| RAISING EMPATHY |
| In this day and age of "feel good" parenting, everyone wants to raise an empathetic child. One that can relate to others; that can put him/herself in the shoes of others. Some say the more empathy the better. Many parents struggle how to instill this empathy in their children. How? Will the lil tykes be reseptive? How reseptive? There is a way to instill hardcore emapthy, but it is the cruelest process. Just abuse them.. A child that is abused systematically over time learns to be reseptive to people. Learns to tell when the abuser or a potential abuser is in a good mood or a bad mood. Learns to feel the moods of the people s/he's around. Can tell when to socaialize and get beat or to play by themselves and stay intact. It wasn't a trait devolped to better themselves, but merely a survival skill. Even when these children grow up and out of these harmful situaions, most that devolp the empathy retain it. They maintain their coping mechanism and some put to use as a counsler or social worker or some other "people profession". They just use it in their everyday life. They Point is this: The next time you think to yourself, "I want my kids to be as sensitive as Her," just rape and beat your kids for 11 years like She was. |