| Nags's Rant |
| �You�re better off, relationships really aren�t all they�re cracked up to be� ~ Adam �Golden Arm� Rutherford & Josh Phillips When we were down in Santa Cruz this is what they tried to tell me. Now I can�t say they�re right because as we all know by now, I don�t have any ex-girlfriends because I�ve never been in a relationship. Do I believe them? No I can�t say that I do but I see where they�re coming from. I mean relationships are a shitload of work and they can just be gone for no reason at a moment�s notice, even if you�ve done everything right. So I mean why should I really try and get into one and be pissed that I�m not in one? Well I�ll tell you why. Actually I�ll do one better, I�ll make a list of the reasons I want a relationship. 1. Never Knowing � Having never been in a relationship I can�t honestly say from experience that they aren�t worth it. There are so many things I�ve never done. Hell I�ve never even kissed a girl I�ve cared about. Kissing Hallie on the cheek doesn�t count because she�s my sister basically and the only girl I made out with I never saw before and I never saw again. Can�t say I really gave two shits about her. 2. Confidence � It�s all about knocking that first one out of the way. Once I know I can do it, the easier it will be to do it again 3. Someone There � I need someone there for me and someone who I feel needs me to be there for them. I just love that feeling that there�s someone to talk to that makes me feel good, even if it�s a conversation about nothing. 4. Do Things � I love going and doing things and, not to sound ungrateful to my friends, but it�s just so much better with girls. If it�s a movie or if it�s just washing the car, it�s that much better with someone you like. 5. The Good Stuff � Making out, holding hands and cuddling. That�s right I said it and dammit I mean it, cuddling. Sex��no no no FUCK sex, I want to cuddle. Ok well if it�s some girl I care about a lot and I�ve been with her a while then you go further but I�m not seeing a long term relationship in my future. 6. To Prove My Friends Wrong � I will NOT kill myself after my first breakup. Assholes. Those would have to be my main reasons for wanting one. Does this whole rant have too much of a purpose? Maybe, I don�t know but it�s a rant and this is what I wanted to rant about so eh, that�s how rants go. Until Further Notice, Adam My Reply |