| Week of July 17, 2002 |
| "Physical Education" |
| This week's column features two questions relating to physical intimacy. |
| Hey Lust*, What I would do is, tell him what it is about him that is soooo sexy, or say something like, "You know what turns me on...?" Or let's try this (something new, like a position) and then when things are getting steamy say, "You make me so hot..." or, "Do you like it when I do this...?" and follow it up with: "What else do you like..." and see where that takes you. Or say "I want to hear you talk dirty to me, I love when guys do that while we f---" Things like that. Guys tend to be more visual creatures, whereas women are much more verbal, hence literotica books and such, while guys get turned on by the porno and smut mags. Best of luck. Email me if you have more q's, *Odessa |
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| How can I get my honey to talk dirty with me? |
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| How do I let my boyfriend know where I want to be kissed? |
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| The best thing I would do to clue him in would be to take action myself and have him follow suit. Like, if I want him to kiss my neck, I would kiss his first and then nudge him or angle my body so that his lips can make their way to where I want them. And to initiate any contact, simply make the first move. I mean, you can't hug someone without them hugging you back! You can also try pulling this trick: "Hey, I just bought a new strawberry lip gloss, and I want you to be the first to try it it <winkwink>." He should get the hint in no time. If all else fails, just gently tell him what you want. He's shy, but so are you, and this will be a good experience for both of you. He might be surprised or taken back, but I bet he'll enjoy giving you what you need. Just make sure you accommodate his needs too ;) Best of luck. Drop me a line anytime, *Odessa |
| Hi Frustrated,* |
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