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LadyDomina says: Men are more influenced by appearance than women are, but it works on both genders.

LadyDomina says: Hence the boots, the leather, the black clothing, the fetish wear.

LadyDomina says: It all sets the mood.

Lavicka nods

LadyDomina says: Another thing a lot of people don't think about, and this one is important for those who dom women... is the state of the dungeon/bedroom/play area.

Lavicka pokes spivey, 'listen up'

Spivey sticks his tongue out at Lavi

LadyDomina says: Women are much more bothered by dirty clothes, unmade beds, dirty dishes, dirty bathrooms, etc., though a lot of men feel the same way.

Falina nods

LadyDomina says: And things like that can put you right out of the mood.

LadyDomina says: So it's important to have clean, tranquil surroundings.

Lavicka nods

LadyDomina says: It's just minimizing distractions.

LadyDomina says: You want the sub to focus on you, not on whether your sheets are dirty or just tan.

LadyDomina giggles

Lavicka grins

xaveria asks: use black sheets?

LadyDomina says: Well, that might work, unless they are stiff.

Falina says: yuck

jasper says: use no sheets

Falina smiles

LadyDomina giggles some more

Falina says: keep everything bland toned

LadyDomina says: Well, that or clean.

Spivey says: just one rubber sheet and a couple bottles of baby oil :)

Lavicka shakes her head and doesnt claim him... greally

LadyDomina says: and phones, particularly cell phones.

LadyDomina laughs

LadyDomina says: I learned that the hard way.

Lavicka grins

Falina laughs at the thought of a cell phone ringing

Spivey nods

LadyDomina says: I was putting a client in Japanese bondage and his cell phone went off. He PICKED IT UP and TALKED on it.

Lavicka has had the phone ring.. its not fun :)

Lavicka exclaims: ohboy!

LadyDomina says: To his wife.

Lavicka laughs