otherside

One of the most misunderstood things about mediums, Is thinking we see all, heaven, hell, the loved ones in pure form. Or even know what the loved ones is wanting to relay to the ones left here.
Problem is that we can see them and undertand them it's not always in the form of our eyesight, Passed ones, use many types of contact. Some use symbols, or leters, Some may want to show themselves while others sit quietly in the corner giving you tiny signals. They only tend to show things that are of relavance. for instance they may show me a broken car, and this would be to say be carfefull with the car, or something related to that.
Symbols are used when they wish not to speak , but they still want to relay a message. This could include anything that has a direct/indirect meaning. And the reason they choose this method is not revealed to me. Although you may understand , and they may explain why, If I asked. Although I do like to allow them some respect.
They may show or tell me where they are, where they like to be, or scenes that the loved one understands. They may sit down stand up, walk away , turn away, they do many things that tells us alot of things.
And sometimes they wont show up at all, this reason could be as different from night into day as to why , So I refuse to push, because they might not come back at all.
They sometimes pass on information about something I would not know such as, someone giving birth, or just a symbol with out an explanation.
Just because a medium can't reach someone, dosen't mean the medium is bad, it just means they may not want to come forward.
One thing I find is that although they will answer questions, they don't seem to be in a rush to answer it. Kinda works on a need to know basis, if you need to know, they will clue you in.
Where are they.. I hear that so very often. Well Ican't tell you what exact place unless they let me know, but I can tell you that, They are normally someplace between , so they can connect with you.
But you must understand you will know when a medium is connected with your loved one. loved ones, friends and relitives both don't waste time, and they do get detailed. So allways remind yourself to watch for things you know, feel or understand.And also remember we live by a time clock they don't. We understand time , days, weeks, years its all the same to the ones passed on. So you must understand alhough its been 30 years for you, It's nothing to them.

Love. We use that word on a daily basis, we love our dogs, our new cars, our children our mates, but so often, the word love gets thrown around as if it is only a word, when in fact Love is a place a deep spiritual place. Loved ones do love you , they have pride, saddness, and they show it. To a passed one love is . Its a place , but more than that they are surrounded in it, bath in it, and are wrapped by it. Love means so much more than we can understand.
Ways they show it :
Symbols, of flowers, ( roses, smiles, signals over the heart, etc.. )
they may make you feel a touch while you are in a relaxed state , In a dream, a voice way off in the distance a memory, a feeling, they may chosse to visit you and express it, or they may just use symbols. They are still the same only have different ways of getting our attention. So these ways can often come in many forms. They love compleatly, no anger, no hate. The otherside is a place that hate, greed, pain have no meaning.