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ISSUE 51 FEBRUARY -
APRIL 2007
editorial
Happy New Year to you all and welcome to the first issue
of the Otago Gaily Times (OGT) for 2007. I hope that everyone enjoyed the
festive season and managed to get in some relaxation even if you weren’t
able to go away.
As implied by our cover design, there has been a distinct
lack of warm, sunny days in Dunedin so far this summer so chances are you’re
not reading this on the beach or lying in a deck chair in the backyard.
Hopefully, though, the articles and news in this OGT will be so
fascinating and absorbing that you won’t notice the weather outside!
As you’ll find out when you read the paper, a couple of
our regular contributors – Mike and Anna – have each had some
enjoyable escapades recently and in this issue they share their
experiences of the Central Otago Rail Trail (Mike) and some local gay-run
accommodation in the Otago region (Anna). Not only are these interesting
pieces, but they also provide some great ideas for getaways. I know that
the Rail Trail has been written about quite a bit recently, but it
definitely is a fantastic experience. Barb and I did it some years ago (in
our pre-children days – and that seems like a life-time ago now!) and
found it to be amazing. And, it sounds like there are more accommodation
options now and I’m sure more cafés will have sprouted here and there
because of the number of travellers passing through. Perhaps 2007 will be
the year to get on your bike and give it a go?!
Anyway, if that isn’t your cup of tea then there are
plenty of other things happening in the local LGBT/queer community. The
first FUNQ will be taking place on March 3 and, of course, there are also
various groups operating within the community – see Page 3 for a list of
all the groups that the OGT is aware of and Pages 4, 5 and 12 for upcoming
events. Having said that, if you’re involved with a group or an event
that’s not included here, or if you want to start up a group, then
please contact the OGT and let us know. This is a community paper, so we
rely on the community telling us what’s happening out there. Likewise,
if there’s something that you’d like to write for the paper, a photo
you’d like us to print or something else that you’d like to see in the
OGT, then please email or write to us (contact details below).
If you’re reading this before February 10, then I’d
encourage you to seriously consider making a trip to Invercargill to
attend Southland’s inaugural Pride Picnic on Saturday February 10 from
11am onwards. This event is being organised by SGnLS (Southland Gay and
Lesbian Support) and promises to be a fantastic day out. See Page 5 for
more details about the picnic and Page 11 for an article about SGnLS’s
experiences of becoming a charitable trust.
And, finally, there’s some important information on Page
10 for anyone in a same-sex relationship who’s currently receiving
.nancial assistance from the Ministry of Social Development (this includes
WINZ payments). As of 1 April this year, all same-sex de facto couples
will be treated the same as married, civil union and opposite-sex de facto
couples. So, if this change may affect you then check out the article in
the OGT.
Hope you have a wonderful 2007!
Tor Devereux, Editor
by Tor Devereux
Welcome to all those new to Dunedin and those returning to
the city, and hello again to those for whom Dunedin is home. Below is a
list of the local LGBT/queer groups that I understand are currently
operating in the city (and one in Southland), as well as a brief
description of what they offer. There’s more information and contact
details for all of these group on page 12 of the paper.
Ascent - an
ecumenical support group for LGBT/queer people seeking to foster their
spirituality. Coffee evenings twice a month as well as monthly religious
services or social events.
Cardinal Sinners Women’s Social Softball Team -
plays on Saturday afternoons from October through March. New players and
supporters always welcome.
Otago Gaily Times -
a free newspaper for the local LGBT/queer community that’s published 4
times a year by a collective of volunteers.
PFLAG (Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians &
Gays) - a support group for GLBT
people, their families and friends and resources. Monthly meetings. PFLAG
also has an of. ce staffed by PFLAG volunteers together with books and
videos that can be borrowed.
Purple Passions Soccer Team -
plays every Saturday in the women’s social soccer competition (during
the soccer season). New players and supporters always welcome.
Rainbow Families -
a group for all those in the LGBT/queer community who have, want or are
trying to have children to get together for support and social activities.
Monthly events.
SGnLS (Southland Gay and Lesbian Support) -
a support organisation for LGBT/queer people in Southland.
The L Club - an
informal social group for lesbians over 45. Monthly social get together.
The L Walkers -
walking group for women. Monthly walks.
UniQ Otago - an
organisation run by and for queer tertiary students in Dunedin city. UniQ
offers peer support, facilitated social groups, advocacy, a queer resource
library and social events.
If you’re part of an LGBT/queer group or event that’s
happening, then please let the OGT know so that we can include information
about it in the paper. If you’d like to submit an article and/or photo
from an event for publication then we’d love to hear from you. Remember,
the OGT is your community paper and we rely on you to contribute copy and
to keep us informed about what’s happening out there.
Hope you all have a great 2007, and that you enjoy some of
the groups and events in our LGBT/queer community!
The OGT Receives A DCC
Grant
by Tor Devereux
In May last year the OGT had to find a new printer because
the Oamaru Mail (who had printed the OGT for many years) ceased operating
as a printing site. After getting quotes from several printers we ended up
choosing The Southland Times and they’ve been doing a great job for us
since then.
However, with the change of printers our printing costs
rose significantly and the revenue from our advertisers and subscribers is
no longer enough to cover all the costs associated with producing and
distributing the OGT.
The Collective did not want to increase the price of our
advertising because while commercial enterprises would have been able to
sustain such an increase we feared that smaller businesses from within our
own LGBT/queer community may not have been able to and this may have meant
that they were excluded from using the paper to advertise in. We also didn’t
want to put more ads in the paper because that would cut down the number
of articles, photos, notices, etc. that we could include.
So, we decided that we should look at trying to get some
form of sponsorship for the paper or a grant. We only needed approximately
$500 to add to the revenue from advertising and subscriptions to produce
the OGT for a year.
Consequently, in September last year we applied for a
Dunedin City Council Small Project Grant for $500 and ... we were
successful - yeah! This means that the OGT will continue to be published
quarterly in 2007, that it remains free and that it won’t have any more
ads in it than before. Hope you enjoy it!
WELCOME! CARDINAL
SINNERS SOFTBALL TEAM
by Lee Grigg
For all those who haven’t heard of us before, the
"Cardinal Sinners" are the local lesbian softball team. We
have been around for about 4 years now and each year we seem to accumulate
more and more members.
We started this season with about 15 players, many of whom
had never played before but were willing to put on a pair of shorts and
give it a go. We play in the local social division every Saturday
afternoon between October and March with a recuperation gap over the
Christmas break.
We may have our ups and downs on the field, but we have
great team spirit and a desire to just have fun. There’s always a steady
stream of supporters on hand to cheer us on as we run into home or get an
opponent out. Softball is a great way of getting active and meeting new
people, so if anyone is interested in joining/supporting our team please
contact Lee at [email protected]
for more information.
HELPING HANDS
One of the special aspects
of Dunedin’s GLBT community is the willingness of so many who work to
support others like ourselves. Just reading this newspaper is evidence of
this. Yet we all know there are times when we could do with some extra
helping hands and fresh initiatives.
A comment we often hear at PFLAG South is "Well, I
don’t need any support. I’m quite comfortable with my child’s sexual
orientation", to which we reply that they are the very people we need
to help us to support the GLBT community and those parents who are
struggling. Of course, as you
probably know, PFLAG is not only involved in supporting parents. We work
to educate the community about issues surrounding homosexuality and to
promote programmes which benefit queer people generally, especially the
young.
To achieve this we need resources, both human and
.financial. We have just received a grant of $2,000 from COGS (Community
Organisation Grants Scheme) that will enable us to continue with our
present activities for a further six months. We had asked for $16,000 to
enable us to relocate our little office to premises large enough to
establish an after school drop-in centre for secondary students.
This is a setback to our plans, but by no means the end.
We certainly cannot continue with this project without the support of our
community, but we believe that most of you would wish to see the
establishment of a safe and supportive meeting place for young queer
students. Wouldn’t it have been great if there had been such a place
when we struggled through those dif. cult teenage years?
There are many ways you could offer your support. Perhaps
you could encourage your parents to become members of PFLAG or join up
yourself and help us in our work. If you could make a donation or help
with fundraising that would be wonderful and would be an important
contribution towards the health and wellbeing of our community.
Transgender Inquiry
Thank you to everyone who was a part of the Human Rights
Commission’s Transgender Inquiry last year.
The great news is that we received 126 submissions, from
all parts of the country. The depth of information that people provided
and the stories you all shared have created a very powerful statement for
change. Submissions came from a huge diversity of trans people
(whakawahine, fa’afa.ne, MtFs, FtMs, fakaleiti, cross dressers, gender
queer and androgynous people etc. etc.) – from teenagers through to
trans people in their 70s.
We also heard from health professionals, community
organisations, your partners and friends, and people who just wanted to
stand up and support the human rights of people they’d seen hassled at
work or in the street.
The hearings held in Wellington, central and South
Auckland, Christchurch and Dunedin were all very moving for Commissioners
and staff. It has also been incredibly empowering seeing trans people
deciding what they want to do to make a difference for all of us in the
future.
Over the next two months I will be writing up people’s
submissions - what you’ve told us about discrimination and human rights
issues for trans people in New Zealand. You will all receive a copy in
late February/early March. We really want to hear your feedback then so we
can start writing the second and final report recommending things that
will improve the lives of trans people. There will be plenty of ways for
you all to be involved in developing the second report too. It will be
finished by the end of June and we are planning to have copies printed to
send out to people in September.
Jack Byrne, Kaitatari Matua / Senior Policy Analyst
Te Kahui Tika Tangata / Human Rights Commission
09-375-8647, [email protected]
TEACHER TASKFORCE
On 17 November last year, a group of queer teachers,
educators and others involved with the queer community met to bolster each
other’s enthusiasm for working towards queer positive learning
environments for staff and students – from early childhood through to
tertiary institutions.
Two meetings were held – one for those working in
schools, as part of the PPTA (Post Primary Teachers’ Association) Safe
Schools Taskforce, and a second for both those working in schools and
other interested parties - to form a wider network.
There are plenty of exciting ideas bubbling away locally
and around the country about how to create and maintain school cultures
which are welcoming and supportive of queer staff, students and families
and provide the straight community with a healthy portrayal of what it
means to be queer.
There was a suggestion that a GLEE (Gays & Lesbians
Everywhere in Education) network may get underway in Dunedin, and for some
time PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) has been
exploring the idea of running a drop-in space in the central city for
secondary-aged young queer people, with the background presence of
rostered parents to provide support. One local high school is hoping to
establish a gay-straight alliance among students this year.
The OUT THERE! project, a joint nationwide queer youth
development initiative of Rainbow Youth and the New Zealand AIDS
Foundation, believes that a whole-school approach is necessary to address
sexual diversity and gender issues in schools. One of the latest
initiatives OUT THERE! has worked on in the past year is developing a
comprehensive programme in a pilot school (in Auckland) and there are
hopes to work with a second school shortly to expand the programme.
Because they are renowned for unsafe levels of homophobia, it is hoped
that a boys’ school will be willing to take part in the pilot.
Locally, the SHIP network (the Sexual Health Information
Providers’ network) has been developing a Peer Sexuality Support
programme for secondary students which, among a broad range of sexuality
and sexual health topics, will include training and information suitable
to supporting young queer students.
And, there’s more … The Kaha Youth Hui for young queer
people and youth workers took place in late January in Wellington; the
PPTA runs a Safe Schools Task Force Network; NZEI Te Riu Roa (the union of
Primary and Early Childhood Teachers and School Support Staff) is firmly
queer positive; the Ironside Trust in Christchurch is a network umbrella
group for GLBTI youth; UniQ is hoping to re-establish groups such as Bloom
and Icebreakers for young women and men coming out; one of the Ministry of
Social Development’s Rainbow Desk people came to Dunedin in December and
they are currently particularly interested in developing the wellbeing of
queer international students; the Safe Schools for Queers (SS4Q)
Conference is planned for 6-8 July in Wellington.
But that’s not everything! So, to avoid an even longer
grocery-list summary of all that is happening, bubbling, boiling, baked
(and half baked ideas yet to rise), feel free to contact the Teacher
Taskforce Network for more information or to become involved and meet up
with others.
Our next meeting is Monday, 19 February, 4pm (please phone
for venue). Contact: Sarah Loftus, Health Promoter, Family Planning
Dunedin, 477-5850, ext 3, [email protected]
Everlasting erudite expressions of educational ecstasy to everyone.
Lesbians Try Out
Paintball
by Lee Grigg
Just before Christmas, a group of us tried our hands at
Paintball. Many of those who came had never played before so the ones who
had kept their mouths shut about how sore it was really going to be. It’s
surprising just how much damage a little ball of paint flying at 40km an
hour can do! Most of us came away with bruises/welts the size of golf
balls but, amazingly, every single one of us would do it again.
For those who have never played Paintball before, you don’t
know what you’re missing - it’s so much fun. Whenever my partner
and I play, we always have to go on opposite teams so we can shoot each
other – it’s great couples therapy! We played in a forest where they
had built barriers, forts and a helicopter so those who wanted to pretend
they were a sniper for a couple of hours, could do so.
We were given chest protectors to protect our ever so
important assets and camouflage gear so we could try to blend into the
background. Aside from the bruises, Paintball is a great game that
everyone should try at least once – and twice if you’re a glutton for
punishment.
Gays On Bikes – A
Central Otago Experience
by Mike Wooliscroft
At the beginning of last
July a friend suggested that I join a group of gay men and women (several
of whom operate gay homestays) biking the Central Otago Rail Trail in
October.
Instinctively I said a firm "Yes please!" and
then picked myself up off the ground. Having committed myself, I then
planned how best to prepare self and bike for this adventure. I had
a mountain bike already, but my sense that it was not well sized for me
was immediately confirmed by Neill, my sports therapist. Neill also
recommended the upgrading of brakes and gears, and the introduction of new
components such as front suspension.
So, at the beginning of my training schedule we
established the specifications for a new bike. It was an exciting
task buying a new steed, especially since the one chosen had a gold
metallic finish - and a gold price tag definitely to be paid for on my
gold Visa card. Even sale price it was at the upper limit of what I wished
to spend. But, I decided that as I’d get another 30 years of biking into
my life a really good model was worth investing in. By this means I
justify a number of my purchases.
Immediately I also committed to a fitness programme to
ensure that I would easily complete the Trail capably and not be an
embarrassment to myself or a nuisance to others.
As week followed week my training programme steadily
extended my stamina, my thighs and calf muscles. What also extended was my
new biking wardrobe. I eschewed, for the most part, the high level
designer lycra gear which one sees worn in cafés and bars, and even
sometimes, on bikes. Yes, what I had not been told at the outset was
the extent of the shelf of highly desirable gear for biking starting with
shorts with chamois gussets to provide the comfort and hygiene necessary
when riding the insanely designed seats that bikers now embrace with their
hindmost parts. Whatever happened to the comfortable cushion seats I rode
on as an adolescent? "Terribly passé, darling … not The Thing at
all!" I was told.
Even my gel seat cover was discarded as my nether regions
were tamed to become the closest fit with a seat designed by medical
professionals to ensure the ongoing health of the male parts. I am told
that models are also designed by health professionals for women.
Also required were tops to be worn which would keep even
the most evil winds from puncturing my lungs with their icicle needles and
also long arms which would prevent my own arms becoming calloused with
pre-cancerous scaly lesions.
The organiser of the planned ride was Bruce Morrison, who
operates a gay homestay in Chester Street in Christchurch and who was
awarded the Christchurch Gay Business of 2006 Award. Over the next three
months Bruce worked mighty hard to plan our accommodation and refuelling.
Numbers rose and fell but generally stuck around
twenty-five with three quarters being men and the remaining quarter
women. Participants came from as far north as Rotorua and as far
east as Napier. A major cluster came from around Christchurch where Bruce
inspires them, brings them into line and generally provides them with a
wide variety of activities throughout the year. And, a bunch of us were
from Dunedin and East Otago.
The interval between committing to the Rail Trail and
starting it was spent in ensuring that our bikes were trail-worthy and
that we were sufficiently fit. Singly and in groups the Dunedin contingent
set out on a number of circuits around the city and the surrounding
hinterland.
Come the day before we started biking the Trail in early
October, the local group, augmented by JJ, a delightful Rotorua homestay
co-owner, drove to Clyde through fresh snow on the ground, especially
around Macraes and the Dunstan Mountains. The forecast was generally fair
so we travelled on a wing and a prayer, or possibly sheer bloody
determination.
The first night all our party gathered at the Clyde Hotel
where some of us stayed overnight. There we got to meet our new
friends for the Trail adventure. We ate and drank well and generally had a
jolly time while still mindful of the need to be feeling bright the next
morning for the biking adventure ahead.
The day we biked the first section of the Rail Trail from
Clyde to Lauder, the Ida Valley, through which we had driven inland the
day before, was closed because of snow. On the section of the Trail
through which we were riding, however, the ground was clear, dry and hard.
We were blessed with brilliantly sunny weather and a cool and moderate
tail wind. Snow on the Dunstan Mountains added a special lustre to
the distant vistas. The colourful clothing of our fellow pilgrims brought
enchanting highlights to the Central Otago landscape.
Lively conversation, personal disclosures and fond
anticipations provided seasoning to the conversations as pilgrim met
pilgrim and passed on to meet others. The Chatto Creek Tavern, which
we reached at morning tea time, was surprisingly closed so we rode on,
some of us stopping at Whiskery Bill’s Café and Bar for excellent
coffee and scrumptious cakes. One of the advantages of biking the Rail
Trail is that you can stoke up on fare you would normally eschew secure in
the knowledge that the calories will be burned up in only a few
kilometres.
All members of our group detoured from the Trail at Omakau
to make the short side trip to Ophir to a café renowned for its famed
food. We easily took over the place with our numbers and spilled
forth onto the yard outside. Our gay caravanserai took brief ownership of
every place we rested. It was only in the course of taking the last
of our orders that the genial proprietors discovered we were not the
anticipated "Auckland Group" of 25. After only a moment’s
hesitation they gathered their resources and feed us with great good
humour. In fact, the Auckland group didn’t arrive while we were there
and no doubt all the staff were busy baking fresh goodies by the time they
eventually arrived.
The first day also saw us climb the steepest section of
the Rail Trail – the winding trail up through Tiger Hill – before the
short descent to Lauder. It was here that the .fist of very few punctures
occurred when I ran over a couple of staples from the newly erected
deer fence alongside the track.
That night we stayed in three lots of accommodation - the
Lauder Tavern, the B&B opposite and a charmed group was able to stay
at Kevin’s Muddy Creek Cutting, a fine gay homestay just a couple of
hundred metres up the Trail. Kevin is a genial host and joined us for our
communal meal that evening. The proprietor of the Tavern laid on an
excellent and varied smorgasbord meal for 60 as we were not the only group
staying in Lauder that night. It was splendid fare. Our lively group
clearly perplexed an apparently fundamentalist clergyman who was walking
the Trail. But he was sufficiently cool (or in enough need) to ask for his
pack to be carried for the next section of the Trail in one of our support
vehicles which we happily agreed to do.
The second day was again stunning in terms of weather. The
tail wind continued and we biked through Auripo, Oturehua, the tiny
remnant of Wedderburn and then, crossing over latitude 45 S, we began the
long and blissful descent to Ranfurly at speeds of up to 40kms per hour,
rejoicing in the good fortune of a tail wind and the fine condition of the
track. Bikers who had started the Trail at Middlemarch did not fare so
well and their red cheeks, somewhat grim faces and slow pace were in
marked contrast to those of our merry company heading in the opposite
direction.
At Ranfurly we cruised around the town for a bit poking in
the art deco collectibles shop, the museum and, of course, the hotel where
we sampled wines and lagers and the decidedly indifferent service. Here we
(and our bikes) were picked up by the van and trailer provided by The
Ancient Briton in Naseby where we stayed the night.
While The Ancient Briton is indeed an old hotel our group
stayed in the more recently built accommodation alongside in suites of
rooms able to sleep 3 or 4 each with their own en suite. The Ancient
Briton provided us with a fine meal that evening and we took full
advantage of the facilities offered. It being the last night that the
whole group would be together there were speeches and toasts to Bruce
Morrison, the principal organiser, the support crew and others.
The next morning, in the bleary light of day, just a few
of us realised that we had perhaps over-enthusiastically enjoyed the
ribaldry of the night before as we were taken by vehicle to Ranfurly and
then set out biking the Rail Trail again. This was the longest leg of the
three days at 61kms. Yet again we were favoured with a tail wind and
clear skies. Some more punctures had occurred at Naseby but they were
quickly dealt with and soon the last of the group was on its way across
the east section of the Maniatoto and through one of the most attractive
sections of the track around Daisybank where a few of us returned this New
Year’s Day for a bike ride and a picnic. The ride to Hyde was uneventful
and here we stopped for lunch.
During that break a severe gust came up blowing several
bikes over. Clearly we were heading for different conditions for the last
27kms of the Trail to Middlemarch. From then on our group was buffeted by
very strong cross and head winds which threatened to topple us from our
bikes and indeed from the Trail. With steady winds it would have been
easier to cope, but during the gusts one needed to be riding obliquely
while when they momentarily desisted it was clearly an unstable position.
Eventually, though, we arrived in Middlemarch with a pronounced sense of
achievement because of the onerous conditions we had faced for the last
leg of the Trail.
Refreshments at the Kissing Gate Café (excellent coffee
and tasty and sustaining food) revived us. It was here that sad farewells
were made to some members of our party as they headed off to their homes
while others of us returned to Clyde where our motor driven transport
awaited us.
For those of us returning to Clyde we decided on a slap-up
meal for the very last night so we went to Olivers that evening for an
excellent meal and vivacious company. Carpet bag steak was my well-earned
reward accompanied by fine Central Otago Pinot Noir.
Throughout the Trail the cost of food and accommodation
was distinctly modest. The Rail Trail experience was, without doubt,
the best experience of 2006 for many of us. New friendships were forged.
We were all fitter for the experience. A number of the Dunedin
participants, now firm friends, regularly bike, hike and enjoy each other’s
company over food, drink and sparkling conversation. And, we have been
introduced to gay homestays in which to stay in many parts of the country.
The Rail Trail experience is strongly recommended. And
yes, our group will bike the Rail Trail again in 2007.
NEWSFLASH: WEEKEND
GETAWAYS ARE GOOD FOR YOU
by Anna Chinn
"Finding it impossible to concentrate on almost
anything in the heat except fantasies about going on mini-breaks ...
" (Bridget Jones in Bridget
Jones’s Diary)
Summer came. I was feeling frazzled and decided to channel
my inner voice to see what was needed to soothe my soul. Some 20,000
leagues under the surface of me, I heard it calling - my inner voice told
me I had better f*** off. "That’s right," crooned my inner
voice. "You have been working like a prat since January last year,
your immune system seems to have picked up a Trojan dialler, you have
become cantankerous and really, you just need to f*** off."
Ever the holistic observer, the inner voice was right. I
needed to go away. This idea affected me like a fever (see meaningful
quote at top). Conveniently, by way of motivation, I had an Otago
Gaily Times article to write
about potential mini-breaks for non-straights within this region.
So, I herded a friend and a lover and took off for a spot of undercover,
on-location research, to be supplemented by the Internet. With golden
country, lush coastal areas, alpine resorts and historic places all
crammed into Otago, it was an exciting prospect to go in search of those
patches that had been staked out as sanctuaries for members of our
community. We certainly found balm for our bodies, minds, spirits and
inner voices. There is also clear potential in Otago for "eating
candlelit dinners in historic countryhouse- hotel courtyards then retiring
to our room to shag all hot summer night". Here then, for the Bridget
Jones in all of us, are some Otago ideas for refreshing weekends.
RURAL RETREATS
One of the two accommodation options sampled first-hand
for this feature was Muddy Creek Cutting B&B in Lauder, Central Otago.
Host Kevin Scott acquired the skill of building with mudbrick while in
Sierra Leone – as you do – and has restored the 1930s mudbrick
buildings on his property to create an authentic charmer of a guesthouse.
Apart from one bedroom off the main cottage that has exposed mud walls and
a cool ethnic feel, the sleeping arrangements here are a series of double
bedrooms with modern soft furnishings and paint, blended with antiquey
rustic furniture and ornaments. (If musical, you might like to request the
room with the old piano.) Kevin has added roosters and peacocks to the
property to give guests a stirring dawn chorus. That is how the peaceful
days begin here by the Central Otago Rail Trail, set well back from the
highway. They continue with that do-nothing bliss: reading,
meandering up and down the trail, chucking a line in one of the nearby
waterways, having decent conversations with friends, or moseying around
Kevin’s organic farm and gardens. Guests share the kitchen and lounge
area, which is all exposed mudbrick and which is made cosy by an open fire
and one of those sturdy old woodstoves.
You can self-cater for lunch and dinner if you want, or
eat at one of the nearby pubs, but the sane option is to request Kevin’s
dinners on booking and hope he’ll agree to cook. The B&B
accommodation with linen provided is just $45 per night, so hopefully that’ll
leave you able to splash out. When we visited he did slow-roasted lamb
with a Mediterranean vegetable torte plus salad. Both of the main
dishes were "just straight from Cuisine
magazine", Kevin said, as
though the fact he didn’t actually invent the recipes lessened the
perfection of the meal. It did not, and anywhere else you would pay much
more than $25 for such fine fare, which included a dessert of poached
Central Otago fruit and yoghurt. The Muddy Creek host is what you could
call a chef of goodwill.
Although accommodation for about a dozen people is
possible, Kevin usually accepts just a maximum of six, so it would be easy
to book this place out for a private group. Otherwise, expect to share
kitchen, lounge and bathroom with rail trailers – who are usually so
exhausted they are easy to nudge away from that lovely, open fire anyway.
Phone (03) 447-3682 / Email kevins_47@hotmail
com / Web www.gaystay.co.nz/lauder
The second of our close encounters with gay-run
accommodation involved Ashande Retreat, about a 10-minute drive from
Waitati. Opened late last year by Sue Dawson and Barbara Ward, Ashande is
an ideal rural retreat for couples, either for romance or just rest.
Although surrounded by native bush and farmland, it has the advantage of
being a very short commute north from Dunedin, so no stress whatsoever is
amassed in journeying there. Ashande is a big barn of a guesthouse with a
soaring, rainbow-line roof that circulates cosiness from the solid-fuel
burner inside. You have it all to yourself, and self-catering is made easy
by the spacious kitchen area. (Dinner is available on request at $40 per
head.) The friendly hosts, who live next door and are receptive to any
requests, greet you when you arrive and provide a plate of home baking.
But they quickly make themselves scarce so you can settle in and unwind -
even undress if you wish, as it’s certainly warm enough. The decor again
is a tasteful blend of modern and old-rustic, including a particularly
charming, working antique radio housed in a large wooden case. Sue and
Barbara offer a good selection of DVDs and videos for use during your stay
– we
chose The Lion King and
Ladyhawke –
but, weather permitting, you may
prefer to spend an evening by the potbelly stove on the patio.
Mornings at Ashande also have a dawn chorus, but here the
native species take centre-stage, notably a bellbird that seemed to regard
our going outside as its cue. Immediately after checking out, we enjoyed a
walk around the nearby site of the Orokonui Ecosanctuary, and so went home
feeling infused with nature. Tariff is $140 for two or $120 for a single,
including breakfast. Phone (03) 482- 1839 / Email [email protected]
/ Web www.ashande-retreat.co.nz
While we’re in the rural retreat category, the Shag
Point Homestay warrants a mention. This is gay-run accommodation 40
minutes north of Dunedin which, according to the Gaystay website,
"overlooks the Pacific Ocean and is handy to beaches, forest walks
and the Moeraki boulders". Tariff is $60/double and $30/single.
Dinner by arrangement. Phone (03) 465-1742 /Email [email protected]
/ Web www.gaystay.co.nz/shagpoint
JUST FOR THE FELLAHS
A farmstay at Poller View in
Balclutha, which Gaystay describes as "a successful, large scale
Charolais beef cattle stud/sheep-grazing holding", sounds like great
fun and we’d have loved to try it – but this one is for men only.
Nightly B&B rate, farm tour inclusive, is $80/single $100/double.
Phone (03) 418-1581 / Email [email protected]
/ Web www.gaystay.co.nz/balcluthafarmstay
THE OAMARU OPTIONS
Who would’ve thought historic Oamaru (pop. 13,000), in
the conservative Waitaki district, would equal Dunedin (pop. 120,000) for
gayrun accommodation options? Gaystay lists three homestay providers,
including one period house, with tariffs for doubles ranging from $75 to
$100 per night. Check out www.edenlodgeoamaru.co.nz
www.bellview.co.nz or the www.gaystay.co.nz/oamaru
page to plan a mini-break in the North Otago town.
THE QUEENSTOWN OPTIONS
It is difficult to tell what, if any, Queenstown
accommodation is run by non-straights, but fear not, for there you will
find plenty of digs eager to take your pink dollar. A recent visit to this
settlement confirmed my view that everything on the peopled side of Lake
Wakatipu is spoilt and repulsive. However, if you crave words such as
"exclusive" and "dress circle" in your accommodation
searches, then you will find many a mini-break at www.gayqueenstown.co.nz
THE DUNEDIN OPTIONS
Okay, so most of our readers live in Dunedin and will
hardly want to stay here for a weekend escape, but readers living out of
town and those with GLBTI friends planning a visit may want to inspect the
www.gaystay.co.nz/dunedin
page forinspiration.
ANOTHER FRIENDLY PLACE
And now a word for one of our advertisers. The Ridge Over
Blueskin is a dear old friend of the Otago
Gaily Times and, although a break
at this private 1900s-style cottage high above Waitati may be beyond the
budget of many of our readers, you will find its website does not rub your
nose in that fact. Indeed, one of the first
words on the page is "welcome", and heaps of information is
provided for mere dreamers and serious splurge-planners alike. The Ridge
Over Blueskin is not gay-run and, accordingly, its website is
straight-oriented, but it’s clearly just one of those places where
discretion is a given and the owners are definitely gay-friendly.
Nightly tariff with breakfast is $385/double, $330/single.
DISOBEDIENCE by Naomi
Alderman (London: Viking, 2006)
Review by Barb Long
Disobedience won
the Orange Award for New Writers in 2006. The main character Ronit leaves
her orthodox Jewish community in Hendon, England to pursue life as a
financial analyst in New York City. However, after the death of her
father, an eminent rabbi, she decides to face her demons and return home
for his funeral.
The novel is rich with descriptions of English countryside
and culture while at the same time weaving threads of orthodox Jewish
custom and ritual. Unfortunately the implied reconnection with her female
lover of over a decade ago was disappointing for this reader, but don’t
let that put you off reading the book.
Disobedience is a
clever novel demonstrating one woman’s struggle with religion, the need
for reconciliation and the choices one makes. As it progresses so do the
intriguing and sometimes complex relationships within the family and a
small community. It is a novel that provides information about a culture
and a perspective of Judaism that is usually hidden. This story offers a
search for love, self and morals.
Disobedience is
available at the Dunedin Public Library.
RED-CARPET RUPERT –
THE INSIDER’S ACCOUNT - RED
CARPETS AND OTHER BANANA SKINS by Rupert Everett (London: Little Brown,
2006)
Review by Mike Wooliscroft
Rupert Everett’s recently published autobiography Red
Carpets and Other Banana Skins is
arguably the most entertaining, intelligent and satirical autobiography of
an actor to appear in 2006.
Rupert Everett is most well known perhaps as an actor in Madness
of King George, Ready to Wear, Ideal Husband, The Importance of Being
Earnest, Next Best Thing and My
Best Friend’s Wedding, but he
also has an extensive list of roles played on the stage and in film
including voicing Prince Charming in Shrek
2. He is also the rather
delicious aristocratic image promoting Yves St Laurent’s Opium
pour homme and he has modelled
for Versace and Valentino. Rupert has also made a successful role as a
stunningly handsome "handbag" to various superstars.
In Red
Carpets Rupert is frank about his
drug taking and his sexual life (he was a rent boy for a time) without
delivering salacious details as Edmund White did recently in My
Lives. The autobiography is
insightful about his own nature, the natures of the people he encounters
and the events he describes. It is also very well written for Rupert
Everett has a lively command of the English language and an ability to
craft sentences well.
Rupert, as many boys of his age and station in the England
he grew up in, was sent to boarding school. He writes of that experience:
"A child with a soft vulnerable heart soon had it calci.ed by
abandonment, bullying and buggery: the rigours of prep and public school.
He was soon conditioned so that by the time he became a faceless gnome in
the ‘diplomatic’ he was without feelings of the normal sort and could
be utterly ruthless in the service of his or her Britannic Majesty."
At his Roman Catholic boarding school Rupert learned to
play the organ. His favourite part was to play something "quiet
and moody" when the congregation went forward to receive the
sacrament. "Where is Love?" from the stage-show Oliver
was one of his favourites, but
his teacher drew the line when Rupert played a medley on the theme of Over
the Rainbow. The die was clearly
set.
Rupert writes insightfully of many things: the theatre,
the movie industry, Los Angeles and Miami, his relationships with his dog
and his father, and the destructive effect Maggie Thatcher had on Britain
likening it to the effect of the punk revolution:
"Punk in the heatwave was the trailer to a new
England. They were the advancing rabble, wobbling in the shimmering desert
smog towards the World’s End, and the end of the world as we knew it.
Their Boudicca, unbeknown to them, was another peach blonde with a lot of
egg white in her beehive: Margaret Thatcher. She would be the Main
Attraction; they were the razorblades on the wheels of her chariot. They
both wanted to get their hands on the past and slash it to pieces. Punks
wanted to .ght on the high streets and shatter the windows of the
greengrocers. Maggie the grocer’s daughter was going to close those
grocers down and put up Tesco’s. They wanted anarchy and so did
she."
Rupert Everett has lived much of his adult life in the
United States of America – Los Angeles, Hollywood and Miami. His
accounts of living amongst the ghosts of actors past in rather seedy, worn
and clearly diminished accommodation such as Chateau
Marmont on Sunset Boulevard are
very interesting as he charts the occupants since the original owners. He
also tells of the strange backwards nature of some Hollywood friendships:
"Within five minutes we were old friends. Twenty years later we began
to get to know each other." AA is also revealed as a good place to
meet and audition for some of the biggest producers and directors. You
could spin any yarn you wanted, going through the whole gamut of emotions.
"AA was a talent show, but your reward was a cake."
The façade nature of some of the theatrical world is
shown when he describes the home of his manager Simon Napier-Bell:
"There was a huge entrance hall with a grand old staircase that swept
upstairs, although around its first corner was a brick wall. The front
door would be opened by one of Simon’s Asian ingénues, and as you came
into the hall, thinking to yourself how successful Simon must be, the man
himself walked nonchalantly down the staircase as if he were just coming
from another part of the mansion. Actually, as far as I could tell, the
flat only consisted of the hall and a small room off it. But it gave a
marvellous impression of opulence…"
I could go on providing you with extracts from Red
Carpets, but this autobiography
deserves to be read cover to cover not only by Rupert Everett aficionados,
of whom I am admittedly one, but also by those interested in theatre, film
and the world of high fashion of the last 40 years.
My only quibble, and it is a small one, is that he writes
engagingly of various topics and characters with sometimes little sense of
a timeline. The fact that the photographs are undated doesn’t help this.
I have yet to read Rupert Everett’s fictional books Hello
Darling, Are You Working? (1992)
and The Hairdressers of St
Tropez (1995), but they are
certainly on my list now. Everett’s first novel was generally well
reviewed with one reviewer saying of it: "The action fiits from Paris
to London to Tangier in a fast-paced farce that never stops. The author,
himself an English actor, writes like a cross between Joe Keenan (to whose
Blue Heaven the
book bears more than a superficial likeness) and Gerald Durrell, depicting
the British upper class and Parisian gay subculture with equal verve.
Behind his humor lurk the grim realities of the late 1980s, with AIDS
never far from the scene."
Another reviewer praised the latter for its "bitchy,
decadent comedy". Very few copies of The
Hairdressers are available
second-hand and all of them for high prices while multiple copies are
readily available of Hello
Darling from as little as US$1.
Sadly they don’t appear on the Dunedin Public Library catalogue but they
can be interloaned.
LONG WAY HOME
by Jeanne Jullion (USA:
Cleis Press, 1985)
Review by Barb Long
On those wet summer days what else is one to do but surf
Trade Me for lesbian literature? For only $4 plus postage I recently
purchased a copy of Long
Way Home: The Odyssey Of A Lesbian Mother And Her Children,
a true account of Jeanne Jullion’s battle to be a mother to her two sons
after coming out.
Set in San Francisco in 1977, Jeanne lost custody of her
children to her ex-husband because she was in a lesbian relationship; had
she not acted on her lesbianism and been living with her partner it is
implied she may have retained custody of one son who had never lived with
his father! The case and trial were pivotal in bringing together feminist
and LGBT activists in San Francisco. Unfortunately, though, the decision
went against Jeanne - she was admonished by the judge for making this a
political case and denied custody of her sons.
I found reading the book somewhat disturbing as this woman
and her partner, who just wanted to create a loving home for their
children, ended up in hostile courtrooms and became estranged from family.
I followed her harrowing experience through the American court system, the
media and finally to a seashore town in northern Italy where her
ex-husband kept her children under close watch, preventing her access to
them.
It left me feeling thankful for the Care of Children Act
for the security it offers for children to be heard and thankful too that
I don’t live in America where some states continue to deny lesbian women
custody of and access to their children because of homophobia and myths
about parenting! Long Way
Home is available at the Dunedin
Public Library.
Poem
by Jane E Libeau
Beached whales
Droughts, gales
Ocean levels rise
Is this all because of human
interference
Or a cycle of nature’s life?
Seasons change
The summers that were
Will never be the same
Earth axis moving?
Or something else again?
Insects a buzz
Cold weather confusing
Animals hibernate
Closer to extinction
Their life cycle terminated.
Earth’s rotation
Slowing, quickening
Shuddering, juddering
Adjusting in violent surge
Is she just itching or ready to purge?
Blind to the facts
We think we will manipulate the earth
Proclaiming our need for more
More junk to pollute
And I wonder what for.
Gadgets for gadgets
Consumption and waste
Dictators dictating life styles
Murdering murders
It leaves such a bitter taste.
And at the end of the day
When it all comes to rest
No one’s the winner
We all have soiled our one
Our only nest.
MANAAKI KORERO
by Anna Chinn
Here artist Reuben Paterson, who will be exhibiting in
Dunedin in May, shares his korero. Q&A by email.
Your iwi and rohe?
I am Ngati Rangitihi and Ngai Tuhoe from Matata.
Matata is a small town 15 minutes from Whakatane and the place of intense
.oodings over the past few years. Matata is, of course, special in many
ways and, importantly, it is where the land wars ended. This way Matata
has seen a lot of blood and the community has absorbed this bloodshed in
tapu places with acceptance and sadness. I was born in Auckland, and this
is where I live.
Please brie.y describe/identify yourself.
After living and travelling the last year and a half
through Greece and spending the last 3 months at the ISCP art studios in
New York, sponsored by the James Wallace Trust, I would describe myself as
a traveller, that travelling is a vehicle through which to experience.
Experience, Empiricism, Epicureanism and the pragmatism of
pre-Socrates philosophies and our continual involvement in the process of
aging and life motivates me. Although all three are different strains of
philosophy, they each encompass experiences as the source through which to
test knowledge, notably Empiricism. Epicureanism acknowledges that
pleasure should be the goal of human activity, and following this that
pragmatism will test the truth and value of ideas by their practical
consequences. These frames of ancient Greek philosophy help me to produce
artworks that challenge explanations of Maori philosophy in Western terms.
The more travelling I do, the closer I feel to
interpreting people honestly through their stories. These stories then
become art. We can’t assume what the world is or what people can be,
till we have been to those places ourselves and opened the world to its
real interpretation. As a nation we are left-field to the real trauma that
surrounds our world, and we need to be involved in it and to help shape
it.
What gives you inspiration?
Living in Greece through 2005 and 2006 I became inspired
by the interpretation and understanding of cultural imagery contained
within the work I was producing, that without a clear understanding of my
New Zealand Maori locality and the position of the Maori design within
them, they were free to speak their own language, they were freed up in
their interpretation. This sense of cultural confusion and seduction
is happening in gallery spaces all around the world, but to partake in
cultural interpretation is something I could experience .rst-hand in the
galleries of New York. Through the many years of working with
glitter, it is now time to .nd the work that best represents the person I
am today. The glitter did, but does not so much anymore. Travelling helped
inspire the reactions I get to new things, to inform my world of the
larger one that is out there, and the thickness of culture that it abides
by.
What makes you bold?
Having been brought up to believe that what I do is
important. A large part of exhibiting is its public face, but the
connection to feeling work as it is created comes from the belief, from
the caring and the nurturing of being connected, completely, to the
feelings in what you do, say and make.
What do you think young takatapui Maori should aim for in
life?
Love. To feel it, breathe it and be it, and live
vicariously through it. We share, as takatapui a deeper understanding
through our hardships, through our embracing the feminine, and the
masculine within us. Check out Reuben Paterson’s webpage at: www.reubenpaterson.com
world watch
Sources: www.365Gay.com,
www.pinknews.co.uk, www.rainbownetwork.com
ICON TO BE HONOURED
San Francisco, USA
Harvey Milk, the first out gay male politician in American
history, is to be honoured with a bust. Regarded as a political icon among
gay activists for his ability to build the LGBT community into a
grassroots political force, Milk was elected to the city’s Board of
Supervisors in 1977. Eleven months later, he and the city’s mayor were
gunned down by a disgruntled former supervisor. In his short term in
office, Milk sponsored a gay rights bill and helped to defeat a
proposition that would have seen openly gay and lesbian teachers sacked.
The bust will go on permanent display in San Francisco City Hall, a rare
honour for someone who was never the mayor.
SWITZERLAND’S FIRST CIVIL UNION
Lorcano, Switzerland
An 89-year-old man and his 60-year-old partner have taken
part in Switzerland’s first gay civil union after legislation to
recognise same-sex partnerships, passed in 2004 and approved by a
country-wide referendum in 2005, came into effect on 1 January this year.
The couple, who have been together for 30 years and wished to remain
anonymous, exchanged vows in what friends described as a "very
moving" ceremony. Same-sex civil unions in Switzerland do not grant
full marital rights but do have a similar legal status. However, gay
couples are barred from adopting children or from receiving IVF treatment.
POLICE ACCUSED OF GAY ASSAULTS
Lima, Peru
A gay rights group, The Lima Homosexual Movement, has
accused police of.cers of carrying out systematic attacks on LGBT people,
claiming it has details of over 600 homophobic assaults during 2006.
Homosexuality is legal in Peru, but the homosexual rights movement in Peru
has been slow to take hold. While The Lima Homosexual Movement was founded
in 1983, it was not until 2002 that Peru’s first gay pride parade took
place, and even then the few hundred people taking part wore masks to hide
their identities. Most countries in South America have a relaxed attitude
towards LGBT people, though police harassment and corruption remains a
problem.
PENGUINS TO STAY ON LIBRARY SHELVES
North Carolina, USA
And Tango Makes Three ,
a children’s book featuring a young penguin and his two male parents in
New York City’s Central Park Zoo, has been returned to school library
shelves. Fearful that the book was promoting homosexuality, staff at four
primary schools had removed the books after queries from a handful of
parents. However, the controlling superintendent has explained
school of.cials had contravened procedure by removing the book. And
Tango Makes Three is not to face
a formal review.
GAYS MAY RECEIVE DAMAGES
Spain
The government is considering offering damages to members
of the gay community who were sent to mental hospitals, tortured or
imprisoned under the regime of General Franco between the 1930s and 1970s.
Under Franco’s strict Catholic rule, gay people were seen as a threat to
the Spanish "macho" image. They were banned from jobs and
routinely jailed and discriminated against. Homosexuality in Spain was
decriminalised in 1979, and the current Socialist government has legalised
gay weddings and adoption.
KEY POST TO GAY CONGRESSMAN
Washington D.C., USA
The only out gay man in the new Congress, 66-year-old
Democrat Barney Frank, has been appointed chairman of the powerful
Financial Services Committee, giving him an opportunity to tackle some of
the inequalities caused by the rampant free market in the US. The
Harvard-educated lawyer has a sharp tongue and is consistently voted one
of the funniest members of the House. He came out in 1987, survived a
rentboy scandal in 1990 and in 2006 ran for Congress unopposed. In
1998, he founded the National Stonewall Democrats, a LGBT Democratic
pressure group, and he has been a vocal and articulate defender of LGBT
rights.
COURT REJECTS LESBIAN CO-PARENTING
Stockholm, Sweden
A Swedish judge, presiding over two cases, has ruled that
nonbiological mothers cannot adopt the children of their partners, despite
the fact the couples are registered under Sweden’s civil partner law. In
each case the birth mother had been artificially inseminated and the
partners had been approved for adoption by social services authorities.
But the judge rejected the applications, saying the couples were trying to
bypass Sweden’s law allowing children to identify biological parents.
Both couples said they will appeal the ruling as judges have approved
adoptions of partner’s children in previous cases.
CHANGES TO BENEFITS
The Ministry of Social Development has produced a brochure
informing same-sex couples of changes to benefit entitlement that will
come into effect from 1 April 2007.
As of April this year couples in same-sex de facto couples
will be treated the same as opposite-sex de facto couples, married couples
and civil union couples in regard to income assistance provided by the
Ministry of Social Development. Such assistance includes Work and Income,
Community Services Card, Studylink, Veterans and Superannuation payments.
The brochure entitled "Are you in a same-sex
relationship?" outlines the criteria for two people to be considered
a couple (for the purpose of government financial assistance), as
well as other important information.
The OGT has been sent a number of these brochures so if
anyone would like one sent to them then please let us know (OGT, PO Box
6171, [email protected],
0274-793-113 - phone or text).
GEORGINA BEYER TO RETIRE
FROM PARLIAMENT
by Tor Devereux
Georgina Beyer has announced that she will retire from
Parliament in February this year, approximately halfway through her third
term.
Beyer came into Parliament as the MP for Wairarapa in 1999
and she was the
world’s first transsexual MP. She stood again in 2002
and won the seat once more by a signiifcant majority, and then in 2005 she
returned to Parliament for a 3rd term but this time as a list MP. During
her time as an MP Beyer has been a member of a number of select
committees.
Prior to entering Parliament Beyer was involved in local
body politics. She became a member of the Carterton District Council in
1993, and then contested and won the mayoralty in 1995. She retained the
role of Mayor of Carterton until entering Parliament in 1999.
After retiring as an MP Beyer will take part in a play -
"6 Dance Lessons in 6 Weeks" - at Dunedin’s Fortune
Theatre. Although Beyer will be gone from central government, she
hasn’t ruled out returning to local body politics and running for the
Wellington mayoralty later this year.
Beyer will be replaced by Southland union organiser Lesley
Soper, the next candidate on Labour’s list. Beyer’s departure means
that Labour’s number of queer MPs will reduce from five to four.
OGT DISTRIBUTION PLACES
by Tor Devereux
If you’re reading this then obviously you managed to
find a copy of the OGT, but we thought that it might be useful and
interesting to let our readers know about all the different places where
we distribute the paper.
Each time an issue of the OGT is published there are 1000
copies that need to be distributed (by a small team of wonderful
volunteers) to various locations around the city. Some of these copies
(about 20%) are mailed out to subscribers, LGBT/queer organisations
throughout New Zealand, various local health providers and support
agencies, queer MPs, local MPs, many of the high schools in Otago and
Southland and libraries throughout Otago. In addition, some copies are
sent to distribution points in Invercargill, Christchurch and
Auckland. The remaining OGTs are distributed around town at the
following locations:
CAFÉS
Percolater, Nova, Metro, Strictly Coffee, Poolhouse Café,
Tangente, Jizo, Mazagran, Pot Pourri, Arc, Bronx, Port Royale (Port
Chalmers), Green Acorn, Modaks, Governors, Croque-o-dile
LIBRARIES
Dunedin Library, Mosgiel Library, Blueskin Bay Library,
Port Chalmers Library, Waikouaiti Library
BUSINESSES
University Book Shop, Anja Klinkert Lawyer, Metro Cinema,
Real Groovy, Head Quarters (Sth Dn), Aurora Health Centre, Civic Video
(Sth Dn), Contours Gym, Lure Jewellery
ORGANISATIONS
PFLAG, UniQ/FUNQ, Prostitutes Collective, Arai Te Uru
Whare Hauora, Relationship Services
TERTIARY CAMPUSES
Art School Polytech, Bill Robertson Library, Polytech
Union, Unipol, University Staff Club, Science Library (Uni), Commerce
Building (Uni), Women’s Room (Uni), Clubs & Societies, Student
Health, Richardson Building (Uni), Med Library (Uni)
If there are any other locations that you think we should
add to our list of distribution places, then please let me know.
SGnLS - Southland Gay
& Lesbian Support - The road
less travelled … the long, winding one to incorporation
by Robyn Flowers
SGnLS (Southland Gay and Lesbian Support) FINALLY achieved
incorporation as a Charitable Trust on 20 October 2006, three months after
submitting our initial application. We celebrated what felt like a mammoth
achievement that night. However, the taste of victory (as it had
indeed been a battle) was soured by the tedious and frustrating process we
had been subjected to. It was a bitter sweet celebration.
Why three months to become incorporated when this can
often be finalised within a fortnight? We are still bemused by that
ourselves. Granted, the .rst two rejections were justi.able - the rules
had been left out of the envelope and the trustee signatures were not
witnessed. We wouldn’t have been overly concerned if these two points
had been made in ONE letter of rejection. Rather, we received the first
which we duly sorted and resubmitted. Then number two arrived and, still
in a good frame of mind about it all, we again sorted and resubmitted.
Keep in mind, though, that it was now September and we had funding
applications which could not be submitted until we were incorporated.
Then the pièce de résistance … rejection number three
dated 26 September 2006. This was a rather succinct letter informing us
that our application was being returned because "…the
objects of the trust do not benefit the community".
We were advised to seek legal advice should we be "…uncertain
of the meaning of charitable".
We were incredulous! How could an organisation with objects such as
the provision of support, information, resources and opportunities which
allow and promote acceptance and inclusion for members of a society which
continues to be marginalised and victimised NOT be of "benefit to the
community"?
The feeling within the group was that we had a case which
we could quite rightfully take to the media. However, we were determined
to exhaust all other options first. SGnLS responded by letter along with
(once again) our application. We provided credible research that
nonheterosexual youth are at risk, affirming that our support, information
and education service is primarily a means of creating and maintaining
safer communities and the well-being of the nonheterosexual community and
their families and friends through acceptance and inclusion. Further, we
searched the Companies Office site for likeminded organisations with
charitable status and attached copies of their objects in comparison.
It also felt like it was time to bring in the "big
boys". A chat with a local Labour Party member got Rainbow Labour
involved, and our wonderful contact at Public Health South was only too
happy to lend support also.
We gave the Companies Office the ten working days which we
were advised was the longest it would take to have our application
reconsidered before calling to check progress on 20 October. I was
informed that our application hadn’t quite reached rejection or approval
stage as when each of the letters of support had been received the process
had had to begin all over again! However,
I was told that in light of information received that yes,
we were entitled to charitable status after all (funny that), but that we
were going to be rejected as we had a membership clause in our rules.
Now, the membership clause (which had been an oversight)
was a justiifable reason for rejection, but it meant that we were facing a
further delay as once we had made the amendment and resubmitted the
process began from scratch AGAIN. Did I lose the plot at this stage and
succumb to hysteria? … Almost!!!
Like the proverbial dog with a bone we were NOT going to
give up. And, to the Companies Office’s credit, the particular staff
member I spoke with that day made a firm commitment to action this on our
behalf within the shortest time possible. She was both empathetic and
responsive to our dilemma. (Perhaps my tears of sheer frustration helped
our cause, although at this point in time I also resorted to mentioning
the media and politicians!)
Thank goodness for small towns and technologies - emails,
phone calls and visits to the trustees saw the document get the necessary
approval. Thankfully we had drafted two documents, one with the membership
clause and one without. Before the morning was out the application and
document were faxed through to the Companies Office, and before the
afternoon was out I had a call from them to say that they didn’t want us
to incur any further delay and had granted us our incorporation. A faxed
copy of the certificate arrived in my office before the end of the working
day ... almost 12 weeks since we had first
made our application.
Which brings me back to my first paragraph. Yes we
celebrated, but it had been a hell of a battle. The point I brought to the
Companies Office as a result was that the process by which an application
is processed needs serious refinement. In the interests of time,
energy and resources I have to wonder why a document (be it a trust deed,
constitution or rules) accompanying an application is not considered in
its entirety. And, that where an application is rejected, that the
applicants receive a complete recommendation for all necessary
amendments/alterations. The ideal: one rejection letter, one resubmission
and then incorporation.
In regard to our objects being deemed uncharitable, we can
only shake our heads in disbelief and sadness. If this had, in fact, been
the case then a letter from an MP and mention of the media would not have
caused a complete retraction of this stance. We are thankful the process
is complete and behind us. We are thrilled to be incorporated, but remain
disheartened that we had to .ght so hard when it should never have been a
battle. |