By Nathan J. Brown
1996: Preliminary draft
At least since the days of
European imperialism, treatment of women in the Arab world (and the Muslim
world more broadly) has been portrayed as both a major feature and cause of social
retrogression. Islamic law in particular
is often depicted as operating on women in particularly unfavorable ways. While
such images are not always inaccurate they are incomplete. In recent years, our understanding of the
Arab world has been enriched by new attempts to understand women as agents who
craft their own lives and history, even as they operate within sharp social,
cultural, and legal constraints.[2] Yet this newer approach has yet to penetrate
our understanding of how law operates in the Arab world. Writings on law and gender are varied and
rich but they suffer from silence on two issues.
First, Islamic law receives
extensive attention at the expense of other legal systems. The attention given to Islamic law is
understandable. It generally informs
personal status law even in countries that have adopted European-inspired law
codes. Since personal status law governs
areas like marriage, divorce and custody, it is often the only area of law that
treats women specifically and deliberately as women; other areas of law are
generally gender-blind in their explicit language (though not necessarily in
their application). Yet personal status
law, while critical in women’s lives, does not wholly define their legal
position. Civil and criminal law are
based far more on European than Islamic sources in almost all of the Arab
world; considerations of law and gender that focus exclusively on Islamic law
and personal status thus miss much of the legal environment that governs women.[3]
Second, writings on gender
and law in the Arab world often focus on the law as it is written less than the
law as it is applied; even when the latter draws attention the law is seen as
something that operates upon women.[4] Since all civil and most criminal legal
actions require an aggrieved party to bring a dispute to a court, the police,
or a prosecutor, the paucity of research that examines women as potential legal
actors is puzzling.[5] This silence is even more striking given the
tremendous interest in law-and-society scholarship on matters like litigant
strategies, forum shopping, and resistance to or through the law.[6]
My purpose in this essay is
to bring some of the newer approaches on women as agents to bear on our
understanding of law in the Arab world.
In particular, I wish to pursue two arguments that are contrary to much
of the tone of writings on law and gender in the Arab world. First, law in the Arab world allows women
substantial latitude for negotiation.
Even when the legal system places them on unfavorable terrain (as it
frequently does), women have a part to play in defining their position. Second, women often maximize their positions
by exploiting the operation of several different areas of law. They do so not simply by shopping for the
most favorable legal (or non-legal) forum to resolve their problem, but by
resorting to several fora simultaneously in order to improve their bargaining
position.
I have selected two areas
where women would seem to (and indeed do) operate on particularly unfavorable
legal ground: marital disputes in
Egyptian marriages are of
course very often based primarily on love, but they can never escape economics;
if they become troubled they often do not escape the courts. A web of personal- status law, customs (some
based on the law, others designed to minimize its effects), and intensive
pre-marital bargaining forms the backdrop to all marriages. Divorces occur within the same framework, but
it is not at all unusual for informal family intervention and the criminal law
to play roles as well. (The law and
practice for Egyptian Christians are very different, and divorce is extremely
difficult. This section concerns only
Egyptian Muslims.)
Egyptian personal-status
law is based on Islamic law and an Islamic conceptions of marriage as a
contractual agreement between a husband who pledges support and a woman who
pledges obedience.[7] The law in
The impact of the law can
only be understood in the context of Egyptian customs and bargaining related to
marriage. Since husband and wife retain
separate ownership, much of the pre-marital bargaining concerns what each side
will bring to the marriage or pledge to the other. In general, a husband is expected to provide
an apartment and major appliances. A
wife may provide some of the furnishings for the apartment. A husband also is required to pay a mahr
[bride-price] to his wife (or to her family to hold in trust for her), often
consisting of two separate amounts. The mahr
muqaddim [advance bride-price] is paid at the time of the wedding. A mahr mu’akhkhar [delayed bride-price]
is also sometimes pledged to be paid in the event of divorce (or death). A husband is also expected (and required by
law) to provide financial support for the family; so long as the husband
provides the proper home and support, a wife is expected (and required by law)
to live with her husband.
These arrangements leave
tremendous room for bargaining and protracted financial negotiations to precede
(and often prevent) a wedding. With
housing scarce and expensive and financial resources tight for all but the very
affluent, the families of the bride and groom are generally very anxious to
ensure that the needs and interests of their side are guaranteed; they are also
careful to safeguard the interests and property of their side should the
marriage end in divorce. The social
standing of the two sides, the earning power of the groom, and quality of
housing he can provide all affect the outcome.
As a result, although the law would seem to give a husband far greater
divorce rights than a wife, the situation in practice often depends on the
arrangements made in advance of the marriage and the nature of the marital
difficulties. If a wife can show
harm—perhaps because of physical or verbal abuse (or, since 1979, because the
husband marries a second wife)--she will not only be able to divorce her
husband, but may also be able to demand the mahr mu’akhkhar, child support, and
housing. If, however, she leaves her
husband and is unable to satisfy a court that she is justified, she may face a
bayt al-ta‘a order giving her the choice of returning to the home she fled or
forfeiting most of her financial rights.
The result is that a
troubled marriage often erupts in a tangled web of lawsuits and even criminal
charges, which in turn provoke formal and informal attempts at mediation. For instance, in order to substantiate
charges of harm, a wife will sometimes go to the police to swear a statement
that she was subject to physical or verbal abuse. A husband will seek to gain an advantageous
legal position by filing a bayt al-ta‘a suit to make clear to the wife that she
will face potentially disastrous financial consequences unless she
returns. A creative spouse can find a
variety of ways to invoke personal-status, civil, and criminal law on his or
her behalf; such attempts generally provoke a similar set of moves by the other
spouse.[9] What is especially noteworthy is the wide
variety of fora that are employed, often simultaneously. Husbands and wives will deal directly with
each other, use the mediation of relatives and friends, and use the criminal,
civil, and personal-status courts in complex strategies to obtain (or prevent)
a divorce on the most favorable terms.
The following case
illustrates how litigants can use the courts and informal mediation (and even
physical violence) in a protracted and bitter breakup of a marriage.
Case 1 (Informant: Friend of husband; relative of wife[10])
A friend of mine
married my relative; she was studying to be a teacher. He was from a poor family, from a sha‘bi
[popular] neighborhood. After the
engagement they quarreled over money and over her friends. He lived with her for about two months after
the wedding. He lived in the same
apartment building as his father.
Whenever somebody would visit her, his relatives would look on. That annoyed her. She liked to go out with her friends and he
forbade that. She wanted to help out her
family because her father was old. He
refused to help. They had a bad quarrel,
and her family intervened. Then things
really got bad—he was barred from her family’s house. Not even the police could help. After the end of the school year he was
beating her every day. She wanted to go
out; he did not want her to go out. She
left him. She demanded a divorce from
him but he refused. He filed a ta‘a suit
against her and charged her with khiyana [betrayal, in this case
infidelity]. She filed a suit demanding
divorce and possession of the furnishings [that she had provided], claiming
that he had taken them. He denied that
he had them. We tried two or three times
[to settle], but she wanted her furnishings.
One of her relatives, a good, older man, was helping. They [the husband’s family] attacked him
[verbally] in the street. He raised a
slander suit. Once the husband saw his
wife in the street and quarrelled with her.
He grabbed her. He had to pay a
fine.
The suits went on for
four or five years or more. A session,
another session, the lawyer did not show up, then the lawyer would come but the
witnesses did not show up, then they came but the judges delayed the case. It was delayed once or twice a month. At the end he won the ta‘a suit [requiring
her to return], but she refused [to return] unless they would find a new house
far away from his family. He
refused. They [the wife’s family]
appealed to the High Court for divorce.
She did not abandon the suit for the furnishings, but he won it because
she did not return to his house. They
kept on going for more than seven years.
She would file a case, he would file a case; from one case to another
all the way to the High Court. After
seven years, the court ruled for divorce.
While it is impossible to
ascertain the extent of physical violence in family relationships, the courts
tend to take the matter extremely seriously.
Case 2 (Informant:
Husband’s uncle)
A young man, a house
painter, fell madly in love. He was a
youth, with all those feelings. They got
married. He got a simple apartment with
simple furnishings. There were problems,
but there was love. Her mother would
come to stay for a week or a month.
Naturally, a man wants to stay in a house by himself. Then her sister came. That is where the problem began. So she went to her mother and siblings for a
month. He said he would not give her
money for household expenses. She left
him [for good]. He filed a [bayt
al-ta‘a] suit against her. She swore a mahdar
[statement] that he had beat her and had not been paying household
expenses. They went to the police
station. He denied beating her and
withholding the money, but he hit her in front of the police officer. They made out a mahdar there. Later he saw her walking in the street with a
man. He then agreed with a friend to go
to the police station and complain that the friend had been having an affair
with his wife. The officer did not
believe the story; the husband went crazy and hit the officer. He was summoned to the police station [for
having hit the officer]. He went to
another officer, whose house he had painted, to intervene. They dropped the complaint after he
apologized.
I went with him to
his apartment. There was nothing
there—even the pictures on the wall were gone.
He asked his friend who had a shop in the building about it, and he told
him that his wife had come and taken everything. He asked his friend how he could sit back and
watch that happen. Then he insulted and
hit his friend. He went on to his wife’s
relatives. They were butchers. There was a fight. When he got home he found threats written in
blood on the walls. He did not complain
to the police because he wanted to get even.
He divorced her and
paid support [nafaqa] of LE 60.
They had a son. When he turned
12, the husband filed suit to obtain guardianship, as was his right. He wanted to get the boy so that he would no
longer have to pay support to his wife.
But the boy did not want to go, so the judge ruled that the boy would
stay with his mother. The husband still
pays the support. He has brought suit to
reduce it. The ex-wife wants to get
remarried but does not want to lose the support payments. That case is still going on. She brought proof of poverty, and he brought
proof that she is living well.
The husband filed a
suit to gain the furnishings [from the apartment the couple had lived in]. They inspected the apartment to make sure it
was empty. His friend the police officer
advised him to get witnesses that she had taken what was there. But he could not get evidence. Everyone was scared of her family. The case is still going on. It has lasted five years. The case about the beating is still going on
as well. The ex-wife has also sworn a
mahdar that he brought women to the apartment.
She has said she would drop her cases if he drops his regarding the furnishings
and guardianship of the son. He wants to
get rid of the case. He wanted to get
married again, but the ex-wife’s family went to his prospective bride’s family,
and the marriage fell through.
Working-class and
middle-class Cairenes tend to be very aware of the provisions of the
personal-status (and other relevant) law, and this affects their actions both
before a marriage and in the course of a marital conflict. Thus some of their strategies are essentially
preemptive—to gain stronger bargaining position in case marital difficulties
occur. This takes the fairly obvious
form of carefully recording the material obligations of both sides in a written
marriage contract, but it can also take more subtle forms. In one instance, a fiancee’s engagement seemed
about to collapse in an argument over finances and her prospective groom’s wish
to travel to
The extensive use of the
courts by working- and middle-class Cairenes in marital disputes suggests that
the formal legal system is hardly seen as the forum of last resort. With the prolonged nature of litigation
surrounding divorce (according to one estimate, the average life of a divorce
case in the courts is seven years[11])
early resort to the courts is almost necessary.
Yet the courts are hardly seen as a forum of first resort either. The various methods for settling marital
problems—formal and informal, direct and manipulative, obvious and
inventive—are all used, very often simultaneously. The courts and the legal system have become
part of the social landscape, not simply accepted but actively sought out by
those with severe marital difficulties.[12] Indeed, it is probably the affluent who can
afford to take a more reticent attitude towards the courts. When difficulties in a marriage occur, the
material conflicts of less wealthy Cairenes (over apartments, furniture, and
child support) can be less pressing and more easily resolved informally outside
of a legal framework.[13] Once the courts have been introduced into a
dispute, their role tends to escalate partly because of the actions of the
parties themselves: suits provoke
countersuits; criminal charges are filed to buttress a civil claim; appeals and
delaying tactics insure that the matter can be postponed for a momentarily
disadvantaged party. And Egyptians are
aware not only of the provisions of the personal-status law available to them
but also other legal provisions (including the criminal code) whose relevance
to marital dispute is made obvious only by the ability of litigants to invoke
them. Hardly passive actors, even those
with a relatively weak legal position devise tactics to make their claims on
property, spouses, or custody of children.
For Cairenes involved in
marital problems, the legal system is not an alien, hostile, or terrifying
presence but a potential ally or a set of tools. Some of these tools are generally helpful to
one side and some to the other, but all are used, sometimes early and sometimes
often.
While the use of domestic
labor has been fairly common since the beginning of the oil era, initially it
was most common to hire males from other
Domestic workers throughout
the world have few legal and non-legal protections available to them, and their
situation in
The situation of domestic
workers in
Domestic laborers can enter
and work in
Second, domestic laborers
may come to
Workers in the second
category have very few legal protections.
They generally have no written contracts and any arrangements they may
have agreed to orally were generally discussed in their country of origin. It should be no surprise that their Kuwaiti
employers cannot be held accountable in Kuwaiti courts for oral arrangements
the laborers made with distant agencies.
Once in
While other workers will
often complain about deceptive practices by employment agencies and
ill-treatment by employers, domestic workers, especially females from the
Most Kuwaitis feel that
their society has been unfairly singled out for criticism. Since
Yet even if they do seek
refuge in the embassy the legal position of domestic workers is weak. If their complaints stem from contract
violations or work conditions, they can do little to substantiate their claims
and can not leave their employer without permission until they have completed
two years of work. If their complaints
are related to physical or verbal abuse, they will likely be able to produce no
witnesses. And while cases of rape may
be treated seriously, there are again rarely witnesses. In cases where they claim more than one rape,
skeptical authorities will probably question them on why they did not escape
after the first occurrence. In this way,
a victim of multiple rape can often be treated less seriously than the victim
of a single rape.[29]
Yet while domestic workers
still find obstacles when resorting to the legal system, the official actions
taken on their behalf have given them some legal tools. There is every evidence that they use
them. As in marital and housing disputes
in
A charge of battery, verbal
abuse, or rape rarely results in a prosecution in
Kuwaiti families in such
situations generally have two concerns.
First, and most seriously, is the criminal charge itself. Second is the shame involved in being accused
of such a crime. Third, families who
employ domestic labor generally pay a substantial fee to the agency which
covers the laborer’s trip to
In
Once the bargaining begins,
it is extremely rare for the legal issues to go to court. If the Kuwaiti family feels the charges are
strong, they may offer to pay for the laborer’s return to the country of origin
or to allow the transfer to a new sponsor.
If the charges are weak, they may demand that the initial fee they paid
the agency be repaid—if not by the agency than by anybody wishing to hire the
worker and assume sponsorship. Of
the domestic workers who sought refuge
in the Philippine embassy in 1994, roughly one-third were repatriated, a second
third returned to the original place of employment, and the remainder found new
employment (either with the assistance of the embassy or by returning to the
agency). The total number alleging
criminal violations to an embassy official was over one thousand; there were
only twelve prosecutions. The courts and
the legal system were hardly inert on the issue, but their chief role
(sometimes intentionally and sometimes not) was to establish more clearly the
bargaining position of the two parties.
Indeed, bargaining does not even necessarily stop if a case does go to
court. In 1994 a Kuwaiti couple accused
in the beating death of their maid offered to pay diya [in Islamic law a
payment in the event of death that the family of a victim may accept in return
for dropping criminal penalties].[32] Kuwaiti courts are not obliged to accept the
payment of diya as are some Islamic-based courts, but the payment of diya often
results (as it did in this instance) in a reduced sentence.
Unless criminal charges are
made the bargaining position of the laborer is quite weak. Kuwaitis involved in the issue often claim
that criminal charges are made falsely because a laborer is simply dissatisfied
with working conditions or wishes to find more lucrative employment elsewhere
in the country.[33] This is very difficult to substantiate, but
it must be recognized that immigration and labor law give a laborer few tools
to change employment other than criminal charges; it should be no surprise if
some use the only tools at their disposal.
Kuwaitis often claim that they are the victims of crimes by domestic
workers (especially theft). But their
bargaining power is so strong—since they are the worker’s sponsor and often
hold his or her passport as well in defiance of official policy—that there is
little need to resort to the police in such cases. In 1994, only thirty-three Kuwaiti families
made criminal complaints against Filipino workers.[34]
The low prosecution rate in
charges domestic workers make against their employers is thus related not to
the attitudes of the niyaba or the courts.
Instead it is directly related to labor and immigration law. Reforms currently under discussion would do
much to alleviate some of the sources of inequality. Among those ideas sometimes discussed by
government officials and parliamentarians involve easing restrictions on
changing sponsors (allowing the laborer—or the new sponsor—to pay a fee rather
than wait two years or obtain the consent of the existing sponsor) and still
greater regulation of employment agencies operating in Kuwait. Such changes, if implemented, would probably
result not simply in better working conditions for domestic labor but also in
fewer false criminal allegations and a higher rate of prosecutions.
Studies of women and law in
the Arab world have generally removed (or evinced little interest in) agency
from women because of a series of underlying assumptions: the law puts women in a weak position; the
weak political and social position of women would make legal protections
ineffective even if they did exist; and participation in such a system can only
reinforce such subordination. In fact,
while women’s weakness is generally difficult to deny it does not erase the
ability of women to use the law to negotiate their relationships with family
members, employers, and others.
First, it is important to note
that there is no absolute dichotomy between weakness and freedom of action;
those who are subordinate are often still confronted with real choices. Domestic workers in
Second, the array of
choices and strategies open even to the subordinate is greatly expanded when
the courts are not viewed as a final or exclusive forum. The ability to drop charges or abandon
litigation and the availability of family (and other informal) channels allow
resort to a combination and shifting set of tools more often than not. Certainly concentration on the law as written
is insufficient, but concentration on a particular forum (such as the courts)
is insufficient as well because it misses the way in which various fora can
operate simultaneously and even depend on each other.
Finally, there is no
evidence that those who resort to the courts reinforce or legitimate their
legal subordination in any way. If going
to court foreclosed other options and forced a narrow legal interpretation of a
problem then it could plausibly be argued that the law operates to define and
thus constrain action and identity. If a
domestic servant could use only the protections available under the provisions
of the contract then it might be plausibly argued that resort to those
protections might foster a sense of identity defined largely in those
subordinate terms. But she can also draw
on criminal law and embassy protection; a Filipino domestic servant can
conceive of—and present—her problem as a matter for civil law, criminal law,
informal negotiation, and diplomacy.
Most important, she can present the problem in all these ways
simultaneously. So long as the law, in
combination with other institutions and practices, presents so many options,
scholars must take women seriously as agents.
[1]I gratefully acknowledge the
assistance of Muhammad al-Ansari, Muhammad al-Fahd, Khulud al-Fili, Baron Hall,
Sahar Hasan, Husam Mahmud, Ruth Wallace, and the Embassy of Philippines in
[2]There is an increasingly rich
body of writings here; for examples see Nikki R. Keddie and Beth Baron, Women
in Middle Eastern History (New Haven:
Yale University Press, 1991), and Arlene MacCleod, Accommodating
Resistance (New York: Columbia
University Press, 1991).
[3]For an exception, see Safia K.
Mohsen, Safia K. (1990) "Women and Criminal Justice in
[4]See, for example, Farida Shaheed,
"Controlled or Autonomous: Identity and the Experience of the Network,
Women Living under Muslim Laws," Signs 19 (4, 1994): 997. The article does describe actions some women
have taken but describes the current situation as one in which the
law--generally in its least favorable form--operates upon women.
[5]Two notable exceptions are Richard
Antoun, "Litigant Strategies in an Islamic Court in
[6]For an example of this literature,
see Julia Wells, "Passes and Bypasses:
Freedom of Movement for African Women Under the Urban Areas Acts of
South Africa," in Margaret Jean Hay and Marcia Wright (editors), African
Women and the Law, Boston University Papers on Africa, VII, 1982.
[7]The pledge of obedience has some
real legal implications, as will become clear.
Nevertheless, it should not obscure the nature of obedience is itself
often contested and continually negotiated.
[8]See
John L. Esposito, Women in Muslim Family Law (Syracuse: Syracuse University Press, 1982), chapter 3;
Carolyn Fleuhr-Lobban and Lois Bardsley-Sirois, "Obedience (Ta`a) in
Muslim Marriage: Religious
Interpretation and Applied Law in Egypt," Journal of Comparative Family
Studies 21 (1, Spring 1990): 39; and Enid Hill, Mahkama! Studies in the Egyptian Legal System,
[9]Opportunities for creativeness in
the use of litigation is not new. Ron
Shaham has documented the workings of the law (and the ways that judges applied
the law) in the shari`a courts that had jurisdiction in personal-status cases
until their abolition in 1955. See
Shaham, "Judicial Divorce."
See also Shaham, "Custom, Islamic Law, and Statutory
Legislation: marriage Registration and
Minimum Age at Marriage in the Egyptian Shari`a Courts," Islamic Law
and Society 2 (3, 1995):258.
[10]These interviews were supervised,
translated and transcribed by the author.
The interviewees are personal acquaintances of the informants. The words are the informants', but they have
been edited by the author for clarity and succinctness.
[12]Egyptians here are not
unique. In an extensive study of divorce
in
[14]Jamal al-Shihab, Assistant
Undersecretary for Legal Affairs and International Relations, Ministry of
Justice, personal interview, Kuwait, January 1995. Al-Shihab argued to me that many of the
problems with domestic servants have arisen because of strong cultural
differences which did not present a problem when most of those hired came from
other
[15]For a lurid example of such
discussion see "Some of the Servants are Students of Satan!" al-Watan,
supplement, July 1993. Most discussion
centers on the desirability of relying on non-family members (and non-Muslims)
in taking such a large role in child care responsibility. Certainly not all press discussion is
unfavorable to the domestic servants. A
local radio program devoted to legal subjects focused on the legal rights and
obligations of Kuwaitis employing domestic servants.
[16]"The Minister of
Interior: Servants are 168 Thousand in
[17]Jasim al-Shamari, "The
Political Crisis of 'Maids' between
[18]See "The Ambassador of
India: 115 Thousand Indians in Kuwait
Working in Various Sectors, Among them 35,000 Working as Servants in
Houses," al-Ra'y al-`Amm, 19 January 1993; Philippine figures
collected by the Embassy of the Philippines in Kuwait.
[19]For the situation in the
[20]Bader I. Al-Shebani, A
Comparative Study of the Attitudes of Kuwaiti Families in the Role of
Entrusting their Children to Foreign Domestic Servants in Kuwait, a
dissertation presented to the division of Counseling and Educational
Psychology, University of Oregon, August 1988.
[21]See Mary Romero, Maid in the
[22]Since such agencies were only
loosely regulated in the past, it is difficult to ascertain the prevalence of
such practices, but they are believed by members of the Filipino community in
[23]For a general analysis of the
problem, see "Punishing the Victim:
Rape and Mistreatment of Asian Maids in
[25]For an example of some of the
international attention, see Bill Hewitt and Terry Smith, "The Shame of
Kuwait: A year after the country's
liberation, foreign household servants are treated like slaves," People,
[27]Salah Ahmad al-Najim, director of
Office of Household Labor, Ministry of Interior, personal interview,
[28]The procedures were described in
personal interviews in
[29]Several of those who have dealt
with such cases expressed the belief that allegations of multiple rape often
indicates consensual sexual relations--or at least will be regarded that way by
the courts. And in one case which I
became personally familiar with, a maid alleging multiple rapes reported that the
police questioned her about her failure to escape after the first rape and
expressed doubts about her claims because she was not pregnant.
[30]This information is based on
interviews with criminal investigators at al-Dasma in February 1995. In the course of conversation with the
investigators, several cases were dealt with in my presence, including one rape
case.
[31]It is probably the case that a
more aggressive attitude by the police would place the laborers in a far
stronger position. Yet in one way it
probably does protect some laborers from prosecution for making false
charges. Officials involved in the
investigation of crimes against domestic laborers claim that a large number,
even the majority, of allegations are false and designed only to obtain release
from a labor contract. Even if this
claim is exaggerated it probably has a strong basis. False charges undoubtedly are made because
they offer one of the few avenues for escape from an undesirable
situation. A domestic servant who is
verbally maltreated or not paid will probably have to live under such
conditions for two years. One who
alleges a serious crime will probably be able to settle for a transfer of the
contract to a new employer or a plane ticket home. Thus, official diffidence in the pursuit of
formal criminal charges makes it less likely that those making false (or merely
unproven) charges will be prosecuted.