Others - May 23, 2000 Like the fly that dreams of the spider, I wonder at the fascination that we carry for the forbidden for the "others" that are so ostracized. Is it some type of "perverse" shame that one hears of? - the constant harping of the differences that lie between "us" and "them." Who is "us" and who are "they"? Why do we fixate on their "oddities" instead of looking for the similarities? Why are we searching for reasons to exclude, instead of all the ways that we have to include? -title by KS