TAKE MUSIC INSTEAD OF A MILTOWN by George R. Marek ------------------ THAT MORNING, I was sure the end of the world had come. My boss had fired me; and, with the pessimism of youth, I was convinced that I would never find another job. I was marked for failure. (I was 19 years old.) That evening I had a date to meet a friend at Lewisohn Stadium, to hear the New York Philharmonic. Job or no job, I decided to go. At first, as I sat there, the music merely lapped against the stone wall of my anxiety. But with the final number of the program, the "First Symphony" of Brahms, I began to listen in earnest. As the music reached me, I reflected that I had heard the symphony often before, that I was probably to hear it often again under different conditions--and that it always had been, and would be in the future, the same satisfying music. It did not change; only I did. I was impermanent; the symphony was permanent. I drew comfort from this. I measured the event of the day more calmly. Was it as important as all that? Couldn't I do something about it? As I walked home, the dull blanket of despondency weighed less. Somehow I would manage to find another job. Since then, I have often marvelled at the power that lies in music to raise the spirits, to comfort shaken nerves, to serve as rope on which hope can lift itself. I am, of course, not the first to marvel. Most of us remember Congreve's "Music hath charms to soothe the savage beast." Horace spoke of music as "the healing balm of troubles." "I feel physically refreshed and strengthened by it," said Coleridge. Even Goethe, who was not particularly musical, said that music made him unfold "like the fingers of a threatening fist which straighten, amicably." Music may be used in two different ways. The first way is the road taken by the music lover. He need not be able to tell a fugue from a fandango. But to him, the hearing of music is an experience that grips his mind and tears at his heart. He cannot remain indifferent. How does one become a music lover? There is but one way: listen to music! Only direct experience, not study or explanations or any sort of prop, will lead you to music. I have two suggestions for the beginner. First, listen to the same composition often, until you can respond to it emotionally. Do not expect to encompass a symphony at first hearing. And do not be discouraged or fell guilty if, while listening to an unfamiliar symphony, your attention wanders. Initially, absorb from it as much as you can--and coast through the rest. There will come a time when the clouds roll away and the landscape lies clearly before you. In music, the familiar is the enjoyable. Don't dart from one composition to the next. Stay with it! Second, choose--in the beginning, at least--romantic music. This is repertoire that begins with Beethoven and ends with Sibelius and that, in its wide orbit, includes the most popular works--those of Schubert, Brahms, Dvorak, Tchaikovsky, Verdi, Wagner, Berlioz and a dozen other composers of the 19th century. Such music, with its rich colouring, its exuberance, its sweetness, its exciting oratory, makes an immediate appeal. But it is not safe to predict what you will like. We do know that people tend to respond more easily to Chopin and Puccini than to Handel or Haydn. Yet your experience may differ. I know one woman whose enthusiasm for music flared when she became acquainted with Scarlatti and Vivaldi. She happens to be very modern in her tastes, and possibly these early-18th-century products furnish a counterbalance. Of all the arts, music is the freest. Most music does not "mean" anything--except in its own world and on its own terms. But because it has little to do with what we call real life, because it is free of the weekday, it can effectively take us away from our lives, from our nine-to-five worries. Because music travels on winged feet, it can make us forget where the shoe pinches. The other way of using music is as background accompaniment- -like a tepid bath in which you induce a drowsy reverie. You hardly listen to what you hear, any more than you consciously listen to the surf of the sea. Almost any kind of music can be used for such a purpose, though most people prefer a smooth blend of sound. We meet such music in the most unlikely places--in the dentist's office, in the airport and the bus depot, at the meat market. In factories, such music helps to relieve the boredom of routine labour. So, too, in the home, people mix the sound of violins with the sound of the dishwasher. But mental processes-- creative or calculating--seem to be aided as well. El Greco hired musicians to play for him as he painted. Many men, thinking their problems through, like to have the radio or the phonograph going. many background-music records--"Music for Dining," "Music for Reading" and the like--help to calm nerves and assuage fatigue. John Oldham, England's favourite satirist of the 17th century, dropped his doubts when he wrote: Music's the cordial of a troubled breast, The softest remedy that grief can find, The gentle spell that charms our care to rest And calms the ruffled passions of the mind. (30)
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