| Nags's Life Right Now |
| April 23, 2009 Hey, what's happening? I figure after almost 4 years away, why not do another site update? I'm sure the traffic will be way down but eh, it keeps me away from video games. Since I know most of you won't want the daunting task of having to read 3 1/2 years of my life (since you know how long winded I can be) I'll just provide an overview and then other pages in a year by year breakdown (from birthday to birthday). Lucky you. Now you'll have something to read at work. Year by year breakdown 05-06 (age 21) - Alcohol, work, trees and Thriving Ivory 06-07 (age 22) - More work, a lot less alcohol and big news 07-08 (age 23) - The tail end of sober, promotion and alone at last 08-current (age 24) - The good life Overview So what can I really do to give you a good overview of what has been happening? Well I've gone from part-time all the way to supervisor, I'm in probably the best shape of my life, money is no longer an issue for me, the parents no longer live with me, girls have come and girls have gone, friends have stayed, I've lost family and too many friends from this world and so much more. As far as work, who would have guessed that almost 5 years later I'd still be at a job where a boss tried to get me to quit at only 3 or 4 weeks into my tenure? I sure didn't. Now I'm a supervisor running a department with 15 people directly below me. It's a good job, a stable job, an easy job and a job I'm good at. My co-workers are great at their job and therefore it makes my job even easier. I've lucked out. As far as girls go...well you know that old story with me. There have been a few girls, some I've really really liked to some I've just had fleeting crushes on. There have been girls I thought were gonna work out that didn't and some girls that wanted it to work out and I didn't. It just seems like no girls that I find quality finds me to be the same. It could be that I'm not finding many girls to be quality lately. Maybe or maybe I just know what I want more now than in the past. Currently..maybe there's a girl I'm interested in...maybe there's not. Who knows? Me! But I'll never tell...unless you ask then maybe. Sometimes it feels weird having a lot of my friends be married and have kids while I'm sitting here without a girl but then again whatever, when I finally do find a girl it'll have been worth it hopefully. And I did declare myself asexual a few years back and besides a few heterosexual moments, I think I've still got that going for me. And to be honest, where I'm at right now...I love my life. I mean yes there are things about it that could be better (notably not living with my sister and having a quality girl around to spend time with) but really, my life has deviated from whatever plan I had once put together for it and it's turned out better than I could ever expect. Yes there's still heartbreak, tears and fears but that's never gone. The fact of the matter is there are a whole lot of people in this world (including friends of mine) that have it a whole lot worse than I do. I've been blessed to have such quality people in my life that were able to get me through the tough times and are now here to see me be truly happy. If the only thing that's keeping me from being 100% complete is someone to share this with then I can live with that for now. I'm 24 (almost 25 >shudders<) and I have a great job, a house to live in and more friends than most people. So bad times you can go ahead and suck it. I'm doing just fine. Until Further Notice, Adam |