Wendy
    I was just surfing some Geocitie cites and found yours. I have one word for you.............WOW! I commend you for your honesty and your thoughts and feelings. I have many guy friends that feel the same way as you do,  and they all ask me what they should do. I'm not sure I know what to tell them it is hard to be in that situation and sometimes I think I am there too. LOL You know you may have heard this one I get it all the time. "Your like my big/little sister" But for you it would be brother of course. I hate getting that. I read your FIRST EMAIL and i do agree on the self confidence thing she said it's kind of like you can't love another till you love yourself. I am sure you are tired of hearing that by now, I know i am. I too have self confidence issues and again I commend you being able to say that not only outloud, but here on the World Wide Web. All i can offer is this: Most women have the idea of men all wrong and can treat them like crap. I feel that I have too big of a heart and that I am too nice and pardon my language here but It usly fucks me up the ass everytime. LOL I myself don't know what to do about it but i am only 23 and I have a long road ahead of me, and although in the sote i didn't catch your age exacly i think you have the same long road ahead of you. LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT. and also YOU CAN ONLY HAVE HAPPEN TO YOU WHAT YOU ALLOW TO HAPPEN TO YOU. I have been told those two things in my life and as I do agree with them I am not too sure how to follow them. LOL I know thats nuts or even dumb but I think they are wise words. You don't want to be one of those asshole guys either trust me that will get you in bigger trouble but i suspect in time you will get what you want from life. Again I know you are probably tired of hearing that but it is true. Most of my guy friends that are in the same situation as you have found someone so just be patient and true to yourself but still try and get laid it sounds like you enjoy it. (well who doesn't right?) Don't change cause you think it will help. Change cause you want to. As for being scared for life, the tattoo sounds cool i have three myself and love them. I hope I have not said anything to annoy, offend, or piss you off but I had to write you something i was just too impressed with the site, and wanted to share my opinion for you. Good luck in everything you do and stay confident. I was once told that Self Confidence is the sexiest quality to have, And although I am not as self confident as I would like to be I do see more and more everyday how that can be true.

Wendy
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