• Thinking sex equals love OR love means having sex
• Thinking the other partner expects it
• Thinking Oral & anal sex are not SEX
• Thinking everyone's doing it
• Thinking Sex is JUST a physical act
• Thinking TV & Movies show an accurate representation of our culture's attitudes and sexual behaviors.
• The "guys have needs" bull.
• Thinking only the "sluttiest" or most promiscuous people get pregnant or get STD's
• Thinking your heart is the best judge for your actions
• Thinking there's no going back

SEX mistakes

• Doing it because the he/she wants you to...And what do YOU want? make decisions without trying to please him/her.
• Doing it because you think you're missing out...Sex is a craving, but not a need. What else are you missing out on while all you think about is this relationship?
• Letting a special event or holiday tell you to have sex (like prom, valentine's day, etc.)
• Thinking IT (all those complications like STD's, & pregnancy) won't happen to you
• Thinking sex will get you a boy/girl friend (or thinking you can't get a date without it)
• Waiting until the heat of the moment to discuss how far to go
• Thinking sex will keep you together or fix a sucky relationship
• Thinking it's fine because you'll be with him forever
• Thinking (s)he's the most important thing on earth
• Doing it because you're convinced you're the ONLY virgin
• Letting your heart tell you what to do
• Thinking it's the best way to show your love
• Thinking that because you've been dating a certain amount of time, or are engaged, that sex is expected
• Sort of saying YES when what you really mean is NO
• Buying into the Hollywood/MTV sex hype
• Thinking contraceptives hardly ever fail
• Thinking if you've had sex, there's no starting over

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