| Taken at age 2 months and 5 days, Not given the chance yet to live, Not given time to do anything wrong, Only given time to make a difference in someones life, In that little time, loved by so many, Forever, dearly missed, The day it happened looking, eating, sleeping comfortably, Laying next to his sickened twin brother, Something unfortunate happened, Earlier that morning, smiled at his Mother for the very first time, Leaving his brother and two sisters on earth, He returned Home. Maybe God had a greater plan, Though it may seem unfair to take an infant, Who hasn't had time to live, Trying to understand is half the struggle, Our saddened hearts must move on... Yet never forget. *Always in our Hearts* Tilor Christopher Zajicek Aug. 15,2002 - Oct. 20,2002 ^0^Written by Linda Wittinghill^0^ Thank-you so much Linda! |
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| Just for today, I will try to live through the next 24 hours and not expect to get over my child's death, but instead learn to live with it just one day at a time. Just for today, I will remember my child's life, not his death, and bask in the comforts of all those treasured days and moments we shared... Just for today, I will smile no matter how much I hurt on the inside, for maybe if I smile a little , my heart will soften and I will begin to heal. Just for today, I will reach out to comfort a relative or friend of my child, for they are hurting too, and perhaps we can comfort each other. Just for today, I will free myself from self-inflicted burden of guilt, for deep in my heart I know if there was anything in this world I could have done to save my child from death, I would have done it. Just for today, I will honor my child's memory by doing something with another child because I know that would have made my own child proud. Just for today, I will offer my hand in friendship to another bereaved parent, for I do know how they feel. Just for today, when my heart feels like breaking, I will stop and remember that grief is the price we pay for loving, and the only reason I hurt is because I had the privilege of loving so much. Just for today, I will not compare myself with others. I am fortunate to be who I am and to have had my child for as long as I did. Just for today, I will allow myself to be happy, for I know that I am not deserting my child by living on. Just for today, I will accept that I did not die when my child did, my life did go on, and I am the only one who can make that life worthwhile once more. Author unknown |
| Dear Tilor, It has been 1 year and 6 months since you left us. Not a minute goes by that we do not long for you. To hold you once more, to kiss you once more, to say "I Love You" once more and see your loving smile in return for our words. We miss you so deeply that words cannot explain. Spring is among us and mommy has started two more flower gardens. Daddy is keeping himself busy and trying not to show the pain he is feeling. Kaylah is still hurting more and more, she misses you so much. Rita is in her terrible twos. Michael still wakes periodically crying at night saying "baby bye bye". We all know he misses you but cannot explain what he is feeling. With every tear that falles from our eyes, know that they are tears of pain, but at the same time are tears of joy from the time we did have you here with us. We Will Always Love You Little Guy!! Mommy, Daddy, Kaylah, Rita, & Michael 4-20-04 |
| To all of the Angel's Mommies On Mother's Day (5-9-04) As I lay upon my cloud today I think of my mommy because it is her day. I want to give her something, maybe just a card, because with each passing year , I know this day is hard. My mommy carries me in her heart, I know how hard it is for us to be apart. The tears she cries, she hides from sight, But, I know they are there-I am with her day and night. Though she may not realize I visit her each day, even when she goes to sleep at night on her pillow is where I lay. I stroke hre hair, kiss her cheek, & whisper in her ear, "Mommy don't be sad today, I'm still your baby & will always be here." Something special for my mommy, what do I get? I want it to be special so me she will never forget. A heaven sent gift, there must be a way, to let my mommy know that I wish her a Happy Mother's Day! |
| For Mother's day Send a red rose to your mother. Send a white rose to someone who has lost their mother. Send a yellow rose to a bereaved mother. |
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