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First Name : Barbara
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Last Name : Hawkins
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Comments : The greatest gifts God gave us are Love and Forgiveness. It is time to forgive and live your life as he would want you to. Taking ones life isnt meant to hurt you or no one would do it. I believe that. I too lost someone very close. I will always love him
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Relationship to Allen : someone who cares
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First Name : Dianna
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Last Name : Marris in Ok
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Comments : Im so sorry for your loss and your kids. Im sorry his friend said those words to you but I bet they werent Allens words. I dont understand people saying these things to us after our loved ones are gone. He was with you, and that says it all. It isnt your
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First Name : Jane
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Last Name : Tatum
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Comments : I have fought the same demons for SO many years I cant remember. You are in my prayers...I have also lost a loved on in the same manner. May God hold you in His Hands
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First Name : Catherine
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Comments : Thank you for sharing the destruction and devastation Allens suicide left behind for you and your children. May it help other parents to hold on one more day.
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First Name : Ray
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Last Name : Millones
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Comments : Thank you for sharing this beautifull love story. Its hard for anyone to lose a dear one. I am sure Allen will be with you forever. I have touched me with this story
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First Name : peggy
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Last Name : castaldi
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Comments : Hi,I have tears running down my face after reading your memorial..I lost my father and 10 months later a brother..I always tell everyone..I remember just wanting to feel like I did before it all happened..and you never feel the same again.You never feel R
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First Name : Dennis
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Last Name : Salsberry
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Comments : I have often thought of suiside
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First Name : debi
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Comments : I dont know how recently you have posted here but my heart goes out to you if you are still in the same state of mind. what allen did was beyond his control, beyond your control & the demons inside of his head took over. i hope you and your children are d
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First Name : Dawn
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Last Name : Davy
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Comments : Patty,I know your hurt,reading your page was like reading my own story My husband changed my life when he walked into it & he certainly changed it when he left by depression & suicide. I just keep remembering depression is an illness he would NEVER have h
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First Name : Janet
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Last Name : Shewmaker
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Comments : Im so sorry for your lost i cant imagine the pain you and your children feel. I hope they know killing your self is not the way. Jesus Christ is the way. He says to cast all your burdens on him. I couldnt make it with out him i suffer from depression and
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First Name : Brittnay
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Last Name : Lipford
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Comments : hello Im very sorry to hear that I have lost 2 of my best friends within 2 years its very hard.The worse part of it is that i was dating Will at the time and we were on the phone together when he pulled the trigger to his head.So i no what you went throug
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First Name : william
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Last Name : roth
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Comments : on 2-19-04 my wife of 24 yrs took her life but with hers took my life and our 7 year old sons as well every day gets harder and i would do anything to get her back i know this is impossible but one day we will be with her again and all of our pain will go
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First Name : Krista
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Last Name : Muse
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Comments : May God bless you and your children as you all heal and live your lives after such a sad and tragic event. I can easily see the love you have for Allen through your words and photos. May you all be blessed with peace.
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First Name : Alisa
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Last Name : Carpenter
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Comments : Thank you for your wonderful site. I am currently in a CCU waiting room because my fiance and best friend attempted suicide two days ago and he is still on a ventilator. I am in so much pain and I dont know what Ill do if he doesnt make it. Please pray fo
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First Name : Sherry
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Last Name : Brown
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Comments : I hope that you will be able to move o in your life. My children and I to suffer from depression. I hope to be able to help them and myself through the rough times
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First Name : Jeannette
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Last Name : Jacobs
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Comments : i have thought about it many times but your story has touched me and im sorry for what you had to go through please feel free to email me anytime
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First Name : rain
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Last Name : none
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Comments : I am sorry about your loss, I have been very suicidal, and i understand from that point of view, people say suicide is selfish, i disagree, it is an end to such severe pain, most people dont understand.lives are ended every day by choice or not. as i grow
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First Name : Frank
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Last Name : Stephens
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Comments : I was saddened to read about his too short life.
I wish you all the best!
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First Name : Ann
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Last Name : Atkinson
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Comments : Patty thanks for sharing this with us at Solos. I know your love was special. My prayers are with you and the children. I lost my fiance, Bob, to suicide 8/15/02. We were very much in love too.
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First Name : Kelly
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Last Name : Giarraputo
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Comments : Thank you for letting us at SOLOS know about it. It is a beautiful tribute. Hugs to you and the kids. Take care/God bless.
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First Name : William
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Last Name : Hartmann
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Comments : Hello my name is WIlliam I am very sorry for your loss. He will be in my prayers. I am lost 2 brothers a year apart. There is a speacial place for these young and speacial people. I anyone wants to eamil me they can thanks William
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First Name : Caroline
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Last Name : Cooper
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Comments : We lost our 26 year old son Bryan 4 weeks ago,I just miss him so much. Our common grief unites us.May your god bless and look after you all at this sad time, love Caroline.
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Relationship to Allen : i did not know him.
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First Name : Dianne
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Last Name : Monaco
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Comments : Patty,It is truly evident the love you had for each other and how hard you both worked to overcome this horrible disease.You gave Allen a wonderful life.God Bless you and your children.
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Relationship to Allen : Pattys friend SOLOS
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First Name : Stephanie
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Last Name : Asher
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Comments : Im sorry to hear of your loss.
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URL : http://www.k-online.com/~l-asher/steven.htm
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First Name : Brenda
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Last Name : Reeves
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Comments : I am so very sorry for your loss. May you find peace!
Brenda,
Aunt to Jay
Jays website: http://www.geocities.com/alidavanlieshout/
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Relationship to Allen : I am a FFOS member
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First Name : Michael
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Last Name : Briley
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Comments : Your memorial to Allen is very moving. As a stranger 2000 miles away, this tribute will stay in my mind for years, both the pain and the pride. Thank You Mike
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First Name : Tonya
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Comments : Patty,
You've create a beautiful memorial for Allen. He's so handsome and your children are so cute. You have a very lovely family. My heart goes out to you. I lost my best friend to suicide. I'm keeping you & your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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URL : http://www.stormpages.com/bestfriend/Welcome/Welcome.htm
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First Name : Lori
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Last Name : Jacobs
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Comments : This site is really awesome. It touched me b/c i am a survivor of suicide. I almost didnt make it...not only did i hurt myself but others as well. You've done a great job here....i wish you well.
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First Name : Julia
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Last Name : Walker
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Comments : Patty, I know what you are going through. My husband would have been 30 next Friday and I am so sad without him. BUT, we will see our loved ones again! My thoughts and prayers are with you & your kids...
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Relationship to Allen : friend of Patty
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First Name : SANDY
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Last Name : CARTWRIGHT
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Comments : This is SOOO Sweet Patty, I love it!
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First Name : Karen
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Last Name : van Nijkerk
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Comments : Patty
You asked me to check Allen's memorial out. I did and I'm glad. It's not "sick" in ANY way. It's very beautiful. Whoever else may see it, and many others will, I'm sure, primarily this is your/his place. I'm sure he would be very proud that you d
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Relationship to Allen : By association with Patty, who loved him and who cared enough to create this memorial.
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First Name : Lya
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Last Name : Rijkse
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Comments : What a thoughtful, caring person Allen was. I feel the love you have for him as well as the childrens' love for their "friend" in every world you wrote. I'm so sorry that it was too late for you to help him change the choice he made. He knew that he was l
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First Name : Sandy
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Last Name : Ogle
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Comments : Patty
This is a beautiful memorial for Allen. I am sorry you and your children had to go through this. I too know the horror of finding a loved one after they suicided. I found my son 36 hours after he shot himself in the head. My heart goes out to you.
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URL : http://inmemoryofrodogle.homestead.com/memorial.html
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First Name : Leslie
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Comments : Patty, what a wonderful job on Allen's memorial. It is truly evident your love for him through your pictures and words. May God bless you.
Love and peace,
Leslie
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First Name : Sigrid Marie
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Comments : There is so much insight here!
You mention his perfectionism and the early loss of his father, and your fantom pain now.
Well done for all who miss him. Thanks for sharing.
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First Name : Sigrid Marie
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Last Name : Refsum
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Comments : When it's difficult to talk, I think this is a very helpful way to share those memories that are so necessary when grieving.
When there's no shared time, no sharing memories, the loss feels so ... No one should need to grieve alone. Everyone who has lo
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First Name : Tanja
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Comments : Patty,
So so obvious how much you two loved each other. He seems like a great guy. You're right, he's in your heart ALWAYS. God bless you and your beautiful children.
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First Name : Beth
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Comments : Patty, You created a beautiful site in Allens memory. The love you shared is obvious in your photos. You are all very lucky to have shared such precious moments.
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First Name : laura
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Last Name : thacker
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Comments : Dear Patty and Family, I am SO SORRY for the loss of Allen who it is obvious, cared for you all very very much. Try to get MOST men to dress up for a little girl's party. He is awesome and it is easy to see from the pictures you have chosen how lucky you
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First Name : Jim
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Last Name : Schwab II
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Comments : Patty, what a beautiful web site you have built to Allen. You are so lucky to have known and loved him and it is very well reflected in your site. Thanks for sharing it with me.
Jim
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First Name : Diane aka "Catnipp"
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Comments : The love you two shared is so evident in the words & photos!
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First Name : Barbara
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Comments : Patty, what a beautiful, touching memorial to Allen. I can see the love in your picture that you had for each other. My heart breaks for you and the children to lose such a wonderful man to depression.
My prayers are with all of you. Barb
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First Name : Diana
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Comments : Dear Patty, What a beautiful tribute to Allen. Your love for each other is evident in the photos. My heart goes out to you, your children, Allen's family, and all those who truly genuinely loved him. May it comfort you to know that others do care, and und
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First Name : Sherry
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Comments : Dear Patty,
What a great tribute to Allen and what a wonderful person he was! I am sorry that Allen's family and friends choose to distance you and your lovely kids, but nothing can take away the deep love Allen shared with you. Love never dies!
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First Name : Dana
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Last Name : Jordan
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