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| The only relationships which seem to last are those in which each partner literally needs the other. Until the equal rights movements in the sixties, a woman's place was at home caring for the children while the man earned a wage on which to support the family. In other words, he brought home the bacon and she prepared it for the family. Thusly, there was always a | ||||||||
| given amount of co-dependance which made it not only easier, but more necessary, for a marriage to last. There were rare cases of divorce before the 'equal rights' but since this movement, there are more single parents, more blended families, and more adopted steps then ever before. Don't get me wrong ladies and gentlemen. I believe that women and men are equal. Men are better at some things then women, but on the same note, there are things that women can do better then men. I am not saying that all women should stay home and care for the family. Nor am I saying that the 1950s were great. .(Infact, the 1950s had plenty of their own problems) Rather, I am saying that for the sake of the children our generation will inevitably produce, we should stop looking for an emotion, which changes frequently, and start looking for something that will last a bit longer. Or, if you don't necessarily want children, then you can just go out for | ||||||||
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| the fun of it. But if you choose to do this, you must be careful of the "mistakes" if you do anything beyond tastefulness. Granted, all of society works on some form of co-dependance. The consumer depends upon the supplier to get the goods. The supplier depends upon the consumer to purchase the goods so the supplier can get more goods with which to supply. This works with all business-- legal or not. |
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