not following through with consequences

-          Announcing scores publicly

-          Removal of the student

-          Removal of the activity to allow the student to get out of doing it

-          Arguing, power struggles

-          Physical contact

-          Raising voice

-          Cornering the student

-          Ultimatums

-          Empty threats

-          Embarrassing the student

-          Group consequences

-          Problem solving in front of others

-          Drawing attention in front of others

-          Announcing test scores, etc. to whole group

-          Personal bias statements to group

-          Embarrassing

-          Homogeneous groupings

Discussion of topics that are sensitive to student

 

Special considerations

Does the student realize he/she is talking in this manner – is it habit & so we need to raise their awareness?  Are students motivated to respect each other?  Is adequate supervision provided in areas and at times when problems tend to occur?  Are there medical issues, mental health concerns, medications?  Are there similar patterns at home and in the community?  Are other agencies such as social services or mental health involved?  Is the school culture reinforcing problem behavior?  Is the school environment or classroom a trigger?  Is low level behavior being allowed and then escalating?  Is there a cultural mismatch – does the student know what is acceptable behavior?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

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