Sooooooo..... 

Life is suppose to stay the same for the sake of the church.

What am I suppose to do?  How am I suppose to feel? 
How should I react?  How am I suppose to treat you?
How do I go on?

Everything we've ever done has included you. 
You do know what you've done is wrong? You know
because of your actions the church will never be the same? 
You know that because of your actions my family will never 
be the same?  You know because of your actions our 
relationship will never be the same?

Forever, in everybody's mind... you will be "the other woman".
Fifteen years down the road everyone will remember that Lisa
had a 'thing' with Kevin when Cyndi was sick.

There is nothing you can do to change that now.  You say you are
innocent?!! Well.... let me tell you a thing or two. 

An innocent woman would not be calling a married 
man at 6:00A.M. or at 12:00A.M.

An innocent woman would not talk to a married man
for hundreds of minutes on his cell phone each month.

An innocent woman would not tell a married man 
"I love you... you have a piece of my heart as I have a piece of yours"

An innocent woman would not accept gifts of any sort from a
married man... gifts of music, jewelry, sexy thongs, and such

An innocent woman would not be in the shower 
with a married man. Not under any circumstances....

An innocent woman would not be in my kitchen with my
husband whispering about anything.

An innocent woman would not meet a married man
for coffee... even with the children there.

An innocent woman would hug the married man and say her
 'good byes' in front of the wife and then leave...
not then go outside to the car and hug the married man in
the privacy of the dark.

Don't you even attempt to claim innocence... You are NOT an innocent woman.

You are 'the other woman'

~Cyndi