What do men really want? ------------------------- GerK(22:23 PM) : men want to feel needed, and to have the love and respect of 1 woman. honestly, no macho b.s. Steve Railsback(15:29 PM) : men want to play RectalFetus(15:32 PM) : power RectalFetus(15:32 PM) : money RectalFetus(15:32 PM) : freedom RectalFetus(15:33 PM) : respect RectalFetus(15:33 PM) : love Ray(20:01 PM) : A: What do you mean by 'want'? My own $0.02: I probably want independence more than anything, not just in the patriotic sense, but to do/follow whatever dreams I have, whether it involves travel, love, or anything else, without chains of guilt or anxiety or fear ever weighing me down. Hmm, maybe I just want valium instead, lol. Merced(15:55 PM) : wow, tough one. I can't speak for other men, but what i want is freedom in a sense. Men are generally independant, free spirits in a way. I only really want to atleast have time to do some of the things i want to do. Could go from watching a game to going out to play golf or drinking with friends. But i can see all people having that need or want. DKHOEZONE(20:36 PM) : That's pretty much an obvious one... but personaly, the true meaning changes quite a bit as a guy ages. At least with me. What's most important to me right now is... to be elevated to a higher love after 20+ years of marrage. Sex is a more meaningful part of it as well but the importance isn't as it might have been in the past. |PW|Pro(23:48 PM) : I don't know what "men" want, however, I can tell you what I want. I want a smart, sexy girl who is fun to be with and who is a good listener and who understands me. Someone I mesh well with. killDCat(23:39 PM) : Simplicty, Comfort, Trust and Respect. Big words, take them simply and they are easy to reach. SYCLOPS(14:48 PM) : I'm not sure what men want. I've never seemed to want what most others want. I do not desire riches, just a bit more money then I have now so that I can feel comfortable with life and not always watch every dollar I spend. My exwife was, untill it went to shit, she was a short, slightly rounded woman, cute as could be, not the tall thin blonde 'look at me I'm hot' type Painthrilla(18:42 PM) : every man is different. And I assume you mean from a woman. If you do mean that I can only answer for myself obviously. I want companionship on every level, mental physical emotional. I want a woman not to be afaid to expose the tender side of herself, the hidden side. I want her to feel that comfortable with me and in turn know and trust that it will never be broken. Painthrilla(18:43 PM) : I want a woman not to be afraid to grow and I want a woman who can teach me things and not be afraid to learn with me. I want a woman who moves me and inspires me and in turn I want to move and inspire her. I want a woman who loves life more than me but not much more. That's probably the most important thing. Apapolis(04:58 AM) : Answer to your last question would probably be...b33r and b00bies! Apapolis(05:00 AM) : Seriously though, I can't speak for every guy out there. I'd go on to say that probably half put sex ahead of love above all else... well, maybe not wealth. Apapolis(05:01 AM) : That's just speakin' from the guys I know, especially some in my own family. Apapolis(05:16 AM) : I think its all just a matter of feeling insecure. I notice alot of guys like to brag about how much money they have and which girl did they bang and all that... it's just a matter of getting outside approval and recognition so they can feel better about themselves. Apapolis(05:19 AM) : That's just my point of view on the matter since I've seen the same thing outta some of my own uncles and cousins. Apapolis(05:22 AM) : As for me...I want a nice head and foot massage. Then afterwards I want to go to Red Lobster and eat crab legs! =D *drools* Booch(22:54 PM) : For me it varies greatly and its full of dichotomy. Booch(22:55 PM) : Freedom but yet I want to come home to a loving family Booch(22:55 PM) : Sex whenever I want it but sometimes im too tired Booch(22:56 PM) : I hate getting nagged but if I didnt I just wouldn't do some things that need to be done Booch(22:57 PM) : someone to clean up after me, except in my garage. I'm anal about my tools, Booch(23:00 PM) : I beleive that the male animal needs to satisfy these 4 basic instinctual needs: Sex, food, freedom, control. Booch(23:09 PM) : I know that sounds shallow but each one of those 4 basics tentacle into a myriad of other needs that orginate from those...and I could get into a whole literary piece on the subject but im too tired right now... Booch(23:13 PM) : get back to me on it Booch(23:19 PM) : another note : since the dawn of time men have been brought up as warriors and providers.....its in the genes...