Check your Present know - why
                                                                       By Pawsa Lava

If feelings are not embodied in deeds of patient love - love bears all things-they cause us to act on false premises and fail to bring success and happiness. Check yourself on the following points which should help to be test-wise. Are you realistic? Do you ever act on feeling alone? Can you accept reality ? Can you trust your own behaviour? A re you a dependable person? Do you act hurriedly only to repent of your hasty action? Are you feeling restless, jumpy? Do you feel good or uneasy to be cautioned? Do you feel secure of your masculinity-femininity ? Are sexual feelings obscuring your judgements? Do you exaggerate the sexual aspect of marriage ? Are you able to accept love happily? What are your mature ways of deciding a course of action? Do you decide under pressure of excitement? Do you use anger, hostility, to make you feel right when you are not right? It is never too late to embark on a programme to make feelings the dynamic force of your action but never the decisive factor. Liking ourselves is essential to a healthy love of self which is the basis for loving others. Take a good look at yourself. Discover and accept what has been given you. It may not be as much as you might like to see. But growth depends on an acceptance of what you have and where you're starting from.

1 Be yourself. Cultivate desirable qualities.
2. Be alert. Keep your feeling under control.
3. Be positive. Determine your goal and the route to it.
4. Be systematic. Take one step at a time.
5. Be persistent. Hold your course.
6. Be a worker. Work your brain more than your body.
7. Be a student. Know your emotional power.
8. Be fair. Treat the other man as you would be treated.
9. Be temperate. Avoid excess in anything.
10. Be confident. Have faith that cannot be weakened.