jealousy3

Lavicka asks: what if your spouse walked in and said 'honey, im going out with the guys for a beer'... youd be fine with that?

xaveria says: do you really think that the subs are not occasionally jealous of each other?

Prophet says to xaveria: I should hope not

Crimson asks: Who are you asking, Lavicka?

Lavicka says: trust is a very big issue when were talking jealousy

mouse says to Lavicka: (about the beer)... yep.

Lavicka says: you, crimson

mouse says: Heck,... right now he's out having dinner with another woman.

Crimson says: Ok.. No, no problem

smaid says: yes, subs are...

Lavicka says: mouse, change that... say that lwonder called to tell you he was going out with the girls after work. you fine with that?

mouse says: Yep.

Lavicka says: good :)

Lavicka says: then id say youre a very secure person :)

mouse says: I know he's coming home to me and I trust him.

Lavicka grins and nods

Crimson says: Yep, I know she'll come home

Lavicka says: ok.. prophet and rebecca....

mouse asks: If I don't trust him, why would I be with him?

Lavicka says: very good point, mouse

Rebecca looks at Lavicka.

Crimson says: If she ever dumps me, it won't be because of someone else, but because of me

Lavicka says to Rebecca: i want you to forget that you are a secure person in your relationship for a moment.

Rebecca laughs. Okay.

Lavicka grins

Crimson listens

Prophet asks: you can forget about me that easily?

Lavicka asks: do you think a sub, in a RL relationship, be it live in or not, has a right to be jealous if prophet came home with someone else and completely ignored you or snubbed you?

Rebecca says: Lavicka... I bring friends home to Prophet.. this is going to be a stretch.

Rebecca asks: Can I make them breakfast?

mouse has done that :)

mouse says: Heck... I've made room in our bed for a few of his "friends" :)

Prophet smiles

Rebecca nods.

Lavicka asks: or anyone else, for that matter... does a sub have a right to be jealous of their owner being with someone else, even if it was arranged with their ok?

Prophet says: it would depend on the negotiation

Rebecca says: In our contract, I don't

Lavicka asks: so you push those feelings aside? what if its someone you despise?