Well, my birthday is coming up on friday, this is surely going to suck :-(
Turning 33 on October 21st, ho hum ....
another year older ...
time just flies right away
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the worst part about my birthday has been since 2001, since the then-love of my life Kelly Jean Smith-Ross (her nickname online being "carrots", due to her strikingly beautiful bright red hair .... sighs .... whom I met from a chat room and lived with for about 6 months)
well, she died in my arms, Oct. 22, 2001, of her own poisonous lifestyle which, after a fall, caused a brain aneurism, the night AFTER my birthday...
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*UPDATE* @ 3-20-2007
Kelly Jean Smith-Ross, of Barberton, Ohio
b. June 13, 1974, d. October 22, 2001.
I found where we actually had her funeral at. Here is where my Kelly is buried:
Her grave being in Section 16, Site 238, at
"Ohio Western Reserve National Cemetery" in Rittman, Ohio
I wish I could go visit her, there. I still think of her alot and miss her very often.
I can't eat a tuna fish sandwich without thinking about her. It was her top favorite.
Kelly, you will never be forgotten.
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Soooo.... Ever since then i have had a very hard time adapting to my own birthdays anymore, at all
Now, the only good thing in my life is that another very close VERY intimate female friend of mine, happens to have a birthday on the 24th, and I love her dearly ... it just so happens that i wish I was able to spend her birthday with her, much more than my own .... Lately it is the only thing which picks me up and reminds me that I am not as cursed as I thought I was. I love her very much, she is my light in the darkness ....
I only wish she felt the same about me :-(
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*UPDATE* @ 3-20-2007
"Chrissy" (mentioned in the paragaph just above this), amongst other attempted love interests, before and after her, is now out of my life, as of last October (2006).
*sighs* damn lying, deceiving, mental fucked-up bitches ... growls
ITALIAN MAFIA, MY ASS!
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