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LadyDomina says: Okay, here I am, standing here, wearing a brightly printed silk caftan, nikes, and smiling. Don't I look dominant?

LadyDomina says: Hmmmm...

Lavicka grins

LadyDomina says: I forgot how to do an action.

Lavicka grins, 'thats ; <action>'

LadyDomina grins

Lavicka says: hi domaris

Galin says: hi Domaris

Domaris waves hi and finds herself a seat

Spivey says: hi Domaris

LadyDomina asks: Okay, so, what is wrong with the way I look? It's the shoes, right?

LadyDomina takes off her shoes

LadyDomina asks: Is that better?

Lavicka giggles

LadyDomina asks: I look dominant NOW in my pretty silk caftan?

LadyDomina asks: No?

LadyDomina asks: Okay.. who can tell me why?

Spivey didn't know clothing had anything to do with how dominant one appears

LadyDomina says: Spivey, it does have to do with how dominant one appears, but little to do with how dominant one IS.

LadyDomina says: BIG difference.

Spivey raises an eyebrow

Lavicka will agree to that

LadyDomina says: That's why the commercials with women in boots and black leather with whips are so effective.

LadyDomina says: It's very dominant looking.

LadyDomina says: This is social conditioning.

Lavicka says: evertime i see a picture of some chick in full leather with a cute little smile on her face, i wanna laugh

Spivey believes attitude matters most, even with first impressions

LadyDomina asks: Okay, Spivey. Are you dom or sub?

Spivey says: good question

LadyDomina asks: A switch?

Spivey says: Good.

Spivey says: more dom than anything else I suppose

LadyDomina says: Okay. You invite this lovely young thing over for play. You meet her at the door wearing a plaid bathrobe, slippers, and three days growth of beard.

Spivey grins

Lavicka laughs

Spivey asks: how did you know?

Spivey asks: have we dated?