My name is Brenda, I am 43 years old, married with 2 boys ages 21 and 23. I was born and live in Tulsa, Oklahoma where I normally work as a Customer Service Technical support. I enjoy messing around on my computer and expanding my knowledge in a variety of different areas. I am a homebody who enjoys working on home improvements (I am known as lil Miss Fix-it) I enjoy doing the landscaping, mowing, trimming, almost anything outside as long as the weather is beautiful. I love being challenged! I also enjoy going to the lake in the Summertime, riding the wave runners, tubing, skiing, boating and camping although I can do without the buggies! lol I like to play pool, and dance, I absolutely love watching football although I tend to get a bit rowdy, but I prefer a quiet walk in the park where I can enjoy the peace and quiet and read a nice book or write short stories. I listen to a wide variety of music from Rock, Pop Rock, some Alternative, some country, a little classical and mostly Jazz. My favorite easy listening is Kenny-G (his music is so romantic) which us girls really like. lol I consider myself very self-motivated, positive and independent with a great sense of humor. My screen name came from a life long passion to see the Ocean which I finally got to see back in 2000 when some friends and I went on a Royal Caribbean cruise to the Bahamas.
