| Thinking about abortion here are some Facts! |
| 1.Women who have abortion are more likely to commit suicide 2. A govnerment studie in finland finds that women who abort are approximately four times more likely to die the following year then the women who carry to term! 3. They believe it is linked to cancer such as breast cancer |
| Something you can do! Go to your county court house (if thats where the clinic is if not go to the court house in that county) and you can pull anyrecords or lawsuitsfiled against the clinic doctors! What you do is ask for any records on the doctor(s) because any lawsuit filed goes through the court and is open to the public. You maybe surpized at what you find! |
| Before decideing what you are going to go through search on the internet and get both sides not just one because you can be hurt through an abortion procuder or worse.Also you can look in the yellow pages under abortion alteratives they have consuling and post abortion consuling. A great site is Abortion TV it has information, pictures, movies, just about anything you can think of. I hope I could help you! God Bless |
| Please visit these pages from AbortionTV The first page is about a women who died after having an abortion in Dayton Ohio Page 1 The second page is a movie told by a women mother about her daughter can no longer talk or walk due to having an abortion Page 2 It also has some other abortion horror stories. This can help you look before you leep. God be with you |
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| I was emailed this story from a women who had a 2nd trimester abortion. She said I could share her story. |
| Thank you so much for your pics and information. I don't like to see them but it's in a way a sick sort of punishment for myself. I know you have a story from a survivor of an abortion but what about the story from someone who has had a 2nd trimester abortion, believe me it's not a nice story. It's not "you have the abortion and your life is great." It is one of the most horrific experiences anyone can put themselves through as a woman and there should be no choice. about 10 months ago, my partner and I decided we wanted to have a baby. It took 3 months for me to fall pregnant (which felt like 3 years). We were so happy we went shopping straight away. As I am only 19 (he was 22 then) I knew my mother wouldn't approve even though she loved my partner like a son and we had a perfect relationship. As I expected she cried when I told her, and not from joy either. But she soon warmed to the idea and started buying little dressies. Now this is where it all went horribly wrong. I suffer from depression and the pregnancy made me get to the point where I left my job because I just wanted to cry all the time. I would spend hours on end crying and it hurt because I knew I was happy for a short time and I wanted to feel that again. My partner took me to the doctor and I told him I was depressed and I wanted to know if I could go on anti-depressants while pregnant. He asked no questions, just said that only in the extreme cases would he prescribe medication for depression, and that was that. I felt at the time my mother was the only one listening to me and so I made a snap decision at 17 weeks to have an abortion. When I told my partner I laughed as I was so nervous I thought I was going to cry, throw up and wet my pants all at once. He told me he just wanted me to be happy and it was ok, but I knew he didn't want me to do it and I wish now he had called me all the names under the sun that I now feel about myself. It took me 3 weeks to go to the initial doctors visit, and still everybody thought that's what I wanted. I felt so bad about my decision that I would cry alone and not speak yo my partner at all. At the first doctors visit I was asked the reason why I wanted an abortion and I replied I was depressed, still I was not offered medication. All I got was a referral to a higher doctor who would set the whole thing up. My mum took me to my next visit as my partner was at work. I was given a pamphlet of information about the procedure and as I read it in the waiting room I had tears in my eyes and told my mother I didn't think I could do it. I got no response. I had an appointment 5 hours away from my home town for 1 week away. The next week was awful, I drunk a lot of alcohol to numb the way I was feeling. I felt depressed and upset all the time and I know the alcohol didn't help. My Partner and I drove the 5 hours and booked into a motel. Within half an hour we had our first hospital appointment.When the doctor asked me if I was sure I couldn't speak to start with and then I said I was not 100% sure at all. I asked if I would feel any pain and was told some women feel nothing and remember nothing but most of the time women felt a little pain. All I could think was that the baby would feel it too. I had tears in my eyes and looked at my partner who smiled reassuringly as his loving nature permits him. The rods were inserted straight after that and I was sent back to the motel to sleep. All I could feel all night was sharp pains and I was hoping the whole time that my baby wasn't dying yet. The appointment for the abortion itself wasn't until next midday. I spent all morning crying and I guess I had finally realized that I didn't want to kill my baby. But by then it was too late. At the hospital I was given some pills to take that would dilate my cervix further and told to wait for an hour. During that hour I had stomach cramps and a lot of bleeding. I was finally told it was time to go to theatre and that my partner couldn't come. I burst into tears as I was wheeled down the corridor at the thought of not having him with me to hold my hand. He would never know how painful it was for me and I needed to share that with someone. The operation itself was awful. I felt everything. The heartbreaking feeling of my waters being broken and having my 18 and a half week old baby ripped out of me piece by broken piece was numbing and all I could hope was that my baby didn't feel anything that I was feeling. About 15 minutes later I was taken out of recovery to see my partner. I tried so hard to not let him know of the emptiness I� felt where there was only 20 minutes ago a little life that we wanted so badly. I was bleeding quite a bit and wasn't allowed to leave the hospital until I had passed urine, so I went to the toilet as quickly as I could. I felt something come out when I went and looked to see a big clot. I sat on the toilet floor and cried asking myself what I had done. Anyway to cut the most painful and longest stories of my life short, nothing will ever be the same and I am now more depressed than what I was. I wake up to look at my partner every morning, knowing what I have done to him and our baby, but also I blame him for letting me do it. I cry seeing babies on TV and after seeing my friends babies. I love my mother but hate her for helping me to do one of the worst things in the world. And also I am so mad that 2 doctors let me slip through without hearing me when I told them I was depressed. But most of all I hate myself for forgetting about the strongest moral and belief that I had ever had THAT ABORTION IS WRONG. Thank you for reading my pain it has helped to write it. |
| Expecting mothers who don't know what to do or need help here are a few links of places that provide help and medical care. CARE NET OPTION LINE or call 1-800-395-HELP |