| It was an odd vision� but not unfamiliar� viewed at This angle� from the rear� the Perspective changed There was the typical bag enclosing the walnuts� This bag seemed a little longer than most� an illusion Due to the angle� or a minor genetic variation It was interesting to see the bag�s movements It was rhythmic� almost an elliptical orbit like A punching bag in the hands of a trained boxer But the bag per se was not important� what was Different� and maybe important� was the Appendage in front of the bag� and it�s in-out In-out insertions into the now very moist aperture There was a slight coating of dew-like sparkles reflecting In the light� perspiration from the energy expended as The two bodies went together and pulled apart again and Again and again and again� it was almost hypnotic Both its reality and its symbolic beauty There was elegance to the forms and their movements A familiar dance� yet unique to the those individuals A dance that has lasted since the beginning of the species This current dance was for pleasure� not function And the pleasure was visible and audible Smiles changed to gasps to grimaces and back as Various nerve endings were touched and pressured It was a vision from the core of Eros� it was also an Erotic sight� anyone could see that� but there was Also another perception� a more ambiguous one This was the first time I had seen my Other Touching their Body-parts with Another In the past, I had touched many Body-parts Knew that The Other had also But knowing was different than seeing For years now we had only touched each other At first our touches were Erotic� But after the initial frenzies The touches became more calm And then through time� the touchings became even Calmer� still pleasant� but more infrequent We had felt the decline� had known� had understood That long-term repetitive behaviors produced growing Numbness� we knew in our hearts� and in our minds That familiarity was always the antithesis of excitement And passion and desire� and ultimately� of caring At first� the concern was for my own excitement and My sensations� I was alive� but not forever Time for Joy was fleeting each and every day I want to enjoy my life� But on reflection� it was a silly� almost futile feeling The bond with The Other was long� firm and fast We shared so many other links in our lives� we had Enjoyed each other�s company for so long� still did . . |
| To re-grow Eros and expand our lives� we elected to Add another Friend to our unique Friendship An Intimate Friend� With my Other� we share care� concern� and love We have enough of all for yet Another It was exciting to watch� my Other was aglow Passion oozed from their pores� I could see their Sensuality from a different Perspective�knew they Were fully alive� experiencing Joy with a Friend It was scary to watch� my Other was aglow They had not been like that with me for some time Supposed they preferred the New Other to me� But I know these thoughts� these feelings� buried Deep within me� were foolish� born of a legacy of Exclusiveness� a tradition based on Person Ownership I did not want to OWN my Other� to possess them I wanted them to be a Free Individual� I want them To experience joy and happiness� as much as they Could squeeze into this very short life The change in Perspective was changing my Perceptions It was a healthy change� it was a challenging change A wonderful change� a long term� final change in us And now I must go... my Intimate Friends await me My Other and another Other I yearn for their touches� to feel their moist skins and Secretions� to feel their warmth as they reach for me To join their lives and experience� to Connect their Minds and hearts and souls and bodies with mine This change in Perspective had changed my Perceptions Of me� and The Other� from this point forward We would live and love together... and with Others... not Because '�We HAD to�� but because �We WANTED to� It was a wonderful realization� It was wonderful to be fully alive again It was wonderful to welcome the future� Instead of fearing it� or despairing for it |
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| And what about you... When is the last time you saw Your Other excited from Providing and Receiving Sensual Pleasure from Another... (Have you ever?) Would you be excited knowing they were excited... Or would it be frightening to you? Do you think it's Interesting to wonder Why? Got the ole 'Jealousy Blues'? Here's How You Whip Them. Jealousy Be Gone! |
| . Excerpted with permisson from: The Little Red Book of Drivel Soul Rot and Other Forms of Insane Relationships In the 3rd Millennium � 2000 Relationships Press All rights reserved |