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ISSUE #54 November 

 

2007 - January 2008

 

editorial

It’s hard to believe that this is the last issue of the OGT for 2007! The year has flown by and soon the festive season will once again be upon us.

    

I hope that some (or many) readers of the paper will realize that the cover of this issue of the paper is a visual response to an incident that occurred in the lead up to Pride Week this year where a number of posters advertising the Lavender Globe Awards, the opening Pride Week event, had “Cancelled” stickers stuck over them by an overzealous DCC manager who decided that he’d had enough of posters being put up on Council property (specifically the “wall” of the building site where the new mall on George Street is going). Interestingly – and sadly, in my opinion - the mayor publicly applauded the manager’s solution to this “problem”. (In fact, the ODT quoted

Mayor Peter Chin as saying the idea was “wonderfully innovative”.)

    

The person who carried out this act claimed that he was not specifically targeting the gay community and that he stuck his “Cancelled” stickers on other posters too, but that rings a little false for me as it seems too coincidental that he was motivated to act just at the same time as Pride Week was taking place. If his sole concern was that the posters were being put up illegally and that they were making the area look like a ghetto, then why didn’t he spend his time and energy removing them rather than defacing them and deliberately misleading people. And, obviously this wasn’t a spur of the moment, random thing he decided to do as he was walking along the street. Oh no, it was clearly planned and implemented because he had to make the “Cancelled” stickers and then go out and attach them to the “offending” (or perhaps in his eyes “offensive”?) posters.

   

 Following this incident the DCC paid for the wall to be cleared, repainted and now there are “No Posters Here” signs quite clearly displayed on the majority of the wall with a few areas in between that allow posters. This seems like the most logical and fair solution if the proliferation of posters was regarded as an eyesore or an issue. However, what stumps me is why the Council manager couldn’t come up with this idea himself in the first place rather than taking the law into his own hands. 

   

 Incidents like this one remind us that despite all the progress that’s been made in regard to gay rights, there’s still an element of hostility out there towards our community and every so often it rears its ugly head – either quite publicly or in much smaller, personal ways. This is one of the reasons why it’s so important to be aware of and to preserve our history – the documentation of our struggles, our campaigns, our successes, our culture. The recently established Charlotte Museum Trust in Auckland is doing this with materials related to the lesbian community (see page 3 for more details).

 

December 1st is World AIDS Day and a time for us to remember those living with HIV/AIDS and those who have been lost to the disease. It’s also a time for us to think about how we can slow down the transmission of HIV and how we can support those who are HIV+. It’s a time for reflection and a time for action (see page 4 for more details).

 

All the best for the festive season. I hope that you enjoy the time you have together with family and friends and that you keep safe and healthy.

 

Tor Devereux, Editor

 

Charlotte Museum Trust

 

The vision of the Charlotte Museum is the classification, collection and conservation of lesbian culture as part of a network of archives preserving lesbian culture for the benefit and understanding of future generations. We aim to preserve lesbian culture with a special emphasis on objects. 

 

LAGANZ based at the Alexander Turnbull Library collects papers but is unable to house objects.

 

The Trustees and the Friends of the Charlotte Museum Trust are delighted to announce that we now have charitable status and are exempt from tax.  This means if you donate more than five dollars to the museum we can give  you a tax deduction receipt. Regular donations ensure we will be able to staff  the museum with part-time permanent staff rather than relying on project  grant money which offers only short-term employment. Staff training by way of the Museum Certificate will be offered and other relevant studies may be considered.

 

SETTING UP

With the assistance of Te Papa National Services Paerangi and Friends of the Museum we have been developing policy documents to ensure our museum runs smoothly but within a lesbian feminist framework. We are on the Auckland City Council accommodation waiting list but to no avail. Now we are currently looking for premises on the fringe of the Zoo/Motat area of Western Springs.

 

We estimate that we need $25,000 to set up the museum and each year will need about $35,000 to pay for rent, electricity, security, temperature control, conservation and staff. It will be a modest operation but unique with changing exhibitions. Already we have received grants of $6,700 towards the set up costs and Friends of the Museum have contributed towards items that are more difficult to get grants for. But, we need more Friends and also a range of volunteers.

 

The collection is temporarily housed at Miriam Saphira’s home and is being reclassified and packed in archival paper before being relocated to the display venue. We have begun working our way through essential Museum Standards.

 

ACQUISITIONS

Before accepting artifacts for the Charlotte Museum the objects will need to be assessed as to their archival value according to the museum’s policy of collecting objects with significant lesbian meaning. Objects with the most significance would include artifacts expressing a lesbian theme and material associated with lesbian events. For example:

Ode to a Gym Teacher vinyl record and NZ’s own web record

Me and Gertrude Stein painting by Beth Hudson

Socks with DYKE written on them

For Lesbian Lips Only mug

Lesbian ceramics and glass

Labrys used by CIRCE cheerleaders

Double women prizes for the Secret Lesbian Police Ball

Minutes of the KG Club committee

Photographs of lesbian events

Early lesbian publications

Early film footage on lesbian events or involving lesbians

Stories of early lesbians or women who loved women in Aotearoa

Travel souvenirs from specifically lesbian sites (lesbian clubs, Lesbos)

Books about lesbians and fiction with lesbian main characters

Feminist material which contains lesbian significance

 

If the piece fits this criteria a consent form either loaning or gifting the artifact to the Charlotte Museum Trust is signed by both the museum staff and the donor. We cannot accept items where the ownership is not clear. Any artifact gifted belongs to the Charlotte Museum Trust for the lesbian community and as such it will be insured and a security system will be in place when we set up our premises.

 

WANTED

We are interested in essays and dissertations on lesbian themes as there is considerable research to do in this area. For instance, when was the doublewoman/

double-Venus sign first used? Was an anklet the only sign in the twenties of possible woman loving tendencies? Were there only five positive lesbian novels before 1972? What happened to lesbians in mental hospitals in the fifties? Who was a lover of Ngaio Marsh? Who went to the Alexander Pub in Parnell in the sixties? Nancy Spain and Naomi Jacob (Mickey to her lesbian friends) wrote books that were popular in New Zealand. Nancy Spain’s have obvious lesbian undertones, but are there any in Naomi Jacob’s work? At the museum we have more questions than answers, and we could keep a women’s studies department going for the next fifty years. We are happy to supply topics.

 

OPENING

Our website has been established through lesbian net www.charlottemuseum.lesbian.net.nz  and we’re planning to open on Sunday 18 February 2008 during the Hero Festival. Our first show will be in February 2008 on early women who loved women and we are looking for photos of lesbians together in the fifties and sixties. Some of our permanent collection of art pieces, labrys, glass and ceramics will also be displayed.

 

The Charlotte Museum Trust is planning two more shows in 2008: early lesbian music and early lesbian performance/songs etc and early theatre pieces done by lesbians with lesbian content from the 60s and 70s in particular. We are keen to obtain any early lesbian plays, songs and even drafts of possible performance pieces.

 

We also sell black T-shirts for $35 with our logo and Remember Us on them.

 

For more information please email us at [email protected]

 

A CHAT WITH ONE OF OUR OWN

Barb Long interviews Philippa Jamieson

For as long as I have known Philippa Jamieson she has been involved with books. When I initially met her she was working at UBS and then she went and joined the team at Otago University Press. A visit to Philippa’s house always included a glance or two at her extensive bookshelves and, of course, she was one of the initial contributors to and editors of the OGT.

 

Philippa’s book Wild Green Yonder: Ten Years Volunteering On New Zealand’s Organic Farms was released in September, has had 2,500 copies printed and is being positively reviewed. The book is being distributed as far away as the UK. I was eager to learn more about how one gets from working with compost and worms to sharing their experiences in print.

 

What motivated you to get published?

When I first set out as a willing worker on organic farms I wasn’t considering writing a book. I wrote some articles and profiles along the way, mainly for Organic NZ magazine. Friends then suggested that I consider writing a book and one person advised me that the book could be a compilation of articles that I had previously written. Although there is some crossover, magazine and book writing is different so I had to start anew. It was really the encouragement of others that motivated me to do something.

 

It must have been quite a commitment with your other roles such as civil union and marriage celebrant and editing work to find time to write. How did you structure your time so you could complete the book?

The first six months were pretty intense. I set myself a goal of writing 1,000 words a day although there was some flexibility in this and if I missed writing for a day or so I wasn’t going to berate myself. It was over three years from the beginning to publication.

 

Searching “Philippa Jamieson” on the web brings up a number of hits. Many of these are around the release of your book and reviews and some are about your standing in the 2005 election as the Dunedin North Green Party Candidate while others refer to reviews and interviews you have published in your freelance writer role. With all your editing and writing experience I naively think it would be easy to edit your own work?

That was one of the most challenging things to overcome because I found that my editorial eye inhibited the free flow of writing and I had to limit the critic within myself at least in the first draft. I was able to access the Creative New Zealand funded mentoring scheme run by the New Zealand Society of Authors. My mentor was also a writer of nonfiction and an editor and he provided me with suggestions about writing

style as well as structure and advice on how to approach publishers.

 

Once you had completed the book what was the process to get

published?

I sent off to several publishers a covering letter and synopsis including a list of chapters with one sentence about each, as well as two sample chapters and some photos. Then it was a case of waiting for the responses, which initially were all rejections. I then submitted it to New Holland Publishers and they rang to say they were really keen. This was followed up with a letter of acceptance, as well as format suggestions and a contract. The New Zealand Society of Authors gave me help and

advice on the contract - they are like a union for writers.

 

Since your book has been published have you spoken to any groups?

There was the launch at UBS and I have also spoken at the Canterbury University Bookshop and to a small audience in Karamea when I was over there visiting my brother. I’ve been interviewed on several radio stations, including by Kim Hill on Radio New Zealand, and I am available for talks to groups.

 

Now that you have achieved this goal what comes next?

I am working on a lesbian murder mystery that I have been thinking about for quite

some time. At the moment I am developing the characters and components of the plot – I don’t know yet who’s going to get murdered!

 

What would you suggest to others who have been thinking about publishing their work?

I hear a lot of people say that they are thinking about writing a book and I tend to say “why don’t you?”. It’s easier to get published if you already have had work published in magazines and newspapers, or if you’ve won a writing competition.

 

You need to have an objective opinion about how to improve your writing, so join a writers’ group, get an outsider to critique your work and join the New Zealand Society of Authors (www.authors.org.nz).  Benefits of membership include a weekly email newsletter, a bi-monthly print newsletter, professional development booklets, a model standard contract, discounts on books and a free contract advisory service.

 

World AIDS Day 2007: 

 

Risky Business

 

by Chris Banks, NZ AIDS Foundation

Gay and bisexual men are being reminded on World AIDS Day this year that New Zealand’s HIV epidemic shows no sign of slowing down.

 

84 new diagnoses were reported by the AIDS Epidemiology Group for the first half of the year. Men who have sex with men are the group still most affected, both by HIV and a disturbing resurgence of syphilis recorded at sexual health clinics between 2002 and 2006. The New Zealand AIDS Foundation is deeply disturbed by the news and says these epidemics are linked.

 

“Sexually transmitted infections like this were quite common among gay men in the 1970s, before AIDS, when condom use was rare,” says Douglas Jenkin, NZAF National Campaigns Co-ordinator. “When condom use became the norm during the first wave of the HIV epidemic in the 1980s, rates of STI infection plummeted.” The presence of a sexually transmitted infection (STI) like syphilis, gonorrhoea or chlamydia - all of which are on the increase as well - make the body more vulnerable to HIV infection and vice versa.

 

“Every act of unprotected sex opens up pathways for these infections to spread further in our communities,” says Jenkin. “Gay and bisexual men in particular need to be aware that a decision to have unprotected anal sex is a choice that is clearly harming an increasing number of men - friends and partners alike.”

 

Discussion at NZAF’s recent community forums for gay and bisexual men suggested that unprotected anal sex was being glorified through a lack of peer pressure against the practice. 

 

“No one wants to become infected, let alone be responsible for passing an infection on,” Jenkin says. “Those of us who were around in the 1970s remember how unpleasant it was. Condoms, along with regular sexual health checkups, are by far the better choice for avoiding HIV and STIs.” NZAF Research Director Tony Hughes says similar linked epidemics of HIV and syphilis have been taking place in Sydney, Melbourne, San Francisco and London. “We don’t want gay and bisexual men to be blindsided by this. Syphilis is a real threat in particular, and we need to respond before it takes hold in New Zealand as it has already done overseas.”

 

 

 

Manaaki Kōrero

 

This quarter we hear from author Renee (Ngāti Kahungunu ki Wairoa), who will return to Ōtepoti in December for a two-month residency at the Robert Lord writers’ cottage.

Questions by Anna Chinn via email

In the acknowledgements of The Skeleton Woman you thank your granddaughter Naomi for her help with te reo. As someone who grew up in the 1930s and 40s, what has been your experience of the Maori language?

Until I was 50 I had had no experience at all. I had a desire to learn it but didn’t know where to start. Since the 1980s I have had a few goes at learning te reo and all these have been great.

 

Great teachers. The main thing is to get practice in conversation, get the structure of sentences into my head. I’ll never be a fluent speaker but I know and enjoy a lot more than I used to. I think for someone like me it takes a lot of courage to do a mihi but I decided I had to so I do. He toa taumata rau (Bravery has many resting places).

 

You’ve been a prolific writer in a range of forms from playwriting and fiction through to speeches and textbooks. Does one form suit you better than any other?

If I had to choose, it would be plays. I love the challenge of writing good dialogue. I work very hard on the dialogue in my plays and novels, and I’m still learning. When we write plays we have four elements to play with: sound, silence, dark, light. A lot of playwrights whose work I see forget about silence. Between the lines, sub-text, is a good place to explore.

 

You don’t seem to care much for poetry. Why is that?

I reject this totally. Do you think this because I had a bit of fun [in Yin & Tonic] about poets who read in pubs? I have read poetry and bought poetry for years.  My all-time favourite is the American Jewish poet Adrienne Rich (we are the same age, both  lesbian, both writers). Her Diving Into The Wreck is a must for anyone who calls themself a writer. But I have lots of favorites I read over and over. New Zealand poets I like are Elizabeth Smither, Bernadette Hall and Lynn Davidson. And others. This year I joined a poetry Year 2 class as a student and have enjoyed the experience immensely ... Elizabeth Smither is my mentor and she’s the best - rigorous and encouraging. All of us in the poetry workshop gave a reading on Montana Poetry Day, and we had music, food, wine and no one wanted to go home – great audience and great reviews.

 

So good that we’re doing another one just before I come down to Dunedin.  Playwrights like Lorca have been an inspiration. He wrote some great plays – Blood Wedding, The House of Bernarda Alba - and he was also a poet and a great one. He was killed in the mid 1930s because he was homosexual. He is now regarded as one of Spain’s greatest writers. Writing poetry is a great thing for playwrights to do.

 

You’re known as a bit of a cook. Do you have a quick favourite recipe you can share with our readers?

Too many favourite recipes, too little time. I love cooking. I have always had an intense relationship with food so cooking good food grows out of that. My mother was not a good cook, but she had little money and less interest so maybe that’s why I’ve had such an interest in it. At the moment I am into Thai cooking, but I like Italian and am still occasionally into a good old-fashioned kiwi roast meal. I think cooking a meal for someone is a way of showing your love and affection for them and that cooking is a place where all cultures meet.

 

In your book of comic writing, Yin & Tonic, you describe as “culture shock” the experience of going to Auckland parties where they ate cheese on dry crackers instead of saveloys and tomato sauce. Don’t you think saveloys have the potential to cross cultural boundaries if only people would open their hearts, minds and mouths?

Now there’s a great philosophical question and it made me laugh too. I haven’t eaten a saveloy for years. Your question reminded me of a poem of Elizabeth Smither’s called “Saveloy”. It’s in her collection called Red Shoes. Saveloys cross all gender and cultural boundaries it seems. None of us are unaffected by them. Don’t know whether I put this anecdote in Yin & Tonic or not but I remember a girl I knew when I was at school whose father worked in the local butcher’s shop – she used to throw her white socks in with the saveloys because they came out a bright pink. She  offered to let me throw mine in, but I decided against that tempting proposition. It didn’t put me off saveloys.

 

RAINBOW FAMILY LIFE

 

by Tor Devereux

There are defining moments in our lives which we use as markers – coming out is often one of these. I’ve found in recent years that having children is another. From time to time my partner and I reminisce about things we were able to do before the introduction of little ones into our family and we also talk about how things are different now that they’re part of our lives. This doesn’t mean that one period is necessarily better than the other, simply different. This is never so true as when it

comes to holidays. When planning a trip to Australia earlier this year our focus was solely on child-oriented activities and interests. A visit to Dream World, including Wiggle World (for hours and hours!), zoos, children’s sections in museums, playgrounds, etc. A few years back our pre-holiday research for an overseas destination would have included trying to find out if there were any feminist or LGBT bookshops in the cities we would be visiting and any other LGBT businesses, resources or entertainment. How life changes …

 

And, with our oldest starting school this year, I have been reminded once again that regardless of the fact that our lives are so focused on every day, kid-related things, our family is different and there’s no guarantee that we’ll be accepted by other families. With a child starting school we found ourselves back at the stage of him making new friends who don’t know us and therefore don’t know that we’re a rainbow family and back at that point of worrying about how the information once shared will be received. To date things have been fine, but I’m always very conscious

that this could “go wrong” and how would we all deal with that.

 

I’ve also discovered this year that 5 year olds are very inquisitive.  Often younger children simply accept situations or aren’t particularly interested in the make-up of families. However, school-age children are quite a different kettle of fish and there have been times this year when I’ve been quite taken aback or amused by some of the comments I’ve received from our son’s classmates. Here’s a selection of the particularly memorable ones:

- Why is your hair so short?

- Are you Russell’s dad?

- Does Russell have two mums?

- Pink is a girl’s colour (this came about because Russell insisted on

having a pink reading folder despite the teacher trying to talk him out

of it! – and no, he doesn’t wish now that he’d made a different choice)

- Which one of you did Russell come from?

None of this appears to phase Russell though - he’s quite clear and secure about his family and is happy to talk about us to anyone.

 

I also tend to get many comments/questions from adults about our younger son’s hair and many of these relate to his biological background since I’m often asked by complete strangers where his curls or the colour of his hair come from. (The best one occurred at the beginning of this year at a children’s music group when I was asked one day, “Do the curls come from you or your husband?”) Who cares why he’s been blessed with a head of ginger curls? Why is it the business of strangers? Why does the answer matter to anyone? While I’m sure that such questions are generally asked quite innocently, they exemplify the heterosexist world that we still live in and for me they can be awkward, annoying and invasive.

 

I’ve been told too, on multiple occasions, that curls like those our younger son Tobias has are wasted on a boy – and Russell used to get similar comments about his eyelashes. This one astonishes and angers me so much that generally I’m unable to respond. I keep meaning to come up with a sharp, witty retort that I’ll always have at the ready for such occasions so that I can let these “well meaning” folk know quite

clearly that I completely disagree with them (without being offensive), but to date this hasn’t happened. And, I’ve lost count of the number of times that our wee curly-haired guy has been mistaken for a girl (probably because his hair has never been cut – his own decision! - and since he’s now 3 ½ years old it’s getting kind of long – and only girls can have long hair, you know!).

 

In many ways our children (and those in other rainbow families) are trailblazers, although at this stage they’re completely oblivious of this. The majority of the children they come into contact with (through school, kindy, various groups) won’t know another child from a rainbow family and so they’re helping to raise awareness and teach others that in many respects our families and our concerns and interests have more similarities than differences. As with so many things, I believe that personal interaction and experience is the most effective way of changing attitudes and breaking down barriers. Families come in so many different shapes

and sizes now that assumptions or expectations of any sort are unhelpful and inadequate. All I ask is to be acknowledged as a family unit and for our children’s reality of family to be recognised and acknowledged.

 

Pride And The Public  

 

 

by Anna Chinn

At the checkout I have 110 precooked sausages, matching slices of bread, one kilo of

margarine, twelve onions, plus six litres each of milk and cream. The checkout lady asks, “And what’s all this for – some sort of fundraising, is it?”

 

She exudes the sort of tension that scrambles gaydar. “Potential dyke!” it cries, but in the same blip, “Repressed? Hostile? Gaydar has encountered an error and needs to close.” I tell her, “It’s for Pride Week. We’re doing a sausage sizzle and giving away hot chocolate as part of Rainbow Day.” The checkout lady looks down at her hands and says, “Oh. I don’t think I know anything about that,” and moves the onions across the scanner. I am not sure whether this is an invitation to elaborate, or whether she is hoping for a change of subject.

 

In any case, the lady packing the bags pipes up. “Yeah, you know, Pride Week. It’s a gay and lesbian week of activities.” I beam at her and say, “That’s right.” The checkout lady gives me a strange look, directly into my eyes. Reactivated, gaydar

scans the barcodes and reads it as terror – but of what? She has inadvertently opened a can of queers. Is she asking me to close it? I don’t quite pity her enough to attempt that and, besides, there is no containing the lady packing the bags.

“They do all sorts of events and activities. What’s Rainbow Day?”

“It’s in the Octagon between noon and two today. Free food and entertainment.”

“I think in Auckland they do a parade, don’t they?”

“The Hero Parade,” I say, nodding, smiling.

 

The checkout lady is looking down again. Shaking her head, she quietly reiterates her

ignorance of the topic. The lady packing the bags gives her a cheerful nudge. “Yes, Gay and Lesbian Pride Week. You know!”

The checkout lady looks defeated. She says, “One hundred and thirty-seven dollars and ninety-five cents, thanks.” Then she asks, “Any cash?”

Politely, I decline.

 

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Two pairs of legs in shorts appear above my head while I am down among tree roots

sussing out the electricity in the Octagon. Much of the Octagon is draped in rainbow flags and a barbecue is being set up. The legs belong to domestic tourists, one of whom asks, “And what’s all this for? What’s happening here today?”

 

“It’s Rainbow Day,” I say. “It’s part of Pride Week.”

 

“Pride Week,” they both murmur, and then one says, “Pride in Dunedin?”

I take the question to mean, “gay and lesbian pride week happens in Dunedin too, then?”

and so I reply, “Yep.”

In the next nanosecond I realise the rainbow flags are not enough of a clue and the

question probably meant, “So Dunedin has a week in which it takes pride in itself?”

 

This suspicion is confirmed when one of the leg owners says, “Well, we’re tourists and we love Dunedin; we think it’s great.”

 

“Welcome,” I offer.

 

They walk away smiling.

 

Much later, after several microphone-pronounced, explicit references to the nature of the occasion, I think I spy the owners of the legs participating merrily in a dance lesson on the Octagon lawn. This is part of the entertainment for our day to celebrate sexual diversity and to be visible.

 

It is unclear whether the tourists have cottoned on yet.

 

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At the Pride Ball on a Saturday night we have a function room to ourselves but must share the bar with a straight crowd. A large portion of the straight crowd is rural people. The function room has windows in its doors and when the rural wives realise they can use these to peer at the queers, a flock begins to gather at the doors. Some bring their uncomfortable husbands.

 

There is something tentative in their approach – tentative but hungry, like sheep gazing into a barn full of hay bales. They do not notice three of us bales sitting on a sofa just a few feet away, watching them, so they must be quite mesmerised by the contents of the function room.

 

We decide having CWI folk perve at GLBTI folk is not what is meant by the visibility ideal, so we call on one of our knights in shining glamour to disperse the voyeuristic crowd.

 

“Hey hey hey!” the drag queen says to the country wives. “Who are you, what are you doing here and what’s happening? What’s the story?”

 

They bleat tamely for a while before one woolly-haired woman begins to compliment his dress. A brief and banal conversation about beauty takes place and then the flock ambles off, its members tickled by their encounter and apparently pleased with their own wit.

One of their ram companions across the room begins to yell abuse at the queen through drink-lubed lips. The queen, in a red sequined dress, strides over to face the man. The cusser cannot be charmed like the wives, because he has perfected his oafdom, but the womenfolk make some apologetic noises on his behalf. They now compliment the lady in red on her politeness and her dignity and she high-heels across his ego as she departs. I hear strains of Chris de Burgh. Lady in red . . . you were amazing

 

Dear Editor,

I was very interested to read Anna Chinn’s article

in the August-October 2007 OGT about attitudes

to queer students in Dunedin schools. I was even

more interested to find out what inspired her

to write the article in the first place. I attended

Columba College from third form to seventh form.

 

In our sixth form year, I think it was, one of my

classmates wanted to take a female friend from

another school to our senior formal. She was told

she had to sign a “contract” saying she was a

lesbian before she could take a female partner. The

girl my classmate wanted to take to our formal was

a former Columba girl who had transferred to Otago

Girls High School, which might be how the mix-up

over the schools occurred.

 

All this happened eight or nine years ago now and

I can only hope that Miss Wilson has moved with

the times, at least a little bit. But, judging by her

very careful and sometimes inconclusive answers to

the questions Anna asked her I would have to say

probably not.

Y

ours sincerely,

Anne Barkman

 

Dear Editor,

In the August edition of the Otago

Gaily Times I reported that Logan Park

High School did not return calls in

relation to my article about secondary

schools’ attitudes towards queer

students. (LPHS was given an “achieved”

NCEgAy grade anyway based on its good

reputation in this area.)

 

In fact, some days after the deadline

for that edition had passed, LPHS

principal Jane Johnson did call back. She

not only acknowledged the existence of

gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender

students, but also celebrated the

contribution they make to the school:

 

“They are some of our top, top students.”

She cited specific examples of high achieving

queer students and alumni, of

whom she was obviously proud.

 

I found her attitude positive and

affirming and, being a Libran, I thought it

fair to acknowledge that here in print.

 

regards,

Anna Chinn

 

Gay/Straight Alliances: Where To Start?

by Anna Chinn

Buried deep in the reports from the recent national evaluation of sexuality education in secondary schools were indications that the Education Review Office regards gay/straight alliances and queer support groups favourably.  The main report listed support groups for nonheterosexual students as a “typical” feature of schools considered to have “effective support networks” in place for all students. (It reckoned about half the schools it surveyed had effective support networks, but as no in-school queer  support groups or gay/straight alliances are known to exist in the entire Otago Southland catchment, the use of the word “typical” has to be questioned. But that’s another article.)

 

ERO also issued a secondary report designed to illustrate to schools what it considers “good practice” of sexuality education. This presented four schools as exemplary and, in that context, the gay/straight alliance club of one school was cited. A student from this school was quoted as saying: “The gay/straight alliance club here does great things such as “tolerance awareness” programmes and such. It’s much more supportive for a gay student to have something like this at the school.”

 

So that’s the official endorsement, but just how easy is it to establish a gay/straight alliance or queer support group within a school?

 

The obvious place to ask that question locally was Taieri College. In the last edition of the Otago Gaily Times, we reported that this school was planning to put to the school board the idea of  establishing such a group. When the school was contacted for an update on progress, however, there was little to report. Good things take time, perhaps – certainly the reason progress had stalled was unclear. Counsellor Robyn Dunlop did point out that such groups are formed on a voluntary basis and the Ministry of Education offers no resources or guidelines on how to run them.

 

If not the ministry, then where do schools find help in starting support groups for their queer students, and is there a set framework for how to go about it?

 

Nathan Brown, national co-ordinator of queer youth development project Out There!, said: “There’s no one way that’s been identified of doing it and usually there’s a whole lot of different ways, but the Nayland College example in Nelson is probably the most successful. That is a gay/ straight alliance model and I think it’s the only

school that is using that model. The Thames High School one is more of a diversity group, like a queer group sort of thing. The Nayland one has being going since about 2003 and a counsellor, a straight woman, is the staff member who supports the group and the chairperson this year was a Year 13 student. And he was quite key in driving

a lot of their activities this year. This year was their biggest; they’ve definitely grown and this year they were able to have a staged diversity awareness week at the school.”

 

These schools have managed to find their own way in establishing support groups, but others are evidently not so bold. Nathan said Out There! was “looking at doing a resource next year around setting up and running such a group in a school.  And so, at the moment Out There! is available to be a support, but there is not a vast amount  of resources available”.

 

Doubtless there are other reasons why most schools haven’t got round to queer support groups yet, but this lack of resources does seem to be a major hurdle.

 

However, hope shines from the Internet.  Although an overseas model may not be ideal, the United States-based Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network makes available on its website a toolkit for setting up gay/straight alliances.

 

This can be found at www.glsen.org through the Resources tab.

 

Gay Romancing

Review by Mike Wooliscroft

A genre of writing I have only just started exploring is gay romances after becoming aware through Rainbow Readership* of the books coauthored by four authors – three gay men and one (straight) woman. The individual authors are Jim Carter, Timothy Forry, Timothy Lambert and Becky Cochrane, but they write under the collective

pseudonym Timothy James Beck. They meet as a group twice a year to discuss plot-lines and characters and in between exchange files over the internet.

 

As with more traditional romance genres the writing is not (generally) sexually explicit. The first two books I have completed reading are a little in the style of  Armisted Maupin in his Tales of the City series.

 

In each of the first four books youngish men from the small-city mid-West (States) travel to New York to experience more lively and open lifestyles where they meet others of their kind and fall in love.  Complications abound (but not too many) and the endings are sweet.

 

The principal characters in the second book, He’s The One, interact with some of the principal characters in the first title, It Had To Be You. I am only part-way through reading the third title, Someone Like You, but it seems that the characters in this story

have a distinct existence from those of the first two. The fourth title is I’m Your Man. A fifth title, When You Don’t See Me, is to be published this month.

 

It Had to Be You and He’s The One were Lambda Literary Award nominees in the Gay

Romance and Gay Fiction categories and Someone Like You was a finalist in the Lambda Literary Awards.

 

These books provide light, entertaining and undemanding reading, but they are wittily written and are likely to develop a committed following.  * The Rainbow Readership group is a member of The Literature Reading Circle at http://groups.yahoo.com/

group/LiteratureReadingCircle 

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Beck, Timothy James

It Had To Be You. New York: Kensington, 2001

He’s The One. New York: Kensington, 2003

I’m Your Man. New York: Kensington, 2004

Someone Like You. New York: Kensington, 2006

When You Don’t See Me. New York: Kensington, 2007

 

TRUMAN TWO

Review by Mike Wooliscroft

Last year I reviewed for the OGT the very good movie Capote with Philip Seymour Hoffman in the starring role for which he deservedly won an Oscar. Capote drew largely on Gerald Clarke’s excellent and comprehensive work Capote: A Biography. Followers of film will know that at the same time another company was making a film of this same period in Truman’s life when he was working on his “non-fiction novel” In Cold Blood.

 

Infamous, the more recently released film, is based on another Capote biography - this

time George Plimpton’s Truman Capote: In Which Various Friends, Enemies, Acquaintances, and Detractors Recall His Turbulent Career. As the title might suggest, this biography is much

sharper (and quite a lot more amusing).

 

It was decided to delay the release of Infamous so that it received full attention when it screened. For some curious reason it hasn’t yet been shown locally, though it has been in Christchurch’s cinemas for a month.

 

Good and all as Capote is it has been superseded in almost every way by the thoroughly brilliant Infamous. Toby Jones, who plays the lead role, is superb. Not only is he much more physically like Truman Capote, but he gets the distinctive mannerisms to a “T”. Sandra Bullock is a superior Harper Lee and Michael Parks an excellent Gore Vidal. Juliet Stevenson plays an absolutely stunning Diana Vreeland while John Benjamin Hickey plays Jack Dunphy, TC’s longterm and long-suffering partner, very well.

 

Infamous is much more specific about the affectionate/loving relationship between TC and Perry Smith (one of the two murderers) played by Daniel Craig who delighted audiences as the latest incarnation of James Bond in Casino Royale. The tragedy of TC with his self-serving approach even to Perry Smith whom he probably genuinely cared for – but not nearly as much as himself – is convincingly and very uncomfortably portrayed.

 

Infamous is stronger too on the little details of relationships and gossip, the wit and cynicism of TC and reminds me of a quote of Geoffrey Bocca: “Wit is a treacherous dart. It is perhaps the only weapon with which it is possible to stab oneself in one’s own back.” Of course, TC was his own worst enemy and found himself shunned by many former intimates when they discovered how deceitful and disloyal he could be.

 

This much more compelling and open version of these years in Capote’s life when he was writing In Cold Blood will be remembered for its sterling strength and perceptive insights into TC’s quirky character long after Capote has been forgotten – good though that was regarded at the time of its release. Books on which the two films were based: Clarke, Gerald. Capote: A Biography. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1988.

Plimpton, George. Truman Capote: In Which Various Friends, Enemies, Acquaintances, and

Detractors Recall His Turbulent Career. New York: Talese, 1997.

 

This Breathing World by José Luis de Juan

(translated from Spanish by Martin Schifino and Selina Packard), Arcadia, 2007

Review by Ralph Body

 

When I read the line “Mazuf’s story is ours, so let’s take possession of it before anyone else” in the first few pages of this novel, I assumed its rather awkward phrasing was the result of an inelegant translation from the Spanish. As I read on, however, the true significance of this line became apparent. The novel is structured as a dual narrative. This is a common enough technique these days - to recount a story from the point of view of two or more characters to demonstrate how individual subjectivities inform perception. In this instance, however, the two narratives belong to vastly different worlds.

 

The first, set in first-century Rome, recounts the experiences of Mazuf, a Syrian scribe who manages to progress from slave to head of a workshop of copyists. The second narrative is the present-day confessions of Laurence as he looks back on his student days at Harvard University in the late 1950s. Despite the apparent differences of setting, there are a number of correspondences between both the characters and their stories. For starters both are gay, they both spend a lot of time in libraries (where they find sexual as well as intellectual stimulation) and both are murderers.  

 

To make things more complex, each of the stories is positioned as a narrative composed by one of the protagonists of the other story. Laurence’s experiences are recited as a futuristic poem by Mazuf at Rome’s Marcellus theatre, while Mazuf and his associates are characters in a play written by Jonathan, Laurence’s dead former lover. Throughout the novel there is an interest in writing, authorship and the stability of a text. Both narratives involve the rewriting of established texts and, in doing so, question the authority of history as it is passed down to us.

 

However, the driving force behind the plot(s) is more than just an interest in meta-fiction. As I said, both protagonists are murderers. When reading the book I tended to feel sympathetic towards their actions and decisions. Again, I think this has a lot to do with the narrative approach with the killers’ forceful presence of character and point of view strongly influencing my perception of events. It was really only once I’d finished the novel that I stopped to reflect whether their motives, actions and, in some cases, inactions were really justified. Homophobia is not a factor in any of the killings, although the threat of exposure is used as a means of manipulating people. Instead, most of the conflict in the novel comes from within the gay community itself.

 

While I’ve probably made this novel sound rather complicated, it is in fact extremely

readable. Despite my initial reservations, the text is a very smooth translation. De Juan’s language is beautifully lyrical and evocative, his descriptions both sensuous and visceral in turn. The significance of certain elements still eludes me - I wasn’t sure what to make of the two female characters (women don’t feature strongly in the novel) or the trans-historical ventriloquist’s voice - although this in no way diminished my enjoyment. The novel ends without any sense of resolution, many strings are left hanging and the two narratives seem to diverge rather than come together. Rather than leaving me dissatisfied, however, the many teasing possibilities and questions meant this novel lived on in my mind well after I’d finished reading it.

 

Queer Cinema

by Mike Wooliscroft

There is a splendid new DVD on queer cinema in the Dunedin Public Library collection - Fabulous! The Story of Queer Cinema – which provides a visually delightful, intelligent and thought-provoking introduction to gay cinema since the 1950s. There are interviews with directors, actors and academic commentators on the development of queer cinema from catering largely to a specifically queer audience through to its becoming mainstream as in Ang Lee’s Brokeback Mountain, the harrowing Boys Don’t Cry and

Monster.

 

There is nothing frivolous about this presentation and the focus is on the role of cinema in helping to shape identity. Kenneth Anger’s Fireworks, portraying his masturbatory fantasy, is singled out as one of the first truly queer movies.

 

Stonewall was a vital event helping to shape much of western queer society and culture with film-makers being determined to do their bit to be open about who we were and to stop hiding. The acme of this was probably The Rocky Horror Picture Show – a totally gay movie – promoting the delight of being whatever/whoever you wanted to be.

 

Through the 1960s and 1970s many “dykesploitation” movies were made rather more for straight male audiences than for queer women.

 

PFLAG (founded in 1972) was influential in gaining wider acceptance of queer cinema and the move of the American Psychiatric Association the following year to declassify homosexuality as a mental illness was also instrumental in opening doors and minds.

 

The role of obviously, or barely masked, gay characters in so much 1970s popular culture and television series is examined. Also discussed is the move from films where gays and lesbians are shown as villains to films which are more respectful, complex and inclusive.

 

This is a thoroughly worthwhile documentary for those with a keen interest in queer cinema.

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Viewing this documentary brought to mind an earlier documentary of queer cinema. Celluloid Closet (1995) is based on the book by Vito Russo which is an excellent history of homosexuals in film.  (I’d suggest reading the revised edition of 1987 which

updates the 1981 first edition.)

 

Celluloid Closet (the book) documents 300 plus movies from the days of Chaplin and Stan Laurel when gay characters were presented to laugh at, pity and fear. Celluloid Closet presents a sharper, wittier treatment than Fabulous and covers early twentieth

century queer film much more comprehensively.

 

The “sissy” was the first gay stock character with no obvious sexuality as we know it now. In 1932 the first movie to show the interior of a gay bar reached the screens. In the 1920s a number of quite raunchy movies were made and in response to this the Roman Catholic church and some other American churches came down hard. It was partly as a consequence of this that it was in the 1930s that the Roman Catholic

church established its highly restrictive code. One result of this was to make homosexuals harder to identify in movies. They often came to be presented

as cold-blooded villains – moving from being victims to being victimisers.

 

One statement in the documentary had huge resonance for me commenting on the subtle appearance of gays in movies: “How we used to be grateful for crumbs – sitting through 2 to 3 hours of a movie to detect moments of recognition … hoping to see what we wanted to see.”

 

Rock Hudson (a closeted gay in real life) often posed as gay at some point in his movies in order to get “his” woman into bed and so we have the situation of a gay man impersonating a straight man impersonating a gay man.

 

In several movies through the 1960s gay characters were often presented as unhappy, desperate and suicidal people. But, in Boys In The Band (1970) the director was determined on a script where the gay men don’t die at the end and where there is an incredible camaraderie, albeit with some self-deprecating humour.

 

Russo’s view is that the first film “celebrating” homosexuality was the delicious Cabaret (1972) and he states that Making Love (1982) was the first movie treating homosexuality as an act of love rather than violence.

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Both of these DVDs are well worth viewing, but if you want to delve deeper into queer cinema a very good place to start is the revised edition of Vito Russo’s The Celluloid Closet.

 

For those interested, one of the best reference guides to gay and lesbian film

is The Bent Lens: A World Guide To Gay And Lesbian Film (2003).

 

Ribbons Of Grace

by Maxine Alterio (Penguin, 2007)

Review by Janice Devereux

 

“Con-Lan and I loved among these poppies. We filled the space between the river and mountains and sky, flattened the tussock grass and warmed the schist. And, in a hut, high on the side of a mountain, we burrowed deep into each other’s hearts. Happiness lived within us until our secret flew out the door, tumbled down the gorge and rushed into town on the wind. Dark times followed.”

(page 10)

 

Ribbons of Grace is a superb first novel written by Maxine Alterio who is a very talented and experienced local writer. The book is an infusion of different societies and is set in China, Orkney and New Zealand between 1870 and 1895. It explores cultural relations and differences by focusing on the lives of the three main characters, Ming

Yuet, Conran and Ida Chynoweth, who work in and around Arrowtown, a small gold mining town in the South Island of New Zealand.

 

Ming Yuet is a young Chinese woman who is intelligent and very resourceful. When her brother, Fu Ling, is killed by pirates as he travels with her to a new life in the Otago Goldfields, she takes his identity, completes the journey and lives for several years as a miner and a translator. Conran, a talented stonemason and musician from Stromness in Orkney, is spirited, caring and loyal. Like the sojourner Ming Yuet, Conran has left his native country in search of a better life and so that he too can send money home to his family. Ida, Ming Yuet’s English friend who leaves her homeland after the tragic death of her baby sister and her mother, is a compassionate and gifted healer who has aspirations of becoming a nurse.

 

These characters in turn each narrate a part of the story and through the different

perspectives and the interrelated storylines the novel explores the important ideas of alienation, love and forgiveness - “the healing potential of friendship and the redemptive power of storytelling” (Alterio). Well-structured, detailed and compelling the storyline gives the reader a sense of an actual place in real time. One of the strengths of this novel is that it does not consciously set out to describe the setting or historical surroundings. Through the convincingly believable characters and their individual, distinctive dialogue we absorb the history in the same way that we take in the background of a painting we stand in front of in a museum.

 

Alterio’s poignant love story about the blossoming relationship between Ming Yuet and

Conran is beautifully envisaged and expertly accomplished. Reading this book is like viewing a kaleidoscope of ever-changing illustrations of their lives and their love.

 

Alterio’s descriptive style of writing is particularly skilful. Reflecting absolutely its title,

Ribbons of Grace imitates a series of pictures that constantly change and reshape and

restructure as the story unfolds. Every image, every sensation, every emotion in effect becomes it own “ribbon of grace”.

 

I loved this book. I have told everyone I know about this book. It is a marvellous story beautifully narrated. Now I am looking forward to Alterio’s next one, In Quiet Exile.

 

WORLD WATCH

Sources: www.365Gay.com, www.gaywired.com,

www.pinknews.co.uk, www.rainbownetwork.com

 

LESBIAN PRISON OFFICER WINS COMPENSATION

New York, USA

A lesbian prison guard who suffered mental and physical abuse

from a fellow male co-worker for over a year has been awarded

US$850,000 damages. In making his recommendation the

judge concluded that the prison department “permitted a work

environment to flourish where the credible evidence showed

that she could have been killed because she is a gay female”. It

was revealed the woman had twice filed written complaints, but

these were generally ignored by prison bosses.

 

GAMBLE ON GAY RIGHTS AS A VOTE-WINNER

Canberra, Australia

With his Liberal party trailing in opinion polls, Australian PM

John Howard is reportedly about to announce that gay and

lesbian couples will be given a range of equal rights, a move

that could help two key colleagues retain their Sydney seats in

the forthcoming general election. In June, the Human Rights

and Equal Opportunity Commission had highlighted 58 laws

that needed to be changed to grant gay, bisexual and lesbian

Australians equal rights. When Cabinet discussed the proposals

two months later it was split and left the final decision

to Mr. Howard. The opposition Labour party supports the

recommended law changes, but both parties support a federal

ban on gay marriage.

 

IRAN DOES HAVE GAYS AFTER ALL

Tehran, Iran

The President of Iran claims he was misrepresented by Western

media when he was quoted as saying that there are no gays in

Iran. During a recent speech at New York’s Columbia University,

the president had said: “In Iran we don’t have homosexuals

like in your country … In Iran we do not have this phenomenon,

I don’t know who has told you that we have it.” A presidential

aide now says that the president simply meant not as many

as in the United States - historical, religious and cultural

differences mean homosexuality is less prevalent in Iran and

the Islamic world than in the West. In August, an Iranian

newspaper was shut down for printing an interview with a

lesbian poet. In July 2005, two gay teenagers were executed in

Iran sparking protests around the world.

 

LESBIAN FILM WINS INAUGURAL AWARD

Cardiff, Wales

The inaugural Iris Prize of £25,000, which organisers claim

is the largest on offer for a gay and lesbian short film, has

been won by Pariah, a film about an African-American lesbian

teenager. A coming-of-age drama about a lesbian teenager who

unsuccessfully juggles multiple identities to avoid rejection from

her friends and family, Pariah has already made a splash on the

American gay and lesbian film circuit winning the prestigious

best narrative short at New York’s Newfest film festival.

 

ADVICE COLUMN ADVOCATES GAY MARRIAGE

New York, USA

One of the widest-read syndicated newspaper columns in the

world, Dear Abby, has backed gay marriage: “I believe if two

people want to commit to each other, God bless ’em. That is the

highest form of commitment, for heaven’s sake.” The column,

begun in 1956, also spoke out against homophobic slurs and

parents who disown kids who come out to them. The column

receives more than 10,000 letters and emails each week and

has a daily readership of more than 110 million people. Abby

was recently awarded the first-ever Straight for Equality award

for her promotion of PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of

Lesbians and Gays) as a resource for family members with

gay loved ones. “I hate discrimination,” said Abby. “In my

column and in my daily life, I have always promoted fairness

for all people, and I admire the work that PFLAG does for the

friends and families of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender

individuals.”

 

CELEBRITIES RAP TO MAKE GAY SEX LEGAL

Singapore

Singaporean celebrities are rapping for repeal of a law that

makes gay sex a criminal offence. They appear in a video

that is posted on the You Tube website to support one man’s

push to repeal the law. The video ends with the words “It’s

not just a gay thing. It’s about equality.” MP Siew Kum Hong

will present a petition to coincide with debate on the most

extensive amendments to the city-state’s penal code in 22

years. The petition urges abolishing part of the penal code that

makes sexual acts between males a crime punishable by up to

two years in jail. A bill introduced into parliament last month

proposed making amendments to the code that would legalise

oral and anal sex in private between consenting heterosexual

adults. But the legislation does not address a ban on acts of

“gross indecency” between men, which dates back to British

colonial rule.

 

Endings and Beginnings

by Andrew Metcalfe

In April 2008 I will have been back in the UK for five years. Every now and then I’ve

penned a few lines to send to the Otago Gaily Times back home, attempting to reflect

on some of the wider issues in Scottish and UK society (especially anything with a LGBT flavour), as well observations of things I’ve stumbled across on my travels. The last few contributions I’ve ended saying that I’m in my “last year” of living and working in Scotland.

 

For those who have come in late, my main reason for being here was to be closer to my partner, with the idea that we would work towards being able to live our lives as a “couple”. Over the past few years this kind of scenario has become easier for many in the UK as well as New Zealand. For example, a friend of mine, originally from Alexandra/Invercargill and now living in London, had a civil ceremony with his partner in May. It’s something that I would love to do – to declare how much I want to live the rest of my life with my beloved. But it is not to be.

 

After nearly seven and a half years together, we have had to go our separate ways.

Even in a society where it should be easier for both of us to work this kind of thing out, it hasn’t been possible. One of the main reasons is that not all employers in this land are open to same-sex relationships as (in theory) they should be. For him to really be with me would mean leaving his job, possibly his career, his home and lifestyle. Departing from his job would have also included leaving his local area where he has a prominent community role. It is rural, conservative and, for any Family members, very closeted.  In the end, the “devil you know” won out when confronted with the option of taking the plunge to an uncertain future with me. And, who is this “evil employer” who would not let him be himself and be with me? None other than the Church of Scotland, the “established” Presbyterian church here.

 

Those of you who can remember some other things I’ve written will recall that I have a religious bent myself (pardon the pun!). The church is something that I manage to love and hate at the same time – probably something that many of us feel with people and places that have become inextricably woven into our lives.

 

So, how does one respond to such a break up in the supposedly enlightened era of

2007? Well, like anyone else going through this sort of thing, it’s a mixed bag. Tears

have been (and will be) shed while the practical realities begin to set in. For me, that

has involved small things like the sudden disappearance of my partner’s personal things from the flat, to bigger changes such as the “For Sale” signs going up outside the flat, with the prospect of having to find another home. Some days I’m tempted to rant and rage about the injustice of it all or give in to self pity and blame – I mean, why do I have to pick the impossible ones to try and make a life with?!

 

I’m still determined to chip away from the sidelines as well as from the insides at the Church, which espouses peace, forgiveness, community, love … and yet can be so hateful and hurtful to people like me who, let’s face it, give the energy, time and creativity to keep it going. It is, in fact, with some relief I feel that a difficult personal

situation has been resolved (although not in the way I wanted). So, I’ve decided to stay on here for a bit longer and see what life brings.

 

In many ways, what we are going through is similar to many others throughout the

world - gay, straight or something in between. Sometimes things don’t work out, despite the best intentions (or otherwise) from the parties involved. People come and go from our lives, we change and grow ourselves – or we don’t, which may be the reason behind the discontentment that creeps in. I’m a firm believer in “the best is yet to be”, even if at times that seems farfetched and sounds a bit trite. For all of you who are riding rough seas, take strength from friends and others around you who love you. Tomorrow is another day, and who knows what the future holds?!

 

GLBT In Rural New Zealand - An Opportunity

by Sue Thompson, PFLAG South

 

PFLAG South has recently been approached by Kate Duggan of PFLAG Hamilton. They have been successful in getting funding to provide a PFLAG start up and resource kit for rural communities and larger towns throughout New Zealand. At present they are paying for me to attend an all day hui on 1 December.

 

So, for the next few weeks I will be thinking about how we can best contribute at this meeting. If this project is done well it should provide support for families and their GLBT members, as well as opportunities for better education about sexuality in communities.

 

I plan to sort out some of PFLAG South’s collection of books, DVDs and printed resources to take to Hamilton. I also thought that it would be great if a DVD could be made of New Zealanders talking about their own experience of family members coming out. I wonder if there may be other huge needs we have not met, such as the special difficulties of straight spouses and their children.

 

The wisdom and experience of other people would be valuable in helping us to think a bit beyond our own perceptions. It would be easy for “townies” to get it wrong, just by not understanding. It’s such an opportunity that we want to try and provide something that will really work for communities.

 

Have a think about these questions:

• What are the particular difficulties which people face in rural areas if they are gay or have a GLBT family member?

• Would people be too shy to come to a group?

• What might be the best ways or the best people to get information into a community? Professionals?

Parents? GLBT people?

 

I would be grateful to hear from any readers of the OGT in regard to this project.

Sue Thompson, PFLAG South ([email protected])

poetry

A Weary Wanderer

by Jane E Libeau

Across the plains of life

The steps of every moment

Scuffs across the memory

Of where one once has been

Behind us

Are left the footprints

Light-footed

Deep set

Amongst the weathered

Environmental changes

A compass direction

Of the sun and stars

Shrouded by moon and cloud

And the prints lead towards

Lost horizons

Waiting on the edge of now

Marking time with the lost image

Of what we are meant to follow

A spark of life

A blur

Smudged across the naked eye

Espies a road less traveled

A gate unhinged

And a weary wanderer

Ventures through.

 
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