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submitted by "Lizzi" on October 22nd, 2000
Well, let's see. I married this man that I thought was a the man that I
would spend the rest of my life with. Until our first child was born and
things started to change. He started going out more and more. Next, our
second child came and he became very distant from us. I kind of got suspicious,
but didn't think any man that I loved could ever do this to me and our children.
Well, let's see we moved and things started to change and he became a totally
different person. He started going out and not with us just by himself.
Then he started getting very abusive to not just only me but our children
to. That is when my children and I left him. To later find out that he was
sleeping with this girl whom every other man knew and had been cheating
on me the whole time we were married. To top the whole story off after
I had just delivered our second child he ran out and had slept with this
woman in our bed and then came back to the hospital acting like nothing
had happened.
All I have to say is that I wish I would of woke up and realized before
hand but as the saying goes "Love is blind" and I didn't want to think that
something like this could happen to me.
Now that he is out of our lives
because he doesn't want anything to do with our children, my story has ended
in a wonderful fairy talk ending I have met a wonderful man who loves me
and my children as if they were his own. This time I know things will never
be like they were and this relationship will never end up the way my marriage
did. The lesson I learned is that you never know when something that devestating
will happen to you until it does, but there is always a pot of gold at the
end of a rainbow.
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