reasons

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were ment to be there ... to serve some sort of perpose, teach you a lesson or help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be when you lock eyes with them ,you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
Sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realise that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realised your potential, strength, will-power , or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck
Illness, injury, love,lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occurs to test the limits of your soul.
Without these small tests, life would be like a smooth paved, straight,flat road to nowhere ........Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experiance can create who you are, and the bad experiances can be learned from. In fact , they are probably the most poignant and important ones.If somone hurts you, betrays you,or breaks your heart , forgive them
because they have helpt you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you can open your heart to.
If someone loves you love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and open your eyes to little things. Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything you possibly can, for you may never be able to experiance it again.
Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen.
Let yourself fall in love, break free ans set your sites high.
Hold your head up because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great person and you belive in yourself, for if you dont belive in yourself, no one else will belive in you ..
Create your own life , and then go out and live it ...........

(Author unknown)

Once upon a time , twins were conceived. Weeks passed in the womb and the twins awareness grew,
"isnt it great that we were concived ! Isnt it great to be alive"
Together the twins explored their world.When they found their mothers cord, which gave them life, they sang "how great is our mothers love that she shares her life with us"
As weeks stretched into months,they noticed how each one was changing.....
"What does this mean?" asked twin 1
"It means that our stay in this world is drawing to an end!"said twin2
"But I dont want to go !!" exclaimed twin1
"But mebe there is life after birth"said twin2
"How can that be?"replied twin1 "We will shed our life cord,and how is life possibe without it ??....Besides we have seen evidence that others were here before us and none have returned to tell us that there is life after birth....No....
this is the end."
So, twin 1 fell into a deep dispair saying "If conception ends in birth, what purpose of life in the womb?It`s meaningless! Mebe there is no Mother after all!"
"But there has to be ," protested twin2 "How else did we get here? How do we remain alive??"
"Have you ever seen the Mother?"asked twin1"maybe she lives only in our minds.Maybe we made her up because the idea made us feel good"
The last few days in the womb were filled with a deep questioning fear.Finally the moment of birth arrived ...
When the twins passed from their world, they opened their eyes and cried....
For what they saw exceeded their fondest dreams.