Another aspect of the oddy controversy is my level of gayness, so to speak. Some think I am too gay. I apologize for verbalizing my attraction towards certain people and for making you uncomfortable, but did you ever stop to consider that since I thought you were my friend I felt comfortable enough to say those things to you or when you talk about guys "in that way" you are commiting the very sin you persecute me for. Others say I am not gay enough. Well, I apologize for not proving my gayness. I don't feel the need to be promiscuios to prove my sexuality to myself or to you. On this topic, I do not control who I am, but only accept myself. I love me for me. My wish is that others can do that also.
So don't try to figure out why I'm bi. I just am. Don't label me or put me in a box; I'm clasutraphobic. frankly, I don't understand monosexuals and you probably don't understand me. So let's not try to understand; Let's just be friends
Somebody once told me, "It is so cool that you are bisexual. Not because you're bisexual, but because you figured yourself out." This has been one of the most empowering statements that have ever been spoken to me. I wished other people felt the same way.
