The Woman ...

Beauty of a Woman

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman Is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
The passion that she shows.
The beauty of a woman
With passing years -- only grows.

An English professor wrote the words,
"Woman without her man is nothing,"
on the blackboard and directed the students to punctuate it correctly.
The men wrote:  "Woman, without her man, is nothing."
The women wrote:  "Woman! Without her, man is nothing."

Women are multi-faceted personalities. It is an undisputed fact that they have several exceptional abilities. They have a way with words; are able to interpret body language and pick up non-verbal cues (read faces, expressions, gestures, postures, etc.); are instinctively nurturing and therefore deeply sensitive to the feelings of others and are able to empathise better with them; have a more refined and acute sense of taste, smell, hearing and touch; are able to do several different tasks at the same time; have the ability to look at any issue in its complete context; and have a great team spirit: with a desire for long term stability and planning and a gift of networking and negotiating, they work towards goals extending co-operation and expressing a readiness to reach a consensus on any issue, all the while treating everyone with grace and equality.
Needless to say, the influence of women is felt in all spheres of life, particularly in the areas of justice, health and fitness, charity and reaching out, family, leisure activity, intimacy and romance. Moreover current trends in many sectors of the 21st century economic community show that the natural talents inherent in women are going to be in great demand.

The Female Mind:

That the woman is at her finest in integrating myriad facts, is nowhere more evident than in the office. She approaches business issues from a very broad perspective unlike her male counterparts and gathers far more information about a subject than they do, pieces them all together in context, weighs all the pros and cons and considers all the variables, options and possible outcome, understands various points of view before she makes a decision or comes to a conclusion. Women also tolerate ambiguity better than men do.

The Male Mind:

On the other hand, men tend to focus on one thing at a time. They compartmentalise their attention and tune out external stimuli, and their thinking process is, therefore more channelised. So when they are faced with a problem, they focus on the immediate dilemma. They progress straight towards their goal, dispensing with other facts, unless they are strikingly pertinent or obvious. In this process they weed out anything that appears extraneous or unrelated, and are intolerant of ambiguity of any kind. This capacity for zeroing in on the subject and focussing completely, culminates in an action solution in most cases.

The Human Brain:

In the human brain, the pre-frontal cortex, also known as the �central executive� of the mind, is essential to human thinking. Here various thinking processes like web thinking (as opposed to step thinking) and multi-tasking (as opposed to doing one thing at a time) take place. Parts of the pre -frontal cortex controls the ability to keep track of various bits of information at once, and moreover make sense of this data, weigh them as they based on these patterns and displays mental flexibility, reasons hypothetically, manipulates contingencies and plans for the future. These are some of the aspects of web thinking. Other regions of the pre-frontal cortex influence the step thinking process, focus attention, plan sequentially and process data in a linear manner. There are differences in the pre-frontal cortex in men and women.
The Corpus Callosum, comprising of some two hundred millions fibres, links the two brain halves from the forehead to the back of the head. One section of this Corpus Callosum is thicker in women than in men. The Anterior Commisure, another main tissue bridge that connects the two brain hemispheres, is at least 12 % larger in women than in men. This may imply that a woman moves more data from one half of the brain to the other.

Evolution:

A woman�s ability to think stems in all likelihood from her primordial occupation. When men were building fires, chipping stone hand axes or hunting, she had the hard task of managing several things at once. Man had to concentrate on capturing his prey. Any lack of it would result in his going hungry, or worse, in his being trampled or eaten by wild beasts. A woman, on the other hand had to raise a baby, in dangerous circumstances. She needed to watch for snakes and scorpions, listen for thunder, taste for poison, rock the sleepy, distract the cranky, instruct the curious, soothe the fearful, inspire the tardy, feed the hungry � all this while stoking the fire, cooking the food, talking to friends and maintaining family and social relationships!
Women today also are equipped and do several things at the same time. Generations of mental and physical acrobatic activity, has culminated in the multi-task oriented woman of today. A working mother dresses her children, packs their lunches, feeds her pets, fixes breakfast and even gives instructions for the day�s chores every morning!
But a woman�s innate mental elasticity is not always a good thing. She is notorious for changing her mind!
Business experts believe that companies must alter their plans, products and services quickly and frequently to keep pace with their competitors. As competition increases, this level of flexibility also should escalate. A woman�s innate mental elasticity will therefore become a valuable planning asset.

Intuition:

Women notice the crease in your shirt, the tension in your voice, your tapping foot, the faint annoyance on the lower lip far more than men do. They can pick up messages from your posture, your gestures, your expressions and voice. Then, using their well-connected and uniquely constructed brains, they assimilate all these facts rapidly and even appear clairvoyant! When a woman walks in and out of a room, she would have noticed the colour of the walls, a tiny crack in the ceiling, an object d�art and several other things that a man would not have! It might seem like Peripheral Vision � that a woman can actually see more of a scene than a man can. But it actually is the way she thinks and processes information.
How have women developed their intuition? Simple. For centuries, they have always had to decipher the needs of their pre-lingual, highly dependent young, haven�t they? She has had to interpret the expression of an infant: is it Colic? Or does her bundle of joy actually recognise her? Is he crying because he has wet himself, is lying in an uncomfortable position, misses his big sister, or simply cannot stand the sight of her face? A man might stare helplessly, totally at a loss � not knowing what to do to soothe the infant. But the mother would just breeze in and say, his blanket is bunched up under him and that is making him uncomfortable. A few small adjustments and the baby is gurgling his pleasure!! This capacity to intuitively interpret non-verbal cheers.

Conclusion:

Thus, a woman, with all her unique talents and capabilities, particularly her web thinking, would take to the web most naturally. There is a perfect match between the way a woman thinks and the way the web is constructed and structured.
Hence, it follows that a woman would get a lot more out of the Internet than a man would. Women will not only reap the maximum benefit from the net but she will pioneer the quest for knowledge and information, leading the rest of mankind.

He who has a lot of patience has eveything he wants

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Neha Creation ...

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