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Whether married, in a relationship, swinging can be a wonderful experience for a
man. Not surprisingly, most women who are into swinging were introduced to the
lifestyle by a man in their life. Also not surprising, many men would swing if
only they could. They are hindered from the experience by their marriage, or if
single, their inability to find a woman for a swinging partner. Of course, guilt
feelings about sex and pleasure, and sex roles, also hinder men from
swinging.
Men are not the macho, always ready, self-reliant persons of
fiction. They are as human as their female counterparts. They experience
loneliness and fear rejection. A man, on convincing his wife to try swinging,
may experience unexpected jealousy and a feeling of loss when she walks hand in
hand, partially nude and obviously excited, toward a bedroom with another
towel-clad man. He had fantasized himself in swinging but had not comprehended
the reality of his wife or mate swinging.
As with women, the experience of
swinging can be growth producing for a man. It alters forever traditional
concepts of man-woman relationships with sexist overtones. Through swinging, a
man can experience a great deal of pleasure.
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