In loving memory of my dear departed wife, NOWARAT WONG HUA LI
In Loving Memory of My Departed Wife,
NOWARAT WONG HUA LI
17-DEC-1977  TO  12-JAN-2005

You have finally opened my eyes to the meaning of Compassion:

You pay homage to Buddha and study Buddhism
You are kind and friendly to all people
You are kind and benevolent to all beings
You gave money to the poor, disabled and needy
You took very good care of my family
You gave joy and laughter to everyone around you
You reminded me never to forget my friends
You took care of me in every way

I understand now why you asked your friend to release the fish she caught, why you stopped me from killing ants and bees, why you care even for people who dislike you, why you always think of others first, why you are so calm despite pain and illnesses, and why you chant and pray

You have shown me the meaning of Compassion and Selflessness
Thank you so much for everything and this priceless gift

Sabbadanam Dhammadanam Jinati -
The Gift of Truth Excels All Other Gifts,

Charles Wong Hong Meng
30-1-2005
Calm & serene despite pain & troubles. My Dedication To You.
My beloved wife, Nowarat Wong Hua Li passed away unexpectedly on Jan 12, 2005 at the young age of 27, 5 months after giving birth to our daughter, Angelina Wong Zhi Yan.

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I just cannot come to terms why such a kind-hearted person like her who gave so much love and care to many people has to die so young; while a selfish, tainted, corrupted and cynical person like me has reasonably good health. How can she be so good yet suffer so much from chronic illnesses? It makes no sense. Till I read about The Four Noble Truths and Karma.

It's clear to me now where her kindness, generosity, understanding and goodness comes from: From practicing Buddhism by having Loving-Kindness and Compassion, something I never understood nor appreciated when she was alive. It's a real pity only now do I see some light. It would have been wonderful that I practice Buddhism with her when she was alive. I was too engrossed with worldly matters and desires to see this earlier.

I'll practice Buddhism and strive to follow The Noble Eightfold Path from now onwards.

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