Take a handful of earth and gaze into it. Put all your troubles and thoughts of distress into it. State exactly what it is that's troubling you. When finished, throw the dirt behind you and walk away without turning around to look at it.
Moon Phase: Waning, Any Day, Any Time, Use as needed
Materials: A bowl of distilled or boiled water, favorite Incense flavor, A white candle, some Earth
Begin by casting your circle as you normally would. Say aloud: Here before me I gather the elements of life, Earth, Air, Fire, Water, to remove all negative energies from within. The Earth grounds me from harm (rub the Earth between your hands) The Air blows away any fear (run hands through the smoke of the incense) Fire burns away negativity (quickly run fingers through the candle flame, be careful not to burn yourself) And Water brings freshness back in (place your hands in the bowl of water) With harm to none, I release my negativity to cleanse my emotions, and fill myself full of good intention. So mote it be
Take the Water and Salt outside and empty it near your door (if in a large city, a park will do fine) and save the candle and incense for later spells of similar need.
Needed: white candle, black marker with wide felt tip, kunzite or blue agate, lemon balm, lemon oil, and cloth pouch
Begin by completely coloring the candle black with the marker to symbolize the depression that presently encases you. Light the candle & say: "Flame cut through depression, deep. Melt it down & make it weep. Grant me power to re-emerge, From its grip, I leap & surge." Watch the candle burn until white wax appears at the flame. Rub a bit of lemon oil into the stone & say: "Kunzite/agate, stone of mellow hue, Dissolve the depression, I beg of you. Take its power & transform its strength. Into positive energy I can use at length." Lightly rub the stone against your temples & your heart, then place it in front of the candle & sprinkle it with lemon balm. Let the candle burn completely. Place the stone & herb in the cloth pouch & carry it with you. When your spirits need a lift, re-anoint the stone & repeat its empowerment chant. Also suggest that you meditate. It helps make you calmer and be able to see things in a clear light.
I call the past to meet the present, that the future may be bright. I bring myself forth from the dark, and hold me to the light. Let not the past control my present, let not my future be dark as night. I meet and greet me with open arms, and move back into the light.
Needed: Small piece rhodonite assorted flowers. Acauldron filled half-way with water (preferably spring or filtered)
Before the spell begins, decorate your altar with fresh cut flowers in a manner that will allow them to witness your work. Call upon you're the appropriate deity/spirit of your tradition and ask them to witness your spell. Place the stone in the center of the cauldron with water. Open yourself and allow yourself to feel peaceful. When you are relaxed, take a step back and while concentrating on the quarrel say. The time has come for his quarrel to end. Let anger be released and begin the mend. Repeat this until you can feel any anger or hurt about the argument floating away. Collect the flowers and put them in a vase using the water from your cauldron. Keep them in a place in your home that you go to often and allow then to remind you that all will be well soon. Give the stone to the other person as a gift. Try to resolve your differences rationally and if you feel yourself getting angry repeat the chant to yourself. Your argument should be well on it's way to being over by the time the flowers wilt.
When a time comes in your life that you feel stressed out and need a constructive way to release pent up anger and energy, go to a lake, ocean, stream, river, etc. Find a black stone. Visualize a circle of white light surrounding you. Cup the stone in your hands and direct all the energy you possibly can into this stone. Then, hurl the stone as far as you can into the water and say: "With this stone anger be gone.
Water bind it. No one find it." Ground and center your self, release the circle.
Take a photo of you and your ex-lover depicting a time or event in the past when the relationship was still good for the both of you. Then cut out the ex-lover's image. Cast a circle and burn the image while envisioning a hopeful, joyful life without this person. Do not blame yourself or your ex-lover, nor hold any thoughts of recrimination or revenge while engaged in this meditation. Continue the projection of your future life for a few minutes. Bury the ashes in an appropriate place.