| Does anyone really believe in fate?� the general� opinion seems to be:� welll, its a� romatic concept, but we make�� our own� futures.� i doesn't really� matter either way.� i'm not going to be held� down by so called "destiny".� sometimes not believing is a really easy way out of having to deal with the difficulities� of what was "meant� to be." or was it?� uuuuuuuuuugggggggggggg. well, i don't know.� i am under the impression� that there are people out there who are meant for each� other. not everyone really gets there. but there are people i've seen� who find people that are just like them, or different but a perfect match.� i mean they� have their conflicts and� problems of course.� but they are just so� comfotable� together. because they fit.� their other half.� are those people lucky or fukd?� because just cause two people match doesn't mean that everything in their lives goes well together.� they may come from different backgrounds, different family situations, one likes to intellectualize and the other prefers to just live.� but there is always that link.� that thing that makes their minds tick in the same rhymn, headbang to the same driving beat.� if they come to realize these differences (which they� usually� do i think) they can choose to walk away and find someone who "fits" their ideal mate, which usually means finding the easier way through life.� which isn't necessarily� a bad thing. but the intensity, the togetherness, the absolute comfort and rightness is gone.� to some extent, they will always be alone.� then� others see the differences and decide they can overcome anything and will� not part from their match that they've been� lucky enough to find.� those people usually�� go through many hardships, family, financial disagreements, religious and cultural disputes and they will argue a lot and maybe doubt that they have found their matchh. they won't be ever alone.� but they will have extremely hard lives.� so which is the best option, and will booth types of couples end up unhappy anyway? is there not in existence a pair of soul companions that can live together accepted and free and happy?� i doubt it it's too idealistic....um too perfect to exist..��� then what's the point? there doesn't have to be a point really.� because we'll do what feels good to us anyway.�� practiccal both waysss, jjust through different eyes. |