The right value of sex
Activities
“ Do not put sex into practice at your young age. ” My Facebook friend Mary of England told me.
She told me they had sex education in school. She said, during the class, her teacher had group activity, they should share their insights.
“ There are no right or wrong answer or statement, as long as you get support from your group mates it would be okay. “
Her teacher advised.
At first Mary was shy to talk to her group mates, but her teacher encouraged her to talk in the middle of them, soon she speech.
The topic was “ Teenage Pregnancy ”. I watched partly on YouTube.
Her group mates has vertical files, just like magazines, newspapers, research, articles, and books. they exchanged the reading material.
They were in the middle of reading, Mary saw a photo of a pregnant teenager in school uniform, she remembered her cousin, and shared.
“ I have a cousin, she is the same age as us. ” Mary started.
“ Why is the point of having a cousin? I have a cousin too. ” John (not the real names) annoyed.
“ She was pregnant. ”
The group all looked at Mary in disbelief, none of them knew if it was truth, but she was.
“ How did she became pregnant ? Who was the father ? ” Betty asked.
“ She got drunk at her classmates birthday party. ” Mary explained “ And we do not know, who would be the father of the child.”
“ Where is she now? ” asked John
“ She is at home. ” answered Mary “ She doesn't like to go out anymore, she is embarrassed.
“ Ha! ” John exclaimed “That is so good to hear, people would laugh at her, I would also laugh at her hahahha..”
Rose got her notebook hit John's head.
“ You idiot ! ” She scolded, “ Mary, I'm so sad to hear what happened to your cousin, if you like she could talk to me,
I can be her friend to boot up her self esteem. ”
“ For what? ” John argued. “ The problem is there already, what can you do? Stupid ”
“ We could go to their house and talk with her. ” Betty said.
“ Talking is useless ! ”
“ It is not useless John. ” Rose is now angry “ It can help Mary's cousin to face people.”
“ She do not need people's attention Rose, she needs resources, you do not have that. ”
John was quiet but after some seconds he spoke again.
“ It was her problem, why she got pregnant at the party, because she was drunk, if she did not drink, she is not pregnant now. ”
Betty was angry at John.
“ Why not the father of the child, blame him, Mary's cousin did not like what happen to her, even she was drunk at the party. She didn't want to be pregnant, so Mary's cousin had no fault here. ”
Betty and Rose were sincere. Mary smiled “ Thank you. ”
Such activities are helpful in the formation of good value of sex.
“ There are no right or wrong answer or statement, as long as you get support from your group mates it would be okay. ”
her teacher advised.
I know young people as me, do not like to be told what to do. We like the way of
open discussion, teachers should not tell us the good value, they guide us to find it.
Counseling
The idea of talking to our principal and guidance counselor is a very good help, they are the people in school who are willing to listen
Despite all the workloads given to them, they are still there to give you a helping hand and a good ear.,
They would also give you the advice you need, because this people are the instruments, needed by the young generation, for a better and wiser future, that would benefit for the upcoming generations.
Media
The media isn't that awful as we thought it to be, being influential depends on what you watch for what you read or listened to.
The 2007 movie: Juno
The story of 16 years old Juno MacGuff played by Ellen Page, found herslf pregant by her long time friend and admirer
Paulie Bleeker, Juno then decides to have an abortion.
But then with the help of her friend Lea, Juno considered to give her baby to an adoption, Juno and her friend searched the local newspaper and find a couple that she felt would provide a suitable home.
Boy's Don't Cry : 1999
" A true story about finding courage to be yourself " – it was from the 1999 Amercian film, Boy's Don't Cry staring Hilary Swank
Brandon Teena played by Hilary Swank a young transmen whose real name was Teena Ray Brandon.
Brandon felt in love with her frind Lana Tisdel.
Later on Lana found out that Brandon was a transmen and she decided that she loved Brandon " No matter what she is "
Brandon was raped and killed right after his friends John and Tom found out he was a female.
After viewing such good productions, with activities such as an
open discussion, young people would know how to make choice.
The songs we may hear can be good
Folk singer like Joan Baez sang songs like " The Boxer "
" Don't Cry for me Argentina "
" Here's to Life "
" Diamonds and Rust "
Her songs, do not sing of sex.
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