Advice on mourning and grief....

Take your time and surround yourself with love. Do whatever you need to do whenever it's necessary. (jem0622)

Angels happen. It is all in God's hands and as pregnant mommies all we can do is pray for the health ofour babies. Know that you are not alone if you become an angel mommy. I have 2 heavenly angels and 2 baby angels here with me. I thank the divine powers for all of them, for each one has made me a stronger woman.   (ozip)

I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks in March of 1999.  It was by far the hardest thing I have ever been through.  I felt I had failed not only as a mother, but that I had failed a child.  It is so important to understand that nothing you did caused the miscarriage.  Take your time and be easy on yourself.  It helped me tremendously to be around the people that I loved and to share my feelings with them.  I met a very special friend through my miscarriage.  We are best friends to this day.  As hard as it was to endure losing a baby, I don't think she and I ever would have met had it not been for our losses, and I couldn't have gotten through it without her.  I will never forget my angel baby, but I learned a lot from that experience and you will to.  (mariap)

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