I went to visit. It was amazing, wonderful, everything. I am in lurve, officially. That boy drives me totally wild. I lay in bed and just ache for him and I've only been gone for a few days. The visit was a blast, of course. Company was good, activities were great, everyone ejaculate(d)!
I spoke of not having dated blowjob junkies before. Well, I'm afraid that I may turn my main squeeze into one of these creatures. For the simple fact that I am goddamn good at it and I love doing it. I'm not bragging, but I'm the self proclaimed BJ Queen in my mind. I'm the queen of all sorts of things in here though. So actually, I am bragging. Anyway, I think I definitely perfected my techniques and overcame any fears or insecurities regarding my talents. In fact, I've noticed that my girlfriends come to ME for blowjob advise on a regular basis. I have decided to print out a little instructional booklet entitled "Zilla's Guide" to Better Blowjobs and just hand them out to the damsels in distress. This should save me a lot of time. Here's my rough draft; please feel free to critique!
Zilla's Guide to Better Blowjobs
First of all, you need to warm him up. Boys need foreplay too! Don't just dive right in there, get him excited. Tease him a little. Bite and suck the fabric of the crotch of his pants gently. Unzip his pants with your teeth. Take your time, it will drive him wild. The more anticipation you can build up the better!
When you've got him out of his trousers, take his cock in your hands gently and talk to him about how much you love his penis and how beautiful it is and how you can't wait to have it in your mouth. Dirty talk is a good thing. Let your hot breath caress his cock while you speak to him in your sexiest voice. Fondle his balls with your hands and stroke them. Then begin to lick his penis slowly and luxuriously, like it's an ice cream cone. Stop to lick and gently suck his balls occasionally if you are comfortable with that. Lick it all the way from the base to the tip, paying special attention to the underside. This serves two purposes:
1) To tease him just a bit and get him so incredibly hot that he is just aching with lust for you (this will his climax much more satisfying).
2) To thoroughly coat his penis with your saliva. Get it as wet and slippery as possible, this will be important for the next step.
Now you want take his head in your mouth and suck on it gently and whirl your tongue around it while you stroke him with your hand. Make your fingers into an "OK" position and use them like an extension of your mouth. Move your mouth and hand up and down in rhythm with each other. This technique is alternately helpful if you can't or don't want to deep throat.
After a bit of this, take your hand off and take him completely in your mouth and bob up and down. Deep throat if you can; if you can't, just go down as far as you feel comfortable. You'll probably slobber uncontrollably while you do this. Do NOT swallow the saliva - just let it run down his shaft freely. The more lubrication the better.
At about this point your mouth will probably be getting tired and your jaw will ache a bit. Whenever you feel fatigued during a blowjob, you should take break by licking his cock and rubbing the head all over your lips and even your cheeks. Slap his penis gently against your tongue and mouth. Talk dirty while you do this. Tell him how much you love sucking his cock and how turned on you are. This will save your mouth and jaw from getting so worn-out that you stop enjoying giving him head. At the same time, he'll love watching you play with his cock - remember that men are VISUAL creatures!
When you feel rested enough to go on, continue in a variation of the above techniques until he gets close to climaxing. You'll know when he is approaching this because he will probably thrust in your mouth and his penis will swell and throb a bit. It will suddenly feel harder and bigger. At this point, you want to make a fist around his cock and squeeze firmly. Jerk him off while you suck vigorously on the head of his penis and flick your tongue wildly on the underside of the head. Don�t be shy or gentle, this is the time to get a little rough. When he begins to cum, hold his penis in your mouth and suck a bit more gently. You can take your hand off his penis at this point, because he will very likely be jerking his hips around and essentially "fucking" your mouth as he cums.
Whether you spit or swallow is up to you, but either way do NOT take your mouth off his penis until he is completely done cumming and his hips stop bucking. For this reason, it is probably easier to just swallow because you don't have to hold the semen in your mouth while waiting for him to finish.
After he cums, don't continue to suck on his penis. You can hold him in your mouth while he gets soft, but don't suck or move your mouth up and down; he is very sensitive and the sensation will be too intense.
If you don't want to hold him in your mouth, you can very gently lick him to "clean him up".
Some additional tips:
*Keep in mind how visual men are. Half the fun for them is watching you give them the blowjob. Gaze up at him lustfully; wear some sexy lingerie...you get the idea.
*If it is obvious you aren�t enjoying yourself, your guy won�t enjoy it either. The more turned on you get by doing it, the more turned on he�ll get by having it done to him. Moan, squirm, tell him how much you love his cock; even if you�re having an off night or you�re tired don�t let on that you aren�t having a blast. Otherwise, he won�t have such a great time either.
*Porn can be very educational! Rent some videos and take notes. Watching the experts do it is sure to teach you something.
Ok, I hope we all learned something here today. Class dismissed.
