- Robin Fucking Black
Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as meaningless experiences go, it's pretty damned good.
-Woody Allen
Of the delights of this world, man cares most for sexual intercourse, yet he has left it out of his heaven. -Mark Twain
Anyways, the way I see it as is there are three different degrees of sex:
First Degree of Sex:
There is no love involved here. It is done just purely for pleasure. Names don't even need to be exchanged. Just thrust thrust grunt grunt oh ya and ta da! We're done. This can be done as a one night stand, or on various other random occasions. However, this sort of touches the Second Degree of Sex.
Second Degree of Sex:
The second degree is basically the "Fuck Buddy" status. I believe that there is a type of love here. Not a romantic sort of love, just a friendly kind of love. Why else would they continue seeing each other? Unless one of them a really good lay or something. But there is a bond of some sort between these two individuals. Very hard to explain however.
Third Degree of Sex:
This is the best kind of sex there is. Also known as "Making Love". This kind of sex is not only done for pleasure (the pleasure factor is always going to be there), but because there is romantic love involved, it can only enhance the process. You do it to not only empty your testicles (boys), but to feel that intimacy and closeness with the one you love. And there's no way you can beat that.
However, the only way you can achieve this act is through true love. You can say whatever the hell you want, but you really have to love this person, unconditionally. It's very complicated unfortunately.
In order for one to be truly happy, not only sexually but various other aspects of "happiness", one must achieve the perfect balance of all three. Everyone one is different so it totally depends on the person on what the balance is. You just can't stick to one particular kind of sex. You also have to be able to distinguish between the different kinds.
Sex is not "the act of love". It can be AN act, but it's not THE act. Sex only has to have all those emotions and feelings twisted up in there if you put them there. And I find that to be a problem generally most associated with women. They tend to associate love with sex too much. A woman should always remember this: Just because he stuck his dick in your pussy doesn't mean he loves you, let alone even like you.
Before two people should ever engage in "sexual intercourse", they should both be clear with each other their expectations. If the both of you want no committeemen what so ever afterwards, that's fine. However, if one wants a relationship and the other doesn't, than just simply don't fuck. Simple as that. You're just putting yourself in a world of hurt and emotional turmoil.
I really don't like how our society is so uptight about sex. I mean, without it there would be no human race. And it makes people happy! It's so much fun! Another thing that pisses me off is how men can sleep around and not get a bad reputation, yet a girl does the exact same thing she is deemed a "whore" or "slut" and other negative shit. It's all bull shit because it's the EXACT same thing! It's sexist. Women are just as horny as men, even though they may not admit it or be so open about it as men. We are all equal here. Why should one be praised
and the other chastised for the SAME action. Just because one happens to have born with a dangly thing between his legs? Makes no sense to me.
Now I realize I may be deemed as a "slut" for my point of view and my actions. And I am ready to take that. Doesn't make it the least bit right. I'm just trying to change society's outtake on sex. IT'S JUST SEX! One of the most fun and beautiful aspects of life. Your parents had sex. Otherwise you wouldn't be here. If it wasn't for sex, than there would be no human race. So why not have fun while we're at it? Just make sure to play it safe and good times shall be had by all.