A GUY WROTE ME?!?!?! WHOA...
Thanks you for the compliment on the site... Now, onto more important matters... It seems to me like you need to confront your friend face to face.If you don't, the problems will get worse... Have they been going out long? Usually for the first two or three months they are over-happy to be going out... It usually wears off after then... If not, then you need to tell your friend she has an obsession, but not rudely... Just try to tell her as nicely as you can how you feel and what you think you guys should do about it... If that doesn't work, I hate to say it... But you might want to just stop hanging around her as much... If she's a true friend, she'll notice you are gone.
Good luck!
~Dark Princess
I have this friend who has an obsession with this guy... She is going out with him and stuff and she won't leave him alone. I mean, the guy likes the attention and stuff, but now she won't hang out with her friends because she's either talking to him on the phone, instant messaging with him (nice web site by the way) and going on dates with him... I feel left out since I don't have a boyfriend right now and because no one understands how I feel. I don't know what to do... Do you???
Sincerely,
Lonely and Angry in Nebraska
I may be the first guy to write to you... But this is important, cheesy or not.
I like this girl who I dated last year for a very short time. So basically, I like her again. The problem is: I kinda dumped her at an inconvenient time, and I think she is still hurt by it. I love her a lot and I wish we had a chance together, but I am not sure. She just got out of what I heard was a bad realtionship and I don't want to rock our friendship boat... It's not like we have much of a realtionship, tho... What should I do?
Love,
Guy in Missouri
I'm sure the girl you like will understand you have feelings for her, and asking her out might brighten her day... Plus, it'll give you a chance to make up for the damage you did... lol, jk. Well, if you want to get to know her better, just ask her to something... Like to your house or bowling or something sometime... You guys could hang out and maybe you could find out if she likes you... Just try to be mature about it though... No girl likes an immature guy who just acts rude. Trust me, I would know. If you need any more help, just email me again... So hurry up and ask her out before the time runs out; she might go out with someone else and then you will have to wait... And that's no fun. Just tell her how you feel and maybe she will feel the same way too!
Good luck!
~Dark Princess