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Monday- October 17, 2005 |
Conversation I had with a friend on the topic of sex.
Thxs sista for always taking your time to listening and talking with me. Much love. One.
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DC: im sayin..i cant have a relationship with a girl without doing it
DC: its like i gotta do it
IRS: WHA
IRS: no u dont
DC: but i know i shouldnt
IRS: u need to control yourself
DC: plzzz
IRS: im serious
DC: it aint dat easy
IRS: its lust.
DC: true
IRS: and make sure you dont provoke her to do it
DC: omg..yea rite
DC: this is DC u talkin bout
DC: im nothin but dawg
IRS: dont coax her
IRS: u need to pray ..that GOd will provide you a girl that is wise
IRS: ya kno?
DC: aigoo
DC: true
IRS: u need to pray for your future wife
IRS: its never too late :-)
DC: yea i know
DC: but its harder to act on it..to follow it
DC: cuz in da moment...i gotta hit it up
DC: thats how i roll
DC: i know..see i know that but then i give into temptation..im weak when it comes to that
IRS: welll..at least you know your downfall
IRS: the next step is for you to act upon it..
IRS: read those books
DC: damn
DC: soo freakin hard
IRS: well..
IRS: do you wnat the girl to jsut be w/ you cuz of the sex
IRS: dont u want to KNOW the girl on a deeper level..
IRS: have a connection. i think thats the most important thing
DC: yea..true
IRS: i mean, u know it's not what God wants..everythign we do in life should be pleasing to God
IRS: and then he'll bless our lives when we please Him.
IRS: u need to pray upon that..to be STRONG.!
DC: okay
IRS: its one fo the hardest thigns
IRS: think of it as this..
IRS: if you had younger sis..
IRS: and she was dating a guy..woudlnt u wanna kill that guy if u knew what he was doing to your sis?
DC: yea true
DC: but when i see a fine ass naked body i dont think of my sister...i see gametime!
DC: haha
IRS: aigoo
IRS: u gotta respect the girl by being her friend..i think thats more beautiful than anything else
IRS: sex is made for marriage
IRS: to reproduce
IRS: not for pleasure before marriage
IRS: but solely for AFTER marraige
DC: ok
DC: i know this..but its so hard no to do it
IRS: thats why GOd gave us fellowship and friends....thats like before marriage
IRS: and when you get married..you get to know the person on a deeper level..they correct your mistakes and love you no matter what. it's like a reflection of God's love in a marriage
IRS: doing it w/ a girl, just makes the girl more dependent on the guy.
DC: could u clarify wat u mean by "dependent on the guy"
DC: sorry im slow
IRS: they get attached..hm...
IRS: cuz u know girls..we're just soo dependent on guys?
IRS: that's if the girl likes doing it too..it makes the girl alawsy want sex..and thats all the relationship becomes focused on.
IRS: its not a "true" relationship.
IRS: its like having a valuable baseball card thats worth a lot. u want to trade it in now to get money czu youre tempted to get money NOW..but when you save it longer..u trade it in and u realize its WORTh is More than ever..
IRS: and you have all that money to spend it on things you want and you see the BEAUTY of it being spent well..cuz u were wise on saving it til later
IRS: u gotta see the beauty of sustaining yourself til after marriage
IRS: its soo much more worth the wait..
IRS: cuz you know..that doing "stuff" that will attach you and the girl together..and the relatinoship will be based on emotions instead of true love, ya kno?
IRS: cuz youll just be addicted to "making love" and not being "in love".
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Friday - October 14, 2005 |
Waking the Dead, John Eldredge writes:
There are few things more crucial to us than our own lives. And there are few things we are less clear about. This journey we are taking is hardly down the yellow brick road. Then again, that's not a bad analogy at all. We may set out in the light, with hope and joy, but eventually our paths always seems to lead us into the woods, shrouded with a low-lying mist. Where is this abundant life that Christ supposedly promised? Where is God when we need him most? What is to become of us?
The cumulative effect of days upon years that we do not really understand is a subtle erosion. We come to doubt our place, we come to question God's intentions toward us, and we lose track of the most important things in life.
We're not fully convinced that God's offer to us is life. We have forgotten that the heart is central. And we had no idea that we were born into a world at war.
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