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| mouse says: It's like trying to convince someone who's vanilla that bdsm is the way to go, or vice versa Rebecca says: There... that should do it. Lavicka says: or ill assume we do :) Rebecca winks Aspinara exclaims: I'm convinced, though! Aspinara grins. Prophet smiles Lavicka asks: does maturity have anything to do with ability to overcome jealousy? Rebecca says: Maturity or shallowness. Crimson says: It should Aspinara asks: Maturity in what respect? Redrose says: maybe maybe not Rebecca would guess emotional maturity. Lavicka says: maturity in mind... not age Lavicka says: yes, rebecca... thank you Rebecca can't spell tonight. Lavicka says: words are eluding me tonight mouse says: alot of it is what happens in a person's past. Redrose says: no maturity doesn't always have a play in jealousy Lavicka asks: so even an immature person can be jealousy free? Redrose says: yes mouse says: i don't believe children are born being jealous. Lavicka says: ill accept that :) Redrose says: and no Lavicka says: and that :) Lavicka says: well, when you really consider it... Crimson asks: What about when the 2nd child comes along?? Lavicka says: children dont know what jealousy is.. they see mom and dad (or mom and boyfriend or dad and girlfriend or whatever) loving them, the other person, the dog, their other siblings... there is no jealousy there mouse says: the first one starts off feeling insecure about their place in the family. Crimson says: the first child is often jealous mouse says: That's where it starts. Redrose says: if someone is scared that someone else is getting the attention that bleongs to them... the raise they thought was theirs.. the car they couldn't afford xaveria say: my sister was jealous from the moment i wa sborn.. still is Redrose says: I am a first child mouse says: but they aren't BORN that way.. it's the "ME first"ness that happens. Redrose says: no one ever helped me deal with the birth of my brother 7.5 years later Lavicka says: i think its definitely a learned behavior Crimson says: When you're born you think you ARE all there is Crimson says: When you find out you're not... you're insecure |
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