01 September 2003
Headmaster
(name withheld)
School (name withheld)
Newcastle
NSW
Australia
Dear
Sir,
I
am writing to you regarding the above pupil, who is my son.
My
involvement in his life is a very sad one.
My
son came to be born as a result of a six week liaison between his mother and
myself when she was visiting London (i.e. she became pregnant in London but
returned to Australia to give birth).
I paid voluntary maintenance for my son’s first five years (something I can prove despite the mother’s claim to only have received a few payments.)
I
could not, however, afford to visit Australia and I do not have residency
rights to live and work in Australia.
When
my son was eight years of age I could afford to visit him.
I
immediately ran into problems with the mother regarding access. I ended up going to Court for access and
back to Court to enforce that contact (i.e. she ran away with my son).
As
a result of that contact I found my son displaying the most shocking sexual
behaviour.
He
would repeatedly try to grab my groin, rub himself up against me and ask for
sex (“let’s have sex”). Overall his
behaviour and language, especially at bedtime, was bad enough to be shocking
from an adult, let alone a child.
Worst,
when I tried to tell him that such things were wrong, he argued back with me
that it was acceptable for adults to have sex with children.
As
my son’s mother has always made a fuss out of saying that she was abused as a
child, how could she raise a boy with such an attitude? Especially as my son was not a wild child
but a gentle shy boy who (in public) was extremely well behaved.
In
addition there were signs of such sexual behaviour from other children in the
family. This included a girl of less
than three years of age pleading to see my penis.
Further
the family background emerged as very odd, the mother having worked as an
administrator for a brothel owned by her father and there being an extensive
maternal family background of working with children.
I
reported the matter to the Department of Community Services who were reluctant
to investigate. I had to push them to
do so.
Their
investigation was farcical. They
bluntly asked my son to confirm the abuse in a way that was bound to make him
clam up.
And
that was that. I was told to go away. I
was given no other advice or information.
I therefore
pushed for a Family Court Investigation.
The
Family Court imposed on me Dr.Brent Waters as the investigator.
I
was unhappy with Dr.Waters being imposed as he had been recommended to me by
numerous Family Court officials who had lied about the issue of my abuse
allegations.
I
nevertheless wanted to help my son and co-operated with Dr.Waters.
However,
he did not ask me one single question about my abuse allegations.
What
he did do was cover up my allegations with complete fabrication. Most often he
put the exact opposite of what I said.
What
lies he could have stated about what my son said I do not know, as the Court
had already suspended my contact (which left my son in the total control of his
abusers).
I
was now in a state of ill health having contacted diabetes and pernicious
anaemia (the symptoms of which I had ignored as I thought my illness was “just”
stress.)
In
a state of depression and ill health I returned to London.
However,
after many months of investigation I found out that Dr.Waters had appeared in
one of Australia’s most prestigious newspapers as someone who has a long
history of covering up child sex abuse.
The
article had appeared in The Australian, on June 3rd
2000. The press article makes it quite
clear that Dr.Waters is more than someone who is incompetent or biased but
someone who deliberately covers up child sex abuse.
The
press article also detailed how the Prime Minister, John Howard had previously
called for an enquiry into how Dr.Waters had been involved in covering up child
sex in regard to one case of horrific sexual and physical abuse.
I
also uncovered other cases where Dr.Waters had been accused of covering up
child sex abuse.
Armed
with such information I now thought I could do something to help my son. I repeatedly wrote to the Prime Minister and
the Attorney General. I waited up to
six months a time for their replies.
The replies I received simply ignored the issues.
One
reply said I should go to the Police. However, the Police advised me that they
had no powers of investigation in this matter. They stated that my abuse
allegations were a matter for DOCS and
the Family Court; and my allegations regarding Dr.Waters being used by the
Family Court to cover up abuse, a matter for the Attorney General.
I
never expected my word alone to be enough for action to be taken to protect my
son.
I
did, however, expect a proper investigation.
There
has not been any investigation.
The
investigation by DOCS was a farce that has become corrupt in respect to the
officers of DOCS subsequently becoming so defensive about their inadequacies as
to lie about, and even suppress, information that would help me. (E.g. when I
subpoenaed their records, information that I had previously been told existed
that would aid confirmation of my allegations had disappeared).
As
for the “investigation” by the Court appointed Dr.Waters, this was nothing more
than a deliberately planned cover up.
Under
such circumstances I can only plead with you to give my son all the care and
attention he needs in respect to his unhappy life.
I
would be desperately grateful if you could do everything you can to guide him
away from being corrupted into his abuse and becoming an adult abuser himself.
For
your information I enclose a copy of the press article on Dr.Waters and a copy
of my Official Notice of Abuse Section 66 that I filed with DOCS and the Family
Court.
Please
help my son.
Yours
sincerely,
P.Royan
Enc.Press
article on Dr.Brent Waters from The Australian
Official Notice of Abuse Section 66
Parts 10&11