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Lesson 3 (cont.)
Law 4:
       
1. Grieve and wish to control other people
        2. As I respect boundries, I will become more dependant on God                      and others
        3. As I embrace the boundaries, I am able to love more

Law 5:  Law of motivation

PART 2:

Law 6:
        
1. Make a distinction between hurting someone and harming someone
        
2. When we allow someone to experience pain, we help them see that the hurt is               due to their character structure
        
3. Expect anger and quiet messages from others
         4. As others stay with me in my "NO" there's more love

Law 7:  The law of evaluating the pain caused by your boundaries
             The law of proactive vs. reactive boundaries

Scripture Study
              
Read:  Hebrews 10:38-39  What is the connection between faith and action?
                         Ephesians 4:15  What are the risks of "speaking the truth in love"?
                         Hebrews 12:1-13  What is the purpose of disipline, pain, and trials?
                         Matthew 14:22-33
                                  1. How did Peter show his faith in Christ?
                                  2. What lessons can you learn from his experience?
                                  3. In what ways are you like Peter?
                                  4. In what ways are you different then Peter?
                                  5. What can you do to have more faith?

Law 8:  The Law of envy
          Envy is defined as seeing the good as that which I do not have.

 
      Guidelines for turning envy into graditude:
            1. We need to grieve what we cannot have.
             2. We need to be able to look inwards and take responsibilty for your misery
             3. We need to activety seek what we can't have and appreciate it.

Law 9: The Law of Activity
             I am going to do something!

Law 10:  The Law of exposure
       
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